Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - SM Media - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #4

Stone_Hedge wrote:

FLChica wrote:Agree @sanlee088 that Becca will strike a careful balance of hurt, but healed if she wants the Bachelorette gig. If she's OTT hurt or angry, viewers won't believe she's ready for a proposal in 8 weeks.

How ridiculous is that? Madly in love with Arie, accepts his proposal, crushed by his betrayal, dates 30 guys on her show & engaged again in a few short months. UnReal!

Betrayal is not her fault so good for her if she wants to move on. It’s being the betrayer and happily moving on that makes my head spin. Like a beat was never skipped. That’s UnReal to me. But in the end, if it works for all, who can grumble at that. Jmo

I can see Becca being sad and angry about what happened. I’m sure she doesn’t want to be with someone who doesn’t see her being “the one” and if it wasn’t the love story that she thought it was.Out of the bubble, seeing Arie clearly I say make her the ‘ette and bring on the men.:Woah-hoo::Woah-hoo::Woah-hoo:

ARie sure took “time” to heal after breaking it off with Becca. Oh wait it was less than a week.

I’m going to give Becca my kudos whatever she decides to do but it’s not like if she is the bachelorette that takes away for Arie’s behavior

All JMO

bluwavz wrote:According to RS, Jason and Molly will be apart of the filming of the ATFR on Tuesday the 6th.

Poor Jason and Molly getting dragged back into it   (I know no one is forcing them but still). They were dragged into it for the Australian switcheroo situation which ended a mess anyway and not like their own situation. So hopefully Arie's situation ends more like Jason and Molly's. I won't hold my breath for it though    jmo

FLChica wrote:I clearly did not say the betrayal was her fault, so please don't put words in my mouth.

Not taking time to heal before repeating the reality tv dating/engagement performance is skipping a beat to me. IMO.

Um, I wasn’t trying to put words in your mouth . I was speaking in the basis of betrayal itself. Sorry if you thought that.

Rolly wrote:

Stone_Hedge wrote:I hope Arie doesn’t shut Becca down like he did or will probably do to Krystal per spoilers . What he did sucks no matter the reason. If he did a romantic proposal to Becca, all the worse. Jmo

I’d like to see the screen shot of Arie’s face while he watches the proposal. I’ll be interested to hear what he says to her and to Lauren.

I want him sitting between Becca and Lauren with their families in the front row staring at him watching the proposal, the break up and the switch. They would need to have plenty of mops on hand to mop up that sweat!

Becca IMO is a strong and resilient woman. She made it through the tragic loss of her father and weathered her mother's illness (which must have been a very scary deja vu) , and still seems to me to have a positive and upbeat attitude about life. Whether she is looking to the lead gig or not, I believe she will basically say, yes she was hurt\shocked\blindsided but she worked through it and has moved on with her life.

JMO

Sprite wrote:

Rolly wrote:

Stone_Hedge wrote:I hope Arie doesn’t shut Becca down like he did or will probably do to Krystal per spoilers . What he did sucks no matter the reason. If he did a romantic proposal to Becca, all the worse. Jmo

I’d like to see the screen shot of Arie’s face while he watches the proposal. I’ll be interested to hear what he says to her and to Lauren.

I want him sitting between Becca and Lauren with their families in the front row staring at him watching the proposal, the break up and the switch. They would need to have plenty of mops on hand to mop up that sweat!

Bring on Uncle Gary and Grampa Clyde!

pbmax wrote:

sanlee088 wrote:If Becca is serious about wanting to be the next lead, she should think carefully about how she acts towards him. IMO I see her as being upset and angry but not over the top. We shall see though!

Yep! Leave those bad words out of her mouth.

I think there will be a few of us saying those bad words for her! 

Sprite wrote:

Rolly wrote:

Stone_Hedge wrote:I hope Arie doesn’t shut Becca down like he did or will probably do to Krystal per spoilers . What he did sucks no matter the reason. If he did a romantic proposal to Becca, all the worse. Jmo

I’d like to see the screen shot of Arie’s face while he watches the proposal. I’ll be interested to hear what he says to her and to Lauren.

I want him sitting between Becca and Lauren with their families in the front row staring at him watching the proposal, the break up and the switch. They would need to have plenty of mops on hand to mop up that sweat!

Let’s do the damn thing. Just.Like.That. 

Sprite wrote:

Rolly wrote:

Stone_Hedge wrote:I hope Arie doesn’t shut Becca down like he did or will probably do to Krystal per spoilers . What he did sucks no matter the reason. If he did a romantic proposal to Becca, all the worse. Jmo

I’d like to see the screen shot of Arie’s face while he watches the proposal. I’ll be interested to hear what he says to her and to Lauren.

I want him sitting between Becca and Lauren with their families in the front row staring at him watching the proposal, the break up and the switch. They would need to have plenty of mops on hand to mop up that sweat!

Now who is the producer of the show

But she will be the only one looking for the bachelorette gig, if she's even offered it.

If she is offered the 'ette lead, she will IMHO behave the way they want her to behave.