Bachelorette 16 - Tayshia Adams - F1-F4- *Sleuthing Spoilers*

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sdmom wrote:@HEA it’s a different shot.

I changed my previous post. See above


It looks indeed a fancy ring. I hope it is but I doubt it.

I know many want the old days back when it was easier to sleuth. Now they know better. I don’t think she has it before the finale. IMO

FYI. It is not that expensive to buy a fancy ring on eBay. Many sellers from Thailand are offering them for less than a 50-100$.
Here are some I bought... and I am not engaged. I just have big hands and small rings looks ridiculous

So although it is still possible, I want to give an alternative

JMO

None of your rings have a pave diamond band like hers does or even look like a diamond worn on the left ring finger like she is doing. It actually looks similar to Hannah Brown's Neil Lane ring. I know my rings too and that def looks like an engagement ring.

Thoughts on the F1:

It could be the spoiler is right and Tayshia’s with Zac.

But, RS pretty much always gets the F1 wrong initially and then changes course at the last minute. From reading next week’s epi recap I think Brendan will leave at the end of next week’s episode.

Rachel on Clickbait had that whole thing about looking over her shoulder which I think meant someone comes back. Rachel was looking back over her shoulder. Rachel then asked Tayshia if she “embraced it” and Tayshia said “yes”. I’m beginning to think maybe Brendan does come back and he’s F1. They have had ups and downs but are currently good because Tayshia seems happy right now on SM. This would explain some of Rachel’s negative comments I hear she’s made about Zac and Tayshia’s positive comments about Brendan. This theory holds more water if Rachel now knows for sure Brendan is F1.

seton wrote:

HEA wrote:

sdmom wrote:@HEA it’s a different shot.

I changed my previous post. See above


It looks indeed a fancy ring. I hope it is but I doubt it.

I know many want the old days back when it was easier to sleuth. Now they know better. I don’t think she has it before the finale. IMO

FYI. It is not that expensive to buy a fancy ring on eBay. Many sellers from Thailand are offering them for less than a 50-100$.
Here are some I bought... and I am not engaged. I just have big hands and small rings looks ridiculous

So although it is still possible, I want to give an alternative

JMO

None of your rings have a pave diamond band like hers does or even look like a diamond worn on the left ring finger like she is doing. It actually looks similar to Hannah Brown's Neil Lane ring. I know my rings too and that def looks like an engagement ring.

Those are only examples. Take them as it is... my point is you can easily buy gems on eBay.

Just type engagement ring....  or cocktail ring diamond........ tons and tons.......

No needs to be engaged to love diamond or big rings. That’s my point

...


Credit ebay

I am really enjoying this F4 group of men more than any I can remember.  All are good men.  I thought that to myself when she went off stage at this last group date and cried, overcome with emotion.  She mentioned to the art teacher, something like this is what happens when you date "men".  

Much as I think Zac is "a miracle" and am happy for his recovery and joy for life, this episode gave me a bit of pause.  I think the best way to explain this is to say, I've seen this happen, to a close family member.  It is part sheer terror, part anger, part frustration, part hopeless.  Then by the grace of God or whatever, it changes and there is hope and hard work, and re-building of trust and getting healthy and whole.  And it brings me to tears just remembering.  And it is so so very good also.   But it also means that life needs to change for this person, and in some ways for those who love them.  It takes time.  I know Zac has been sober for some time, but this is kind of new to Tashia.  I am not saying it could/would not work for Zac and Tayshia.  But, for them most of all, I think time is their friend.  I don't think getting engaged to meet the expectations of us as fans or the push of tptb would be a good thing.  If they are together I hope they take the time they need and treasure it and figure it out together.

Personally I am sad that Brendan leaves.  I just don't know for sure what I think about it.  The guy I've seen so far and the guy Joe and others, like Kenny describe does not seem like someone who would want to hurt Tayshia.  I am so curious to see how this plays out. 
I'd still like to see her with Brendan.  IDK if this happens.  I wonder if it could be after filming, but I really don't know.  To me, he seems most in sync with her.  He's also been married/divorced.  They have a joyfulness, attraction, and comfort between them that I don't see with any one else.  

I think as some has mentioned that she admires/respects Ivan but I see them as friends more than anything.  Wonderful man and I would love to see him again.

IDK if she and Ben would make a good couple.  He's made tremendous strides on this season and I think will continue to do so, but I think he's got some things to figure out and work on before having an engagement to anyone.

