Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - SM Media - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #4

Ladybug82 wrote:Sorry for the double post but the whole conversation makes me uncomfortable.  While we snark and discuss their actions and such on a tv show and real life post show, we don't actually know these people in real life.  I can't say I agree with Arie's behavior of juggling multiple girls in the past or even his behavior since returning/the switch.  I particularly don't like how much he's pushing Lauren every chance he gets to rewrite things and make himself and the switch look better, IMO.  But I will not call him such names nor any one else from the franchise or if I'm being honest, IRL either.

I would have edited it out of posts if I had seen them refering to women, it's not something I feel comfortable having discussed on the open board.  And I'm not sure how we would actually know if such was true or not based on everyone's differing thoughts and opinions.  And while we share and discuss our opinions all the time, that honestly is not my business.  I would hate for friends or family to see such type convos not to mention we have far too many eyes reading here.  I would hate a rag mag to pick up something such as that and run with it.  We are not a rag mag nor bullies, IMO.

But that's JMO and I'm sure we all will not agree, which is ok and allowed here.  

sanlee088 wrote:The video for the preview that was shown during Grey’s I believe can be seen at this link.

https://cartermatt.com/291326/bachelor-spoilers-lauren-burnham-arie-luyendyk-jr-surprise/

cartermatt wrote:The one thing we do find super-interesting about the new The Bachelor promo below (via People Magazine) is Arie vocalizing the fact that many of these women probably weren’t at casting secretly hoping that he would get the gig — it’s not a secret that most people expected to see Peter Kraus as the lead this time.