Bachelorette 15 - Hannah Brown - July 29 & 30 - Finale - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #2

@Bleiby527 Not with him. With a girl he used to date. Yes, it’s based on what she told me about him.

After Part 1 of #TheBacheloretteFinale, we are still left with so many questions! How do you think Hannah's journey will end? Answer our #RealityCheck poll and watch at 4:30pm ET/1:30pm PT.

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Summerfun1980 wrote:@Bleiby527 Not with him. With a girl he used to date. Yes, it’s based on what she told me about him.

Tyler seems so, what's the word...normal and Hannah is a freaking trainwreck. These two are so mismatched. Run, Tyler, run!! Jmo

@Mommyof2 yes, very normal 20 year old guy that isn’t into drama, oh and has normal insecurities like every other 20 year old, and is far from this super confident, nothing bothers me, BDE guy, the internet thinks he is. Just a normal guy.

Mommyof2 wrote:

Summerfun1980 wrote:@Bleiby527 Not with him. With a girl he used to date. Yes, it’s based on what she told me about him.

Tyler seems so, what's the word...normal   and Hannah is a freaking trainwreck.  These two are so mismatched.  Run, Tyler, run!!
 Jmo

See, that's the reason that I think they would work. Tyler soothes Hannah, which signals to me that they forged a secure attachment during their FSD (well, really, since their first lobster date).

They remind me a bit of Ashley/JP from way back. Ash also had high anxiety but found so much safety and groundedness in even-keeled, easy-going JP. He kept showing up for her and trying to understand her regardless of everything else happening that season. Part of the drama at his MTP with her sister was due to Ash being calmer and serious with him versus goofy and high-octane with Ben. I saw the same thing last night with Hannah and Tyler; she was able to be calm with him around because he makes her feel so secure and loved for who she is.

I couldn't write off the change in her last night regardless of the way tonight plays out.

veg_out wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:

Summerfun1980 wrote:@Bleiby527 Not with him. With a girl he used to date. Yes, it’s based on what she told me about him.

Tyler seems so, what's the word...normal   and Hannah is a freaking trainwreck.  These two are so mismatched.  Run, Tyler, run!!
 Jmo

See, that's the reason that I think they would work. Tyler soothes Hannah, which signals to me that they forged a secure attachment during their FSD (well, really, since their first lobster date).

They remind me a bit of Ashley/JP from way back. Ash also had high anxiety but found so much safety and groundedness in even-keeled, easy-going JP. He kept showing up for her and trying to understand her regardless of everything else happening that season. Part of the drama at his MTP with her sister was due to Ash being calmer and serious with him versus goofy and high-octane with Ben. I saw the same thing last night with Hannah and Tyler; she was able to be calm with him around because he makes her feel so secure and loved for who she is.

I couldn't write off the change in her last night regardless of the way tonight plays out.

This is exactly how I see them also, and it’s like if Ashley would have chosen Bentley in the end. It’s going to be a darn shame if jed really ruined Hannah & Tyler for Hannah.

veg_out wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:

Summerfun1980 wrote:@Bleiby527 Not with him. With a girl he used to date. Yes, it’s based on what she told me about him.

Tyler seems so, what's the word...normal   and Hannah is a freaking trainwreck.  These two are so mismatched.  Run, Tyler, run!!
 Jmo

See, that's the reason that I think they would work. Tyler soothes Hannah, which signals to me that they forged a secure attachment during their FSD (well, really, since their first lobster date).

They remind me a bit of Ashley/JP from way back. Ash also had high anxiety but found so much safety and groundedness in even-keeled, easy-going JP. He kept showing up for her and trying to understand her regardless of everything else happening that season. Part of the drama at his MTP with her sister was due to Ash being calmer and serious with him versus goofy and high-octane with Ben. I saw the same thing last night with Hannah and Tyler; she was able to be calm with him around because he makes her feel so secure and loved for who she is.

I couldn't write off the change in her last night regardless of the way tonight plays out.

To me, Ashley seemed mature, but Hannah does not. Big difference. Being with someone extremely immature can be tiring and very annoying. I dated someone like that in my past. It was exhausting until I said, enough was enough. I can't speak for Tyler, but I cannot see him making fun of a man showing his backside on an IG post, but Hannah sure did. Hopefully she will learn this is not acceptable behavior...ever. It is one thing to make fun of yourself, but others? No. Just no. jmo

I don’t see Hannah as immature at all. She’s 24. She’s handling all of this so well. So, so, so well. With a smile on her face too. The girl is brave as hell.

@veg_out your posts are always so thoughtful and kind. Keep them coming. I agree with every word.

veg_out wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:

Summerfun1980 wrote:@Bleiby527 Not with him. With a girl he used to date. Yes, it’s based on what she told me about him.

Tyler seems so, what's the word...normal   and Hannah is a freaking trainwreck.  These two are so mismatched.  Run, Tyler, run!!
 Jmo

See, that's the reason that I think they would work. Tyler soothes Hannah, which signals to me that they forged a secure attachment during their FSD (well, really, since their first lobster date).

They remind me a bit of Ashley/JP from way back. Ash also had high anxiety but found so much safety and groundedness in even-keeled, easy-going JP. He kept showing up for her and trying to understand her regardless of everything else happening that season. Part of the drama at his MTP with her sister was due to Ash being calmer and serious with him versus goofy and high-octane with Ben. I saw the same thing last night with Hannah and Tyler; she was able to be calm with him around because he makes her feel so secure and loved for who she is.

I couldn't write off the change in her last night regardless of the way tonight plays out.

It really stood out to me on their first 1-1 date after lobster fishing when Hannah stated that she felt “...calm”. Like it was a new and different feeling for her. It’s the Tyler effect!

veg_out wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:

Summerfun1980 wrote:@Bleiby527 Not with him. With a girl he used to date. Yes, it’s based on what she told me about him.

Tyler seems so, what's the word...normal   and Hannah is a freaking trainwreck.  These two are so mismatched.  Run, Tyler, run!!
 Jmo

See, that's the reason that I think they would work. Tyler soothes Hannah, which signals to me that they forged a secure attachment during their FSD (well, really, since their first lobster date).

They remind me a bit of Ashley/JP from way back. Ash also had high anxiety but found so much safety and groundedness in even-keeled, easy-going JP. He kept showing up for her and trying to understand her regardless of everything else happening that season. Part of the drama at his MTP with her sister was due to Ash being calmer and serious with him versus goofy and high-octane with Ben. I saw the same thing last night with Hannah and Tyler; she was able to be calm with him around because he makes her feel so secure and loved for who she is.

I couldn't write off the change in her last night regardless of the way tonight plays out.

What a great post. I agree. I loved JP (still do) but he was magic for Ashley. Everyone loved JP. I really hope Hannah gets her JP.(Tyler) I believe she is hoping and wishing too.

sosleepy wrote:I don’t see Hannah as immature at all. She’s 24. She’s handling all of this so well. So, so, so well. With a smile on her face too. The girl is brave as hell.

@veg_out your posts are always so thoughtful and kind. Keep them coming. I agree with every word.

Mature people do not make fun of others. I teach my kids this all the time. It takes a mature person to turn the other cheek and I don't see this in Hannah one bit...or her Mother...or the Mom's friend, which they truly have NO excuse to be tweeting those statements. None. Jmo

Summerfun1980 wrote:@Bleiby527 Not with him. With a girl he used to date. Yes, it’s based on what she told me about him.

Gotya! I obviously don't know Tyler at all, but maybe he's matured since he dated this other girl? It seems like his family doesn't think Hannah's admission about the windmill is that big a deal. Tyler's mother just posted this as an Instagram story.