Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - SM Media - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #3

Lucas15 wrote:

Aria wrote:I think they are going to show him talking about the miscarriage in this season, because Mills talked about how Arie reveals something really heartbreaking that happened in a past relationship (maybe in week 5 or 6). Seems to be alluding to this, IMO.

IMO you're probably right; if so - I might expect another blast from Cassie Harshman. Of course the thing is that Arie's discussion of this with Emily never aired on the show - presumably it was discussed but edited out. It's now widely known because of an interview Cassie gave to Radar Online! - so she herself put it out publicly on July 11, 2012.

Ladybug82 wrote:

bluwavz wrote:All I know is I hope they stick to boring, vanilla guys like Benji and Farmer Chris for the Bachelor from now on. A baddy should never, ever be the Bachelor. They should only be the F1 on the Bachelorette. The last thing these baddies should be rewarded with is more women.

Best post today!

#baddiesalwaysandforeverF1

Lucas15 wrote:

Aria wrote:I think they are going to show him talking about the miscarriage in this season, because Mills talked about how Arie reveals something really heartbreaking that happened in a past relationship (maybe in week 5 or 6). Seems to be alluding to this, IMO.

IMO you're probably right; if so - I might expect another blast from Cassie Harshman. Of course the thing is that Arie's discussion of this with Emily never aired on the show - presumably it was discussed but edited out. It's now widely known because of an interview Cassie gave to Radar Online! - so she herself put it out publicly on July 11, 2012.

Kashathediva wrote:

Stone_Hedge wrote:I just read that article. She was very upset Arie would use the miscarriage as his sob story to Emily while cameras were rolling. They edited out that part. He wasn’t a very good role model to her other two children and her advice to Emily was....run.


http://okhereisthesituation.com/2012/07/arie-luyendyk-jr-ex-girlfriend/


That was then and this is now and Arie still hasn’t changed his spots. He’s just gotten better at his craft imo.

Sorry, but how long does it take to realize that a man you are living with, who is not your children's father is a bad role model? Why put up with that for a week, more less years? WTF??? 
She allowed this bad role model to live with her for a couple years. So IMO she either has poor judgement herself by living with a poor role model for years and even then attempts to start her own family with this poor role model or she is expressing sour grapes. Perhaps somewhere in the middle, but she certainly is no woman of virtue and a good role model herself then IMO.
None of these people are saints, but the woman going to the tabloids to RS or whoever also makes my radar go up. I can't imagine raising children KNOWING the person is a bad role model and continuing to do such. That's crazy IMO. 
I think the recent ex-Sydney is the one that neither expressed and ILY during the dating period which was approx. 1 yr. Again, whats up with her that after a year she can't see he is not that into her. 
This doesn't excuse Arie's behavior, but what's up with these women? They aren't victims. IMO

Aria wrote:

Lucas15 wrote:

Aria wrote:I think they are going to show him talking about the miscarriage in this season, because Mills talked about how Arie reveals something really heartbreaking that happened in a past relationship (maybe in week 5 or 6). Seems to be alluding to this, IMO.

IMO you're probably right; if so - I might expect another blast from Cassie Harshman. Of course the thing is that Arie's discussion of this with Emily never aired on the show - presumably it was discussed but edited out. It's now widely known because of an interview Cassie gave to Radar Online! - so she herself put it out publicly on July 11, 2012.

RS had actually spoiled that they had that miscarriage discussion in his infamous "this is your life Arie" "expose" back in May 24, 2012, which is why Cassie responded to it because she was asked if it was true. I don't think she wanted it out there. I feel bad for her, because it's probably coming out again, and I believe she's married now. IMO.

Aria wrote:@tigertiz he thought it was going to air and was spoiling it. Arie is the one who made the reveal on-camera, so this is all on him, IMO.

Kashathediva wrote:

Aria wrote:@tigertiz he thought it was going to air and was spoiling it. Arie is the one who made the reveal on-camera, so this is all on him, IMO.

Uh. IMO No. 
Because one person does wrong does not make it right for another. No. There is no way as Tiger posted to know what will or won't be edited for the show.  
What it boils down to to me is what is more important? Spoiling for hits or being a human being, putting your unjustified over the top hatred for one person aside for the grace you can offer to another or being a pr*ck? To me this is a no-brainer. RS is a butt hole and butt whole.
This is not spoiling a date. This is not spoiling the F1. This is dragging an unfortunate personal experience to the public in hopes of encouraging hate and dislike for a cast person. This dragging personal pain of another or another(s). IMO it is more despicable than anything he accuses others.