Bachelor 24 - Peter Weber - General Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

Doggoneit wrote:@Jolena you are right.  Not going to be a happy ending - unless we see Peter leaving Hannah B's apartment AFR!   ha ha!
Peter's "I am in a good spot" was quite telling!  That Big Smiling Peter has been no where to be seen in most recent interviews!

As far as Hannah B I don't see that happening at all. I do think he will be single at the end of this, him and Madi will be friends and Peter will have a girlfriend in no time. Im sad though because I was hoping for a different ending and It's obvious it's not going to happen this season. jmo IF by some chance they do leave ATFR as a couple to try the real world .I still don't see it working out for them , although I'm going to watch and I'm still interested in how it all goes down I'm pretty much deflated with this season. jmo

i think it is interesting that Madi was seen shooting footage yesterday. Gave me Jed vibes.

Here's the thing - if Peter is actually in "Love" with Madi, he wouldn't have slept with the others.  IMO, if he's trying to form any kind of relationship with Madi now, he is just back-peddling.  It just doesn't make sense to me.  He let some women on this season go that were clearly ready for what he says he wants.  He's NOT ready for a wife - he still wants to play around.  That's fine, but his actions clearly aren't matching his words! *IMO*

Fan4life wrote:Here's the thing - if Peter is actually in "Love" with Madi, he wouldn't have slept with the others.  IMO, if he's trying to form any kind of relationship with Madi now, he is just back-peddling.  It just doesn't make sense to me.  He let some women on this season go that were clearly ready for what he says he wants.  He's NOT ready for a wife - he still wants to play around.  That's fine, but his actions clearly aren't matching his words!

100%.
IMO he seems to be trying to make a square peg fit in a round hole. She is the most mature of the 4 left. IMO there is no way they are still together. If they are, there is no way they make it past seeing him in a FSD with anyone else. It's one thing to know it, it's another having to watch it. With that being said, did she know who's season of the Bachelor she was signing up for?

Fan4life wrote:Here's the thing - if Peter is actually in "Love" with Madi, he wouldn't have slept with the others.  IMO, if he's trying to form any kind of relationship with Madi now, he is just back-peddling.  It just doesn't make sense to me.  He let some women on this season go that were clearly ready for what he says he wants.  He's NOT ready for a wife - he still wants to play around.  That's fine, but his actions clearly aren't matching his words!

He hasn’t said he loves her or is in love with her, yet. He said he was falling in love. To me he wasn’t there yet.. imo

Fan4life wrote:Here's the thing - if Peter is actually in "Love" with Madi, he wouldn't have slept with the others.  IMO, if he's trying to form any kind of relationship with Madi now, he is just back-peddling.  It just doesn't make sense to me.  He let some women on this season go that were clearly ready for what he says he wants.  He's NOT ready for a wife - he still wants to play around.  That's fine, but his actions clearly aren't matching his words!

@Fan4life
Disagree. “In Love” and sexually faithful are two different things, especially to a man like Peter. The “Peter” in charge chases pretty panties, period. There was no way, ever, ever, ever this man was going to not sleep with a couple of those girls. No way. There is a very female view that says when you love someone, you cannot and will not have sex with anyone else. All I can say is if that were true, half the world’s problems would be solved, divorce rate would be less than half of what it is, prostitution wouldn’t be the world’s oldest profession, gentleman’s clubs wouldn’t create an income stream and life would be simple.

As it happens, I believe Peter is NOT ready for marriage, he can’t keep it in his pants because he’s not the boss of him and unfortunately, that conflict will likely plague him for most of his life. IMO it’s all over him, Horn Dog Syndrome. It’s like an evil curse that parts men from their children and the women they love, daily. Madi should run and keep on running. Love does not cure it. She deserves a better man. One who doesn’t suffer from that disorder. There is such a man out there for her and she should follow her head and heart to find him and leave Peter alone. All IMO.

Doggoneit wrote:i think it is interesting that Madi was seen shooting footage yesterday.  Gave me Jed vibes.

I didn't watch that season. What vibes?

Tiggerlgh wrote:

Fan4life wrote:Here's the thing - if Peter is actually in "Love" with Madi, he wouldn't have slept with the others.  IMO, if he's trying to form any kind of relationship with Madi now, he is just back-peddling.  It just doesn't make sense to me.  He let some women on this season go that were clearly ready for what he says he wants.  He's NOT ready for a wife - he still wants to play around.  That's fine, but his actions clearly aren't matching his words!

