Bachelorette 14 - Becca Kufrin - Media SM - Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

KB_Mom wrote:Aaaagggh!  Hopping on Team #Becca does a switcheroo.

I hear there’s a guy Jason from Buffalo who’s quite a catch.  It’s not too late. 

alwaystulips wrote:

KB_Mom wrote:Aaaagggh!  Hopping on Team #Becca does a switcheroo.

I hear there’s a guy Jason from Buffalo who’s quite a catch.  It’s not too late. 

How long ago did he like these posts? I have friends who do stupid stuff on social media and they are really good people. I’m not defending him as I haven’t seen the information. But, I don’t agree with some of the things my friends like, talk about or follow and am still friends with them.

I would hope Becca would not do what Arie did to her.

I've spent the last 20 minutes trying to figure out Reddit and I still have no idea where people are getting this information from (or even how to find it). Could someone please paraphrase exactly what he liked or at least provide a brief tutorial on how Reddit works? That would be much appreciated.

sportsgirl wrote:

alwaystulips wrote:

KB_Mom wrote:Aaaagggh!  Hopping on Team #Becca does a switcheroo.

I hear there’s a guy Jason from Buffalo who’s quite a catch.  It’s not too late. 

How long ago did he like these posts?  I have friends who do stupid stuff on social media and they are really good people.  I’m not defending him as I haven’t seen the information.  But, I don’t agree with some of the things my friends like, talk about or follow and am still friends with them.

I would hope  Becca would not  do what Arie did to her.  

For me, it's not how long ago, but how many he liked. It wasn't some one-off situation, it was multiple - and IMO is only the tip of the iceberg. But to answer your question, he was liking some of the posts even back in February of this year.

alwaystulips wrote:Do y’all think they discussed what life values were important to them before getting engaged?  Did Garrett lie about his feelings on guns, homosexuality, fat shaming or did some of these ideas never come up? 

I think Becca is smart and pretty intuitive.  I don’t get how she didn’t learn some of his views unless he just flat out lied to her.  I feel very bad for her because I think she’s going to have a tough ride in the media for choosing him.

I think her picker is off and this venue (TB) is simply a really bad fit for her. It has nothing to do with how nice she is etc to me her picker is off. (Ross, Arie and now Garrett)

alwaystulips wrote:

KB_Mom wrote:Aaaagggh!  Hopping on Team #Becca does a switcheroo.

I hear there’s a guy Jason from Buffalo who’s quite a catch.  It’s not too late. 

I am hoping he is the next Bachelor!

Kashathediva wrote:

Diana wrote:
She said her favorite thing about her fiancé is that "he put up with me the entire journey" that is sweet.  

What! Isn’t that what he’s supposed to do? I mean that’s to me a given or a boot out the door.  Why would she even consider otherwise would be puzzling to me.

Me as well Kasha.   I am just sad about it. #lowbar

Bluejay271 wrote:I've spent the last 20 minutes trying to figure out Reddit and I still have no idea where people are getting this information from (or even how to find it). Could someone please paraphrase exactly what he liked or at least provide a brief tutorial on how Reddit works? That would be much appreciated.

He's liked posts: indicting that the Parkland school shooting was fake with paid actors, feminists are ugly, fat women, boys in his day used to play with guns, but now they're all transgendered/gay, mocking gay/transgenders for being verbally bullied, and how funny it would be to throw a kid back over the wall. There are others that are more political ones that I won't post, but I think that all of these aren't really about politics, but just basic human decency, IMO. Hope this is okay!

Kashathediva wrote:

alwaystulips wrote:Do y’all think they discussed what life values were important to them before getting engaged?  Did Garrett lie about his feelings on guns, homosexuality, fat shaming or did some of these ideas never come up? 

I think Becca is smart and pretty intuitive.  I don’t get how she didn’t learn some of his views unless he just flat out lied to her.  I feel very bad for her because I think she’s going to have a tough ride in the media for choosing him.

I think her picker is off and this venue (TB) is simply a really bad fit for her.  It has nothing to do with how nice she is etc to me her picker is off.  (Ross, Arie and now Garrett)

It clearly is. Physically, he reminds me quite a bit of Ross so that could’ve played into her decision, too.

Garrett's instagram account is private. Is this new? Or had he reverted back to private again before today?

Aria wrote:

Bluejay271 wrote:I've spent the last 20 minutes trying to figure out Reddit and I still have no idea where people are getting this information from (or even how to find it). Could someone please paraphrase exactly what he liked or at least provide a brief tutorial on how Reddit works? That would be much appreciated.

He's liked posts: indicting that the Parkland school shooting was fake with paid actors, feminists are ugly, fat women, boys in his day used to play with guns, but now they're all transgendered/gay, mocking gay/transgenders for being verbally bullied, and how funny it would be to throw a kid back over the wall. There are others that are more political ones that I won't post, but I think that all of these aren't really about politics, but just basic human decency, IMO. Hope this is okay!

Oh my dear God.  This is worse than I thought.  I agree, it's not politics.  It's about values, character, and absolutely basic human decency.  How we treat others.   What we stand up for/to.

And you know what kills me is how she could choose Garrett over Jason, it just boggles my mind.  It's not just Jason's personal accomplishments (because we all know that only goes so far), but it seems he has this fun loving dancing/singing side as well, not to mention his family background/closeness.  From what I could find with a little searching it seems his brother in law is the Deputy Legal Director of Everytown for Gun Safety, his brother is the executive creative director of a NYC ad agency focused on Broadway/live entertainment, and his father is global sales director for a publicly traded company he's been with for a long time (Sealed Air, makers of bubble wrap, probably why Jason and Becca are seen jumping on it on the premiere).  I feel bad leaving his mom out b/c she probably does something super interesting/impressive too, I just can't find it.  

I vote for a switcheroo with Jason.