ETA:  Sorry for such a long post, but I forgot to add something Veg said triggered it...at the end credits the rose dropped off Zac's jacket and he joked that "Tayshia broke up with me".   I agree this is a staple of tptb editing tricks.

gabriele wrote:Thoughts on the F1:

It could be the spoiler is right and Tayshia’s with Zac.

But, RS pretty much always gets the F1 wrong initially and then changes course at the last minute. From reading next week’s epi recap I think Brendan will leave at the end of next week’s episode.

Rachel on Clickbait had that whole thing about looking over her shoulder which I think meant someone comes back over her shoulder. Rachel was looking back. Rachel then asked Tayshia if she “embraced it” and Tayshia said “yes”. I’m beginning to think maybe Brendan does come back and he’s F1. They have had ups and downs but are currently good because Tayshia seems happy right now on SM. This would explain some of Rachel’s negative comments I hear she’s made about Zac and Tayshia’s positive comments about Brendan. This theory holds more water if Rachel now knows for sure Brendan is F1.

This has been my thought as well . I don't see Zac as her F1. I thoght initially it could've been him, but when she posted that kissing GIF of Brendan, it didn't make sense to me. Why would she post that if she was with someone else?
Also, I was waiting to see what Tayshia would post about her 1-on-1 dates to compare.. She acknowledged Ivan in an Instagram story, but no posts on her actual Instagram page. Then last night, nothing about her date with Zac.
Just a couple of pics of herself and one with Jojo.
So far, the only 1-on-1 date pics she's posted are with Brendan.
So, I think Brendan could be her F1. And I'm basing this off of Tayshia's SM activity and not the supposed spoiler that's out.

HEA wrote:

seton wrote:

HEA wrote:

sdmom wrote:@HEA it’s a different shot.

I changed my previous post. See above


It looks indeed a fancy ring. I hope it is but I doubt it.

I know many want the old days back when it was easier to sleuth. Now they know better. I don’t think she has it before the finale. IMO

FYI. It is not that expensive to buy a fancy ring on eBay. Many sellers from Thailand are offering them for less than a 50-100$.
Here are some I bought... and I am not engaged. I just have big hands and small rings looks ridiculous

So although it is still possible, I want to give an alternative

JMO

None of your rings have a pave diamond band like hers does or even look like a diamond worn on the left ring finger like she is doing. It actually looks similar to Hannah Brown's Neil Lane ring. I know my rings too and that def looks like an engagement ring.

Those are only examples. Take them as it is... my point is you can easily buy gems on eBay.

Just type engagement ring....  or cocktail ring diamond........ tons and tons.......

No needs to be engaged to love diamond or big rings. That’s my point

Credit ebay

And MY point is that she chose to wear ONLY that diamond ring and her LEFT RING FINGER. That is a choice. She does have nine other fingers that she can use and she, as well as everyone else, knows what a diamond ring on that finger means.

gabriele wrote:Thoughts on the F1:

It could be the spoiler is right and Tayshia’s with Zac.

But, RS pretty much always gets the F1 wrong initially and then changes course at the last minute. From reading next week’s epi recap I think Brendan will leave at the end of next week’s episode.

Rachel on Clickbait had that whole thing about looking over her shoulder which I think meant someone comes back over her shoulder. Rachel was looking back. Rachel then asked Tayshia if she “embraced it” and Tayshia said “yes”. I’m beginning to think maybe Brendan does come back and he’s F1. They have had ups and downs but are currently good because Tayshia seems happy right now on SM. This would explain some of Rachel’s negative comments I hear she’s made about Zac and Tayshia’s positive comments about Brendan. This theory holds more water if Rachel now knows for sure Brendan is F1.

There is an insider on reddit that says that Brendan does NOT come back. It's not just RS.

quietpal wrote:

gabriele wrote:Thoughts on the F1:

It could be the spoiler is right and Tayshia’s with Zac.

But, RS pretty much always gets the F1 wrong initially and then changes course at the last minute. From reading next week’s epi recap I think Brendan will leave at the end of next week’s episode.

Rachel on Clickbait had that whole thing about looking over her shoulder which I think meant someone comes back over her shoulder. Rachel was looking back. Rachel then asked Tayshia if she “embraced it” and Tayshia said “yes”. I’m beginning to think maybe Brendan does come back and he’s F1. They have had ups and downs but are currently good because Tayshia seems happy right now on SM. This would explain some of Rachel’s negative comments I hear she’s made about Zac and Tayshia’s positive comments about Brendan. This theory holds more water if Rachel now knows for sure Brendan is F1.

