Bachelorette 16 - Tayshia Adams - F1-F4- *Sleuthing Spoilers*

Ruqibabe wrote:I am so suspicious of Brendan.. I just smell clout chasing... I dont see long term commitment with him. I only see dating and chasing of opportunities... I don't smell marriage at all... He ain't ready in my opinion..

I don't really get a clout chasing vibe from him that's anything out of the ordinary compared to most people who come on the show these days or most of the other contestants this season I just looked at his IG and since the season started he doesn't seem to be heavily posting or posting anything particularly obnoxious.

@msjr  I agree.  He was IMO so genuinely emotional with her and his family. He said if he could have "molded a bachelorette, it would be Tayshia". Dr. Joe who many of us on here admire speaks glowingly of him,  several of the guys mention that he was the nicest guy of the group.  He does not present to me as someone with ulterior motives beyond anyone who comes on this show.

@msjr @pavalygurl I agree that he is nice BUT when I check his pictures and see all the model pictures, it makes me suspicious... I get the influencer vibe from him.. I hope I am wrong..

@Ruqibabe I felt the same way about him when I first saw his IG.

I guess it's the model thing to do, but I have no interest in looking at a bunch of selfies, as if they care what I think.

Ruqibabe wrote:https://www.instagram.com/p/CI_VazHFhWQ/?igshid=1bxev137ybukw

What do we think??? Happy Ending or heartbroken?

 'I am excited for you to see where my heart leads me...' Me getting happy vibes here       

Hello everyone first of all, new posting but I have been a lurker for awhile. Love the site by the way such beautiful banners.

Well my take on this is the one thing that stands out the most for me in this post more is when she talks about reality TV and how it is has been taxing over the last few weeks and all her emotions after watching the playback (which during this time she has let guys go who folks on social media have had some serious misgivings about & expressing all over SM). Anyway, This to me IMO could be referencing all the rumors & stuff coming out about her decision on who she picks, maybe dumped to move on with (Br), and/or just the comments that are being made against Zac (because this has all been in the last 2 weeks overkill), so many seem to have an opinion on Zac's past that is just so harsh. Even so many folks saying she better not choose him because of his past or even jumping on her about why she eliminated some men over others, ect. (then the ex-husband speaking out is another aspect). So again this part speaks more volume to me than the last two sentences.

Again the wording of "Bittersweet" can mean anything especially depending on the context she is using rather was it bittersweet for the journey itself in having to let so many good guys go or is it bittersweet in who she chose & it did not turn out as she expected? Just weird that she would say that After she states that she cant wait for us to see where her heart takes her.

@GuardianAngel Intially, I was ok with any of the F3 then I checked Brendan's SM and it was head scratching...  The pictures he posted and the ones he liked... I honestly believe she would stay the same if she goes for Brendan.. She won't explore her maximum potential.. the influencer life would be enough... 
I also really liked Ivan until I watched Noah's full interview and he talked about sharing notes with Ivan.. I don't like men that can't keep their personal life private... This is where Zac's maturity speaks volume. 

Anyway, I cant wait to see how the season ends and what happens afterward.

@chasus71 I agree with your assessment that the Ex's interview and the way people troll Zac on Taysha's page is enough to make a person emotional and sad.. 
I won't read much into the bittersweet, it sounds like the caption was tailored by the Bachelorette producers.. 

I hope and pray that she is still with her final pick...

Ruqibabe wrote:@chasus71 I agree with your assessment that the Ex's interview and the way people troll Zac on Taysha's page is enough to make a person emotional and sad.. 
I won't read much into the bittersweet, it sounds like the caption was tailored by the Bachelorette producers.. 

I hope and pray that she is still with her final pick...

I agree as well, I hope she is still with her F1 & both are very happy together.

@chasus71 Great first post! Hope you continue sharing your thoughts.

I guess I'm one of the few that is clueless as to what all the negative SM comments are towards Zac.

I say this every season, I wish the lead would just ignore and be happy rather than experiencing emotional turmoil because of comments from people they don't know JMHO. I'm sure it's difficult, but I believe if you're happy with the ending, whether you chose someone or not, or whether there is a break up, those that don't have an impact on your life shouldn't matter. JMO.

Ok, all season long I’ve said I haven’t seen anything to suggest Tayshia’s with Brendan or that they’ve even met up. Here’s something. Between yesterday & today, Tayshia seems to have posted 2 latergrams that were actually taken on Wednesday. Then we have Brendan who I haven’t been able to place real time since Wednesday night. He posted a video this morning of his niece teaching him to play the piano, but when I check Brendan’s SIL’s page, the niece is with her mom at the store helping out, different outfit & everything.

GuardianAngel wrote:@chasus71 Great first post! Hope you continue sharing your thoughts.

Thank you so much, I already feel so welcome.

The other thing I am thinking about is that perhaps she is feeling some kind of way because maybe she is the one who actually sends Brendan home instead of him walking away? Same for Ben she doesn't keep him and quickly send him away, Then she also breaks up with Ivan during LCD? There is still a clip of Ivan crying saying "please don't do this to me" that was in the Claire's season promo and when I went back to look at it, it definitely looks like he is in a LCD setting. JMO

If this is what actually plays out then I am sure she is aware that sm folks are going to be beyond furious. Maybe this is why she feels the need to post this? JMO.

But I agree with you @GuardianAngel if she is happy with whoever she chose then no reason to really care about the haters. It is not like this is her first rodeo in this franchise and being faced with negativity.

I really don't see how they wouldn't hype that up in the previews and do a ATFR??? like what she's just going to drop that in a IG post "oh sorry not with Zac I am with Brendan now" like what