Becca Kufrin & Garrett Yrigoyen - Bachelorette 14 - Discussion

SpinCycle wrote:I love this couple.

bluwavz wrote:Ya'll do realize what show we're all watching here right? Most of the leads have sex with multiple people in the fantasy suite one right after the other and those folks are pretty much strangers to the lead. Why care so much what another person is choosing to do with their own body? I don't get it. And honestly I think the fact that Becca and Garrett pick each other's noses is waaaay more disgusting than Becca hooking up with some guy in a bathroom.

I agree with this 100%. Especially that last sentence shudder  

I don't have a specific statistic, but hookups are quite common around the country, at least, for both genders, especially for people in their 20s/30s. The rate itself may vary from community to community, but I don't think it's abnormal by any stretch. So long as it's responsible and protection is used, etc., I don't think it's problematic in itself. I don't know the specifics of her hookups (nor do I particularly care to ever know), and while there's always a degree of risk involved, it's nothing new. Certainly not to the lead role, nor to many members of the franchise. Also, not that I have any confirmation, but I doubt Ross strung Becca along for all those years for that reason, considering what his reputation is and how he did at least somewhat willingly come to Peru to propose to Becca. I also highly, *highly* doubt that Arie would have had a problem with any promiscuity considering *his* own reputation and alleged...uh...spreadsheet. (Sorry I brought him up again!)  

I grew up pretty conservatively, so it's not really my scene or style, but again, considering modern culture today and this franchise, I don't think less of her for that specifically. I'm not a fan of hers, but I did feel like I should defend her on that. I understand the difference in values for different people when it comes to hookup culture though. So long as the standard is applied to both men and women, regardless of the stance, I'm fine with agreeing to disagree!

All JMO, of course.

SpinCycle wrote:I love this couple.

Most genuine couple since the Ash/JP and Des/Chris era   
These two are the real deal love seeing how happy they are
***IMO***

Sprite wrote:

SpinCycle wrote:I love this couple.

So random. So good

Does Becca has Career goals or has she said what's she is doing to generate income or her plans are only ADS because she said she was very independent but living out of your SO, and ADS sounds like everything she said she wasn't. . HIGH level hypocrasy if you ask me.JMO

SpinCycle wrote:Best Bachelorette and Couple from the entire franchise. All JMO

Not until they get married and have kids, IMO. To me, it will always be Trista and Ryan. 10 + years of marriage and two beautiful kids!

Also, I feel some of the posts should belong to fan thread......

Nah it’s clear on my post JMO. We all have different opinion.
I’m only interested in Becca and Garrett and other couples don’t cut for me so i don’t care for them.

Well for me they are and no contest.

Please do not post the same post repetitively. It’s basically not stating an opinion after one or two times and is baiting and will be deleted.

Agreed, I’ve been waiting for a couple to be this invested it .
I think we will get a true sense of them once the holidays settle to see what they do.
I have very high hopes for them though and hope they go back to Thailand since they were given a free trip back. 

SpinCycle wrote:Nah it’s clear on my post JMO. We all have different opinion.
I’m only interested in Becca and Garrett and other couples don’t cut for me so i don’t care for them.

Well for me they are and no contest.

Sprite wrote:

SpinCycle wrote:I love this couple.

Apparently by posting this some feel that this is making fun of their own posts. That is not my intention, however at this time of year this is what happens. People are waiting for the new season, a seemingly lackluster season based on the amount of postings. People start talking about the previous lead. Some are fans and some are not and the debating ensues. After all the negative posts about Beckett, this simple post just tickled my funny bone.

I’d probably like them if not for a fundamental disagreement and revulsion towards Garrett’s beliefs. Wonderful that Becca can get over it. But I’m not in love with the guy and don’t need to pretend it’s all ok. (TM: Juan Pabs)

I'm not pretending to like either of them because I don't. To me there isn't any comparison to any other couple, period.

Every couple from this franchise that's together or married are working hard at several different careers, some are raising a family and working, and some are/were pregnant with toddlers at home and still working. Most are working at their original careers when they went on the show and for some same goes for the F1.

These two still haven't settled into a home yet or a job and have no idea the responsibility of working full time and juggling a family and all their activities.

I'm glad they are happy. Everyone deserves to find love.