He hasn’t said he loves her or is in love with her, yet.  He said he was falling in love. To me he wasn’t there yet..  imo

Madi hasn’t yet told Peter more than that she really likes him.
IMO she needs to verbalize a stronger level of emotion before fairly expecting him to conform to her wants. JMO of course he could not have sex with anyone based on the possibility she might later become “in love” but for now this is a grey area because she as of now isn’t emotionally reciprocating.

I don’t think Peter is ready for marriage. I don’t think he understands how to make a long term relationship work. I actually like Madi & think she could do a lot better. Separate from liking Madi & disliking Peter, I think they’re also not a good fit for each other. And despite all of that I still don’t think Madi or any contestant has the right to make demands of what and lead is allowed to do in their other relationships. I think once you sign up for the show it’s what you agree to, & you don’t have to like it but you should respect it. All jmo.

notarose wrote:

Tiggerlgh wrote:

Fan4life wrote:Here's the thing - if Peter is actually in "Love" with Madi, he wouldn't have slept with the others.  IMO, if he's trying to form any kind of relationship with Madi now, he is just back-peddling.  It just doesn't make sense to me.  He let some women on this season go that were clearly ready for what he says he wants.  He's NOT ready for a wife - he still wants to play around.  That's fine, but his actions clearly aren't matching his words!

He hasn’t said he loves her or is in love with her, yet.  He said he was falling in love. To me he wasn’t there yet..  imo

Madi hasn’t yet told Peter more than that she really likes him.
IMO she needs to verbalize a stronger level of emotion before fairly expecting him to conform to her wants. JMO of course he could not have sex with anyone based on the possibility she might later become “in love” but for now this is a grey area because she as of now isn’t emotionally reciprocating.

I think this is an excellent point. Based on spoilers, it doesn't sounds like Madison's HTD goes well. Maybe Peter questions Madison's feelings for him, her level of commitment to him (especially if her dad doesn't like him), and is seeing if his feelings for one of the other two women catch up? It's so common for leads to sleep with multiple people, even if they know their F1, so I find it disingenuous that Mills is bashing him. I also think that Madison should have brought up her virginity and her feelings about him sleeping with someone else before the F3 rose ceremony to give Peter time to process it.

Emeralds wrote:

notarose wrote:

Tiggerlgh wrote:

Fan4life wrote:Here's the thing - if Peter is actually in "Love" with Madi, he wouldn't have slept with the others.  IMO, if he's trying to form any kind of relationship with Madi now, he is just back-peddling.  It just doesn't make sense to me.  He let some women on this season go that were clearly ready for what he says he wants.  He's NOT ready for a wife - he still wants to play around.  That's fine, but his actions clearly aren't matching his words!

He hasn’t said he loves her or is in love with her, yet.  He said he was falling in love. To me he wasn’t there yet..  imo

Madi hasn’t yet told Peter more than that she really likes him.
IMO she needs to verbalize a stronger level of emotion before fairly expecting him to conform to her wants. JMO of course he could not have sex with anyone based on the possibility she might later become “in love” but for now this is a grey area because she as of now isn’t emotionally reciprocating.

I think this is an excellent point. Based on spoilers, it doesn't sounds like Madison's HTD goes well. Maybe Peter questions Madison's feelings for him, her level of commitment to him (especially if her dad doesn't like him), and is seeing if his feelings for one of the other two women catch up? It's so common for leads to sleep with multiple people, even if they know their F1, so I find it disingenuous that Mills is bashing him. I also think that Madison should have brought up her virginity and her feelings about him sleeping with someone else before the F3 rose ceremony to give Peter time to process it.

Apparently she does on the HTD according to RS and Robert Mills. That means he knew before even getting to the HTD with Victoria, who was filmed right after it, and he still made the choices he did. The only question is WHAT AND HOW she said to him and what was his reaction ...maybe her crying and walking away in the silver dress is that scene?
JMO

atem wrote:

Doggoneit wrote:i think it is interesting that Madi was seen shooting footage yesterday.  Gave me Jed vibes.

I didn't watch that season.  What vibes?

I heard they are doing that to throw RS offf!