Lesley Murphy - Dean Unglert - BWG - Discussion

I hope neither comes back for BIP.

I do appreciate that Dean is self aware and can admit his flaws. He’s so young... emotionally pretty immature. And yeah, really no guidance from his family as I agree, that is all dysfunction. I agree, I still see potential for him. I just wish he’d stop Bachelor relationship hopping. It’s just... clearly not a good idea for him. 

I think Lesley is awesome and one of the more interesting people ever cast. She’s really not made for a Bachelor relationship though. Mostly cause I just don’t see her with an F Boi, and that’s primarily who this show casts. JMO

sosleepy wrote:I do appreciate that Dean is self aware and can admit his flaws. He’s so young... emotionally pretty immature. And yeah, really no guidance from his family as I agree, that is all dysfunction. I agree, I still see potential for him. I just wish he’d stop Bachelor relationship hopping. It’s just... clearly not a good idea for him. 

I think Lesley is awesome and one of the more interesting people ever cast. She’s really not made for a Bachelor relationship though. Mostly cause I just don’t see her with an F Boi, and that’s primarily who this show casts. JMO

I know Nick is not everyone's cup of tea. But in this instance I think his friendship and perhaps guidance could help Dean. Kind of like a big brother who has more life experience and is a pretty good human. IMO.

sosleepy wrote:I do appreciate that Dean is self aware and can admit his flaws. He’s so young... emotionally pretty immature. And yeah, really no guidance from his family as I agree, that is all dysfunction. I agree, I still see potential for him. I just wish he’d stop Bachelor relationship hopping. It’s just... clearly not a good idea for him. 

I think Lesley is awesome and one of the more interesting people ever cast. She’s really not made for a Bachelor relationship though. Mostly cause I just don’t see her with an F Boi, and that’s primarily who this show casts. JMO

I really like Dean but this is deadass a part of his game imo . He can really come off so self aware and earnest and so every woman thinks they're gonna be the one he changes for. Being able to admit your flaws is a great first step and all but it doesn't really mean anything if you repeat the same mistakes over and over again. Also he's about to be 27, that's not really SO young is it? Jmo though.

@ReneeM who is that in your avatar!??

I like Lesley and hope she eventually finds her HEA.

@Linds911 billy miller.

Both of them have now (sort of) commented on the breakup:
https://www.instagram.com/p/BhRzFDKnd5F/?taken-by=deanie_babies
https://www.instagram.com/p/BhU-5_Jn16w/?hl=en&taken-by=lesleyannemurphy

Dean’s “I still have a lot of work to do on myself” and Leslie’s “Out with the old, in with the ᴛʀᴜᴇ” seems to confirm that Dean screwed up again. JMO

Bobette wrote:Court & Lily are the real deal though, IMO.

The true winners of the Winter Games! Why isn’t there a tread for them BDW? Just a fan tread hidden away in the International section.

Dean's comment can only go so far so many times IMHO.

Leslie's spring cleaning and out with the true IMO isn't necessary to broadcast.

source IG story

Lesley's "therapy" is soooo my kind of therapy

I wonder if Lesley found out about Dean DMing Bekah? When she was on his latest podcast he made it seem like he was all about being a good bf but guess not. He really does seem to have some issues to work through for himself, imo. I think the best thing for Lesley is to forget the show and be happy in her life. The right guy will come along in time.

If Dean were to ask for advice, I'd suggest he find work that he loves as it will help lead him to happiness within himself. Somehow making a living off SM seems shallow as what happens when you become irrelevant? And what is the personal price you pay for trying to stay relevant?

@LesleyMurph
Some days are meant for lying in bed for 13 hours straight with your favorite dog, a cup of coffee and really good break up music.

And some days are meant for getting a grip and staying off sm.