Bachelorette 14 - Becca Kufrin - Episode 6 - July 2nd - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

What a great date with Jason!
Just love this guy!

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Snark first...She dodged a bullet with Chris. Not sure what was special about their relationship anyway. Garrett was gonna open up tonight...were you gonna tell her about the likes?
In the preview, she told Jason how "some of the guys were more vocal about their feelings". GF, "some of the guys" didn't have to wait until Episode 6 for a 1:1. Also a pet peeve of mine is people shoving cake, donuts whatever in people's faces. Not cool, or cute IMO.
On to the good...I loved Jason's date. So glad they did not go riding the rapids. Not since Chris Lambton's HTD have I liked a family/friends visit so much. Also J did go deep with the story about his dad/grandma and she shared about her dad as well. Every time I see them together I smh at the F1 choice.

@albean99 I liked both the single dates. At first, I found it hard to relate to Leo but he's a stand-up guy, just not for Becca. Jason, whew - such a great guy. Loved their time together. The only part I liked about the Beccalection was Wills - another really good man. Too bad they didn't show Blake and Wills teamed up together.

Hi @pavalygurl! ITA with above. I was happy to see some more complete scenes of Jason with her and its plain to see that they have this easy, confortable connection that allows them to at turn be playful, or affectionate or open UP and share vulnerable informations that in turn builds an intimate BOND between them. Its ironic to me how she did not expect to fall for him, as she acknowledges herself, but it was pretty evident as the weeks kept progressing that something real was building despite her being pretty set on G. Its almost like Jason is showing her another type of man, the total package, and its a little too much for her to explore completely, as she has not YET broken the patterns of what her past relationships were and the issues related to her dad's loss.
I feel that because of our position , as sleuthers who examin every piece of media before the show is even aired, we have seen more than what is shown or edited out, usually to make room for silly or stupid or tedious interactions of the guys in order to build drama. I know I’d rather see a lot more of the ACTUAL dates and conversations of each participant, and get to know them better. But we are INSTEAD bored with superfluous stuff that should be left on the editing floor. Way too much Lincoln and Chris manufactured drama for this last one. AAJMO.

Yep after that episode I am all aboard Jason for bachelor train!!!

I am disappointed at the lack of discussion this season. IMO, people are hesitant to post one ounce of support for Becca and Garrett for fear they’ll be painted with the same brush. No one is as bad as we make them out to be and no one is as good either.
I loved Jason by the way. He seems to be a great guy!

I think it's a perfect storm really.

Some of these guys are very unlikable:
1. Chris with the tattling since episode 1 and his subsequent childishness and mean spiritedness
2  David with his producer prodded annoying behavior towards Jordan
3.Lincoln fighting with Chris and then telling Becca he feels threatened. The same thing he said when Connor smashed the photo. Complete BS.
4.Colton with the shady past with Tia and rehearsed politician demeanor

Then the off screen controversies:
1. Lincoln's sexual battery
2. Garrett's likes
3. Leo's soft core porn

Then the the spoiler photo of the F1 before episode 1 threw all the sleuthing and debating fun out the window. IMO some consider this season a done deal and they don't post their observations on other candidates either.

Also they don't show anything interesting about the guys...no bromance, no fun. Just them laughing at Jordan's ridiculousness, stirring the pot, it trying to get away from Chris. It's a b@tchfest. Where are the guys that let that stuff roll of their backs, crack jokes, make light of the situation and lighten the mood???

Then there's the reactions to Garrett's likes. Some are offended or disagree with the posts he liked so can't and/or won't post anything objective about him or anybody else. Some don't want to add to the endless back and forth about Garrett and refrain from posting. And it's a possible some don't want to be judged for liking Garrett but I personally don't believe that's a huge factor, if it is a factor at all.

Also, the dates are cringe and she only has a spark with Garrett, Blake and Jason.

All JMO

I totally see that chris had some anger issues but at the same time I understood at least some of his frustration if things were being said to becca or he was being accused of things that were not true.  Garrett was pretty rough on him last night, though I do understand that the guys are disappointed about missed opportunities to chat with becca. But some of that last part is on her, and her ability to ride the roller coaster, which is not always that much better than the ability of many of the guys, jmo. I think instead of "amazing" the take-a-drink word should be "frustrated"... Which I think also applies to some of us viewers, who would so much more rather see a bunch of really good guys (creating the real drama of how does one choose???) than guys kept around to create a stir. Jmo

^^^ Yep give us Blake Killpack, Joe the grocer, and more good guys. I've decided to be the change I want to see and will gladly make light of situations from now on.

GypsySarah wrote:I am disappointed at the lack of discussion this season. IMO, people are hesitant to post one ounce of support for Becca and Garrett for fear they’ll be painted with the same brush. No one is as bad as we make them out to be and no one is as good either.
I loved Jason by the way. He seems to be a great guy!

I totally agree. I don't post often but enjoy the discussion. I actually see a lot of chemistry between Garrett and Becca (reminds me of JP and Ashley) and almost every guy from the season that has been interviewed has said what an awesome guy Garrett is. I tend to believe people that have spent actual time with him. I also enjoy looking at and analyzing the screenshots but there isn't much of that either this season.

Crappy episode IMO. Virginia looked cold and boring, definitely NOT for lovers, at least in April. Chris is exhausting, Lincoln is disgusting, and I couldn't see the back of them fast enough. Leo is MOT if there ever was one, but he handled the date fine I guess. I find Jason really attractive and I want him to be a genuinely great guy, but he does seem pretty smooth to me. I'm not ready to elevate him above the fray at this point. Honestly, I'm getting the most sincerity from Garrett so far and I don't even like him, so maybe Becca did make the right choice. JMO.

The rose ceremony dress was nice though!

I think it’s partly because she has the nice, drama free guys that they feel compelled to force the stupid drama on us. They don’t seem to care that sometimes it’s better to get to know the guys who will be around instead of force feeding the guys who won’t. Chris R seemed to lose it in the last 2 episodes. I’m sure his feelings were fed upon by a producer.

I would have loved to see more of the GD that didn’t include the drama guys. I really like Wills and would have liked to see more of him.

I do get a little sad when I see Becca with Jason because I could see them together. I know she’s happy with Garrett but I can’t help but think what might have been.

Forgot to say this last night but loved her RC dress!