Becca Kufrin & Garrett Yrigoyen - Bachelorette 14 - Discussion

timfan wrote:It seems like becca and minno are at her sisters  and Garrett is with  his brother

From what I’ve seen she’s with her friends/best friend Brianna who lives in Minnesota. Becca’s sister lives in Wisconsin.
She posted Minno running in a yard yesterday- so I’m guessing maybe that was her mom’s place? Or maybe Brianna has a house and yard.

I really hope Becca finds the strength to dump Garrett’s sorry a**. His liking Krystal’s pics is some passive aggressive stupidity because he KNEW  they would be discovered and Becky would be embarrassed as any woman with a brain and pride would be, IMO. 
Becca is a good combination of beauty and brains. She is reinforced on all sides with support by people who understand her value. I know she loves Garrett but, this will not be the first time she was forced to take out the trash and restart her life. She’s done it before so, she knows she can get over him. Each time she dumps a loser to do what’s best for her, she moves herself closer to the man she really deserves. I’m rooting for her and looking forward to her breaking free. 
All IMO.

Wow! I Have not checked in very much lately and I am out of the loop. Been busy with life and these uncertain times. Anyway, forgive me but WTH happened? Maybe I need to get back On social media and do some research! Would appreciate a recap here or a DM. Thanks in advance.

@LaineyG I hope everyone is healthy and safe.

It all started with this post on page 25.

leavers wrote:Garrett's latest Instagram post is extremely disappointing (to save anyone a click and if you don't know already, it's a Blue Lives Matter post). https://www.instagram.com/gy_yrigoyen/?hl=en I'd really hoped that Garrett had actually maybe started to change or learn after his "mindless likes" incident and after Becca stayed with him despite their difference in politics but it appears that's not the case. I've changed my profile pic from them back to my default rose because I'm disgusted, mostly at myself for ever giving him a chance.

It's going to be interesting to see what Becca does and says in response.

Just watched a live with RS and Ashley and they talked about how Garrett has been deleting a lot of comments but not the ones that bash Becca, having a fiancé that is over opinionated. I hope she dumps him ASAP.

I gotta say, I didn't see anything wrong with Garrett's post showing his support for the men and women of the police. Yes, what happened to GF should never have happened, I think everyone agrees with that, but it doesn't mean you still can't support the police. I also have friends that service in the police, fire department and secret service, and what they have to deal with on a daily basis is incredible. I support all the people that serve wholeheartedly. I'm glad Garrett stood his ground with his support for his friends and didn't cave to the JW on SM.

Since being a full time cheerleader is what Garrett does for a living, he obviously felt compelled to write such a tone deaf statement of support for police on the occasion of Becca’s grandpa’s funeral and also to intentionally like such a sexy photo of Krystal’s rear end so that Becca would be forced to pretend yet again that he’s intelligent and not the dim-witted, unenlightened, disrespectful horse’s a** she will eventually concede that he is. I so look forward to her breaking free of him. All this dumbing down to be on his level has to be tedious. 
All IMO.

I wrote something and then deleted it. I think it was best that I did. Wherever we are and whoever we interact with, there will always be someone who will see things differently no matter what. It’s the way and will of the world. I can only dream of a better world.

@Idlemess Take the high road - the view is always better!  

Idlemess wrote:
I wrote something and then deleted it. I think it was best that I did. Wherever we are and whoever we interact with, there will always be someone who will see things differently no matter what. It’s the way and will of the world. I can only dream of a better world.

But I think that’s a wonderful thing IMO! This world has changed drastically and it makes me so sad that people can’t voice or have different opinions. Back in the day you used to agree to disagree or still show kindness when someone had a different viewpoint as you. Simple things like showing love for our wonderful country on it’s birthday was frowned upon by so many and to me that’s just the saddest thing I’ve seen this past weekend. Social Media is such a double edged sword. JMO.

GuardianAngel wrote:@LaineyG I hope everyone is healthy and safe.

It all started with this post on page 25.

leavers wrote:Garrett's latest Instagram post is extremely disappointing (to save anyone a click and if you don't know already, it's a Blue Lives Matter post). https://www.instagram.com/gy_yrigoyen/?hl=en I'd really hoped that Garrett had actually maybe started to change or learn after his "mindless likes" incident and after Becca stayed with him despite their difference in politics but it appears that's not the case. I've changed my profile pic from them back to my default rose because I'm disgusted, mostly at myself for ever giving him a chance.

It's going to be interesting to see what Becca does and says in response.

Thank you! . Things seem to be changing daily or at least every time I check in.

JMO but I think what's happening doesn't contradict people's right to express different points of view, but reflects the fact that there is a huge segment of our country who are in a sort of state of mourning - for GF, and for the countless GF's that came before - and that it appears to be insensitive at the very least to celebrate "freedom" and our nation's "exceptionalism" when this is the prevailing situation. People - fellow citizens - are looking for empathy and, above and beyond that, actions that reveal a determination to "be better." Partying in front of "mourners" just feels off to me on so many levels, jmo. As my son and I discussed Saturday, if America is truly as great as we believe she can be, she will look in the mirror and do what needs to be done... and then the mourning will give way to celebration. America needs to have a growth mindset, not to linger in an idealized past in spite of all that we have learned about the clay feet of our founding fathers. This doesn't negate the good those founders did - but "to everything there is a season," and this is, in my opinion, the season to mend and heal. What we are seeing now is the fever that reveals the presence of underlying illness that needs to be treated if the "patient" is to "pull through". The pendulum may need to swing a bit farther to the opposite side before it comes to a new, and "healthier," equilibrium. Jmo.

As for Garrett... I don't think he's the worst guy....I think he's just not too sharp. And I do believe Becca can do better. I suspect he was aware of all the discussion about HB the past few weeks - I'm surprised that alone did not give him pause.... But Becca doesn't really care what I think. She's a bright, prayerful, generous woman... hopefully she is honest with herself, so that, if she stays with him, it's with eyes wide open, and is truly part of God's plan for her/them. Jmo.