Bachelorette 14 - Becca Kufrin - Media SM - Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #6

Whatever the real story is, it wasn't a good edit, to show her standing there by herself, thinking and thinking, right after she left the table. What was she doing there standing by herself, looking around and thinking while they filmed her? It showed me after Colton confided in her, it appeared she felt it was an issue for her and not very understanding of anyone that doesn't jump in the sack with just anyone IMHO. The fact that she felt it necessary to clarify because there were negative responses, tells me she wanted to defend herself. OTOH in the blog it makes it sound like she had to think about it because after all the FS are coming up and we all know what happens in there.  

At this point, it doesn't matter. I don't think she cares what his sex life is or isn't because he's only there for the Tia drama, and she knows it IMHO.

https://www.lifeandstylemag.com/posts/becca-kufrin-picked-wrong-guy-163072
Just before her season of The Bachelorette began airing in May, Becca Kufrin let a major spoiler slip: Yes, she’d gotten engaged to one of the contestants. “It feels so good to say it — and this time, I think it’s going to stick!” said Becca, who had accepted Arie Luyendyk Jr.’s proposal on The Bachelor, only to have him dump her on camera weeks later. “Looking back, as weird as it sounds, I can really only thank [Arie],” she said. “It allowed me to go on this new journey...to find the person who is a better suit, better fit for me.”

Becca’s no longer so sure about that. Six weeks after making her happy announcement, she fears she may have picked the wrong guy, Life & Style has exclusively learned. And she’s stopped making wedding plans as she rethinks her decision. “She was so quick to announce her engagement, but it’s cooled off and she’s not thinking about a wedding,” says a source. “She was so confident when she chose him, but now she really has regrets.”....
The article goes on to say she may have been too focused on the proposal and not enough on whether or not they are compatible.
I don't remember is L & S mostly garbage?

Yeah L&S is a crappy magazine. They always write that celeb couples are getting married and having kids when they clearly are not. I don't believe that Becca is changing her mind. jmo.

I do not believe that article I could have wrote that all they do is read stuff off the internet on how some fans do not like the f1 and about the sm likes and they have a story jmo

I don't believe it either. Becca seems happy now and even if it didn't work out, there's no way it's going to happen anytime soon, imo.

I have no reason to not believe Becca and Colton and it's just like Fleiss to want to make something into drama when it wasn't there.

What did Colton say about the F1 ?

I kind of wish the L&S article were true. But...there’s no way that Becca isn’t going to try to make this relationship work. It’s her redemption song to Arie. I truly hope for her sake that she has found her forever person. I have big time doubts though. We shall see...

philphan wrote:I kind of wish the L&S article were true. But...there’s no way that Becca isn’t going to try to make this relationship work. It’s her redemption song to Arie. I truly hope for her sake that she has found her forever person. I have big time doubts though. We shall see...

Can you imagine if we have a bachelorette swap-e-roo!!!!

gurlbrit wrote:Can you imagine if we have a bachelorette swap-e-roo!!!

Production would be elated since they thrive on controversy and any type of shocking news that comes from the franchise. From everything I’ve read and observed Becca’s going to stick with Garrett long term JMO

GuardianAngel wrote:Whatever the real story is, it wasn't a good edit, to show her standing there by herself, thinking and thinking, right after she left the table. What was she doing there standing by herself, looking around and thinking while they filmed her? It showed me after Colton confided in her, it appeared she felt it was an issue for her and not very understanding of anyone that doesn't jump in the sack with just anyone IMHO. The fact that she felt it necessary to clarify because there were negative responses, tells me she wanted to defend herself. OTOH in the blog it makes it sound like she had to think about it because after all the FS are coming up and we all know what happens in there.  

At this point, it doesn't matter. I don't think she cares what his sex life is or isn't because he's only there for the Tia drama, and she knows it IMHO.

IMHO How do we know how long it was after he told her that that she got up and left the table for what ever reason? The way they edit the show it could have been right then, five minutes later or more.. That's my only question about this deal because I think Becca knew Colton was only there for MF and Tia after she found out about them and from then only that's exactly how she treated him. I don't find enough about this to hold it against her.

GuardianAngel wrote:Whatever the real story is, it wasn't a good edit, to show her standing there by herself, thinking and thinking, right after she left the table. What was she doing there standing by herself, looking around and thinking while they filmed her? It showed me after Colton confided in her, it appeared she felt it was an issue for her and not very understanding of anyone that doesn't jump in the sack with just anyone IMHO. The fact that she felt it necessary to clarify because there were negative responses, tells me she wanted to defend herself. OTOH in the blog it makes it sound like she had to think about it because after all the FS are coming up and we all know what happens in there.  

At this point, it doesn't matter. I don't think she cares what his sex life is or isn't because he's only there for the Tia drama, and she knows it IMHO.

Agree with your points GA

I have a feeling she went to check with the producers to see if she still had to give him a rose

I went a checked the footage to see if I could pick out anything ... all I noticed is Colton looked very nervous when he was sitting at table, so I think the edit was pretty accurate as to what went down ... if she excused herself to pee, he wouldn’t be nervousand if she just had to pee, she wouldn’t be wondering around outside.

I also noticed his wine glass got fuller .. so his wine glass got topped up

Also have a question, I’ve read on board that Colton said he’d never brought a girl home ... when did he say that? It wasn’t on that date.

@northernviewer Colton says he's never brought a girl home in his hometown date preview. You can find it on the first page of the epi thread, last post.