Re: Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - Episodes - Mar 5th FRC ATFR - #2 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

by northernviewer Tue Mar 06, 2018 1:31 am

Stone_Hedge wrote:
Diana wrote:the lashing of Arie on social media is such entertainment for me especially knowing he believed everyone would think his ending was beautiful

He was excited and thought it would be fun

Id like to know when he said it and the context of his fun comment ... I’ve seen reference to it but nipevwr read it myself ... would like to

by biglove44 Tue Mar 06, 2018 1:31 am

Diana wrote:the lashing of Arie on social media is such entertainment for me especially knowing he believed everyone would think his ending was beautiful

Social media will hate him for a week until they see him with Lauren and then he’lll just go back to being a regular, average D-list reality tv dude.

Social media is pretty forgiving and has the attention span of a rock.

by Guest Tue Mar 06, 2018 1:33 am

littlereddress wrote:http://people.com/tv/the-bachelor-arie-luyendyk-jr-explains-huge-mistake/?utm_campaign=peoplemagazine&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_medium=social&xid=socialflow_twitter_peoplemag

So he had good advice that his feelings were normal after and bailed because he was decisive one proposal too late .

by **GuardianAngel** Tue Mar 06, 2018 1:34 am

docnash14 wrote:
umngirl wrote:According to Wolfner, Becca had no idea. Considering how much he has defended Arie, I’m choosing to believe him.

And he also tweeted this:

John Wolfner
‏ @jwolfner
26m26 minutes ago

Bachelor producers had this one T’d up. Never forget, it’s a business and the cast are just pawns in the game.

WTG Sherlock

by **Linds911** Tue Mar 06, 2018 1:35 am

So in the People article, Becca wants to put that chapter with Arie away and find her person. yep she's ready to be Bachelorette. :yes:

by Diana Tue Mar 06, 2018 1:36 am

I would bet if Lauren didn’t take his pathetic azz back he’d still be stringing Becca along. Thank god she did because now Becca is better off

by **Sprite** Tue Mar 06, 2018 1:37 am

AllAboutLove wrote:Lots of F1s deal with leads talking about stuff to them post-show I am sure. Many of them have said as much. No way did Becca think Arie was going to dump her imo. I've barely seen any emotion from him to ANY of the women this season, including Lauren. This is not a guy who is ready for a monogamous relationship at all and I'd tell any girl to run. jmo

http://people.com/tv/bachelor-becca-kufrin-talks-arie-luyendyk-jr/?utm_campaign=peoplemagazine&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_medium=social&xid=socialflow_twitter_peoplemag

Says Kufrin: “He had told me, ‘I still have feelings for her, I’m trying to work through them.’ He said it was hard for him to always talk about it in interviews with the press, to relive that relationship. He said he couldn’t close that chapter until everything was said and done and the finale aired. That whole time we were just looking at the end goal of this week to finally be done with that and move on and be together and work through it as a team.”

So she felt he had emotions left over from filming, but they were working through them.

"he lied or hid his true feelings and emotions for weeks and weeks and weeks,” she says. “The number one thing that I value in a relationship is honesty and loyalty, and I feel like I wasn’t given that.”

And then there is this...the pattern continues...when things start getting tough...the weaselly needle d*ck gets going.

“I never thought for a million years that once the going started to get tough that he would throw in the towel and jump ship and say, ‘Oh sorry, I changed my mind.’ I didn’t think we were at that point whatsoever,” says Kufrin.

by littlereddress Tue Mar 06, 2018 1:38 am

stuckinsc wrote:http://people.com/tv/bachelor-becca-kufrin-talks-arie-luyendyk-jr/?utm_campaign=peoplemagazine&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_medium=social&xid=socialflow_twitter_peoplemag

So according to people Arie had a sit down with Lauren before dumping Becca.

"After having a sit-down conversation with Burnham, Luyendyk Jr. decided to call off his engagement with Kufrin during a weekend trip to Los Angeles."

And here is where I am fairly certain that Becca will be the next bachelorette. She is gracious to both of them after all this.

"Although Kufrin is heartbroken over the situation, she has no “ill will towards” Burnham.
“At the end of the day, we both just fell in love with the same guy and she can’t help that. The only person that I can fault in this is Arie and the way he handled it,” she shares. “I do feel a little bad that it’s going to be really tough for them when all of this is said and done. Social media is a hard world to navigate through, and there’s going to be a lot of negativity and I don’t think she deserves that. If they want to make it work, then they will, and I hope they’re strong enough to get through it all.”
With her breakup behind her, Kufrin says she’s ready for “this chapter of Arie to be done and close it and put it on the shelf and put it away” and only wants Luyendyk Jr. to have what makes him happy.
“At the end of the day I wouldn’t’ change the experience because I met so many amazing people and I fell in love and I had this great experience and memories,” she says. “I’m still going to feel a sense of compassion for him because I did love him but at this point, I want him to be happy, I want to be done and not have to worry about them anymore.”
“They’re going to be together and do their thing. I wanted to move on and have my person that I can focus on and live my life with,” shares Kufrin. “At the end of the day, I do forgive him.”"

But how do we explain her family and friends? Caroline??? They are not holding back. I thought Becca would completely have at him. Maybe she will tomorrow. Not that I would blame her and I appreciate her being gracious especially when she seems to have all of America behind her that Arie should be thrown in a volcano.

by Kolormiblnd Tue Mar 06, 2018 1:38 am

After having a sit-down conversation with Burnham, Luyendyk Jr. decided to call off his engagement with Kufrin during a weekend trip to Los Angeles. wrote:

Source

Did Arie really see Lauren face to face? Then that is worse than we thought, in my book.

by Guest Tue Mar 06, 2018 1:38 am

Diana wrote:I would bet if Lauren didn’t take his pathetic azz back he’d still be stringing Becca along. Thank god she did because now Becca is better off

Thank you Lauren for taking Arie off the market where he won’t hurt another woman again. Except you very possibly

by **Sprite** Tue Mar 06, 2018 1:38 am

Diana wrote:the lashing of Arie on social media is such entertainment for me especially knowing he believed everyone would think his ending was beautiful

Tomorrow is another day. They may love him tomorrow.... rofl

by sanlee088 Tue Mar 06, 2018 1:39 am

Linds911 wrote:So in the People article, Becca wants to put that chapter with Arie away and find her person. yep she's ready to be Bachelorette.

I’m pretty impressed with her people interview. It also shouts as loud as ever that she is the next bachelorette. She’s over it now and she hopes the best for Lauren and Arie. She isn’t even angry at him, just thinks he could have handled ending it with her better. I will be shocked if she is not the next ette.

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