Bachelorette 14 - Becca Kufrin - Media SM - Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #6

Diana wrote:To me, Becca was nothing but a class act *edit* and I admire her for it. She could have far worse to them and it would have been warrented but she is good person and with a good heart. No ego. All JMO

FMG2015 wrote:I wasn't a huge fan of Becca during Arie's season or even immediately after ATFR. I didn't dislike her but just didn't see the appeal.
She has really grown on me and I can appreciate her making  the occasional comments like "I won “IMO, she has just the right amount of kindness and sarcasm/humor to make her relatable. JMO.

Sprite wrote:

FMG2015 wrote:I wasn't a huge fan of Becca during Arie's season or even immediately after ATFR. I didn't dislike her but just didn't see the appeal.
She has really grown on me and I can appreciate her making  the occasional comments like "I won “IMO, she has just the right amount of kindness and sarcasm/humor to make her relatable. JMO.

I am not a huge fan of Becca, but then I rarely am for any of them, however, I do see someone with kindness, thoughtfulness and generosity of spirit. She is loyal to a fault. I see her perhaps more naive, than full of ego. I don't in any way fault her behaviour on the AFTR. If anything, I found her too nice and forgiving. I certainly did not think that she thought she was above anyone, nor that she would be treated with kid gloves just because she was polite to producers. [b]It makes me sad that these days people are attacked for being too nice while those who treat others like sh*t are fanned over.[\b]JMO

kerriway wrote:I think Becca's a model of class, forgiveness, character, and staying above the fray.

There are millions of women (and in a lot of cases, rightfully so) that can't go 10 minutes without trashing their sleazy exes. *edit*

Sensitivity, submissiveness, and vulnerability can be a strength if you use it to empathize with others and don't allow yourself to become jaded by all the darkness in this world. I applaud Becca for not being influenced by those that would want her to immediately dump Garrett, who seems like a good match for her, for face value reasons when no one knows the depths of those opinions.  

Now is she a doormat? I think she probably was with Ross. But I think the Becca we've seen on both seasons is just sensitive, submissive and over-giving when she cares about someone. However, I think she's learned some lessons *edit* and will cut it off when necessary, which is why Becca didn't run back to Ross when she had the chance.

I think she'll be fine moving forward, better than fine actually. Good things can happen to good people.

SeekAny wrote:I think many people have had 2 plus relationships in their life that haven’t worked. This doesn’t IMO make them stupid or naive. It means they tried, gave it a go and moved on.  I think the third time is a charm for Becca as I think he’s the one for her.

Becca continues to be a relatable lead for me. She’s someone I’d be friends with. She exudes kindness and thoughtfulness. She’s cares how people feel, not think IMO. She’s affable but not in an annoying way. I think she knows who she is, what she wants and has a great foundation. Isn’t afraid to swear or laugh or just smile with her whole face. I like the throw your head back and laugh type of joy she exudes. She’s been a joy to watch for me this season because I can really root for her. It’s like rooting for a friend and it’s been quite a few seasons since I’ve felt like that.