This has been my thought as well . I don't see Zac as her F1. I thoght initially it could've been him, but when she posted that kissing GIF of Brendan, it didn't make sense to me. Why would she post that if she was with someone else?
Also, I was waiting to see what Tayshia would post about her 1-on-1 dates to compare.. She acknowledged Ivan in an Instagram story, but no posts on her actual Instagram page. Then last night, nothing about her date with Zac.
Just a couple of pics of herself and one with Jojo.
So far, the only 1-on-1 date pics she's posted are with Brendan.
So, I think Brendan could be her F1. And I'm basing this off of Tayshia's SM activity and not the supposed spoiler that's out.

I do think she picked Zac. I’m just very, very confused by her SM behavior if they’re still together.

Nothing is innocent with producers. Imo.

So yes. The rose falling and the tayshia broke up with me gave me pause.
Both zac and Brendan were married and divorced. So both have this in common..

If Brendan left because he feared engagement pressure. I think he didn’t give much chance to tayshia to compromise. He ran away.

She went after pauljones after all, so she could have done the same with Brendan.

Zac on the other hand followed tayshia closely during her tv presentation. Either no hard feelings or they are together. Both also, as per Renee here were MIA for few days. Easy to be with parents on thanksgiving DAY, take few pics, and take the plane the following day. Nobody has a 9-5 mon-fri kind of job also...

The sister friend seems very adamant Brendan is not F1 but tayshia wanted Brendan....

Is it possible she got so confused that she picked nobody but after the finale she met Brendan for an explanation, proposed dating a la Colton? Then maybe she saw her feelings were stronger with zac and did the same?

I am trying to think who fit the best and somehow, all the bumps zac and producers are developing... ex drug alcoholic addict, ex cheater, potentially dad disapproval...... that makes a F1 in my head.

Brendan was a bit too quiet last episode. That doesn’t fit a F1 edits. Generally F1 and F2 are very much forehead to confuse the viewers. Here no confusion with Brendan. He was mostly absent. Imo

The way she welcomed Brendan and we saw 30 seconds of it with a girly voice.... no doubt he  is on her top list. Imo

Having a possible engagement ring on her recent Instagram doesn’t fit any scenario....

However in my head I believe she wanted zac and Brendan at the end. His departure probably left her with an unfinished and regrets. Imo

So I vision an after finale reunion. Who is her F1. Not sure. But if she put a Colton deal on the table... she also said in recent interviews that she fell in love with multiple guys....

I still bend on Zac, though.

JMO

FWIW, I'm not sure Tayshia's engaged, although I think she could be. Nothing that I've seen so far (including the spoiler) points to Zac as her F1. Only Brendan IMO.

I watch what she posts as I think she's very strategic in what pics she shares. So far she's liked a kissing GIF of Brendan and posted two pics of their 1-on-1.
Nothing of Zac except the group date pic that was lightened up.

Regardless, I'm looking forward to see how the ending plays out, but right now I don't see it with Zac.

quietpal wrote:FWIW, I'm not sure Tayshia's engaged, although I think she could be. Nothing that I've seen so far from her SM points to Zac as her F1. Only Brendan IMO.
I watch what she posts as I think she's very strategic in what pics she shares.
Regardless, I'm looking forward to see how the ending plays out, but right now I don't see it with Zac.

After reading your previous post I just checked her IG. She has some stories up but nada about Zac in them. And, you’re right that the only pics on her page from a 1-1 date are two, not one, from the date with Brendan. He also has both of those pics on his main IG page. The plot thickens.

@seton We’ll see if the Reddit insider has accurate info on Noah. The insider said Bennett comes back and Tayshia let’s him come to the RC and at that RC she sends both Bennett and Noah home. But, we have what looks to be a RC outdoors where Noah has a rose on and that isn’t the next one as the guys are indoors in the photo that was spoiled with the F7. Oh wait. Didn’t Noah get a group date rose already? Off to see if it’s a different shirt on him or the same. If the insider’s intel is wrong on Noah then they may not have correct intel on Brendan either.

How can she let go Noah at RC if he received the rose at the 2-1 date? A rose secures his stay for another week no?