Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - SM Media - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #3

I keep reading that oh poor Lauren is going to get backlash she doesn’t deserve JMO but girlfriend talked to him while he was engaged and wants to date him less than a week after he broke up with Becca. She deserves what’s coming to her

JMO

Yeah for them to get straight back together, I’m gonna guess they were talking behind Becca’s back.

Arie is a total toll and Becca is better off.

Good luck Lauren, I have a feeling you’ll need it.

Jmo

I was honestly looking forward to Arie being the Bach but have been so-so to date. 
With this new development, I’m now here for the wrong reasons 

wait a minute did you guys just mention that lauren and arie were talking while he was supposedly still engaged to Becca? jeez i was going to give lauren the benefit of the doubt but why would she do that to becca? if i knew a guy was engaged and made his choice i would respect the other girl and not talk to the damn guy...

Call me crazy but I think I would much rather see this scenario than someone going through the motions and faking it.... much better to cut the cord if you have doubts IMO... for all we know he was as confident as he could be while in the bubble and the reality was very different... sucks for Becca of course but I’m not judging... all the best to all 3!

Diana wrote:I keep reading that oh poor Lauren is going to get backlash she doesn’t deserve JMO but girlfriend talked to him while he was engaged and wants to date him less than a week after he broke up with Becca. She deserves what’s coming to her

JMO

No pity for her.

Can someone who has been paying more attention to SM than me please put together a timeline of the relevant dates of all of the clues, such as:
The pre-premier visit of Becca to Scottsdale (dirtbike /helmets photo) , Arie and Becca at the same backyard pool photos (safe house visit), the day that Becca seemed to get suddenly quiet on SM, the day she posted the wilted flowers, and "at least my cat still loves me" and finally - the day that Arie and the limos were in Lauren's parents driveway in Virginia. Thanks in advance. I'm just wondering how recent all of this was.

But maybe Lauren didn’t know Arie was with Becca when they talked. It’s no guarantee she knew. Yes spoilers were out but doesn’t mean she has to believe it. Also, the level of hate she is gonna get is warranted at all.

umngirl wrote:But maybe Lauren didn’t know Arie was with Becca when they talked. It’s no guarantee she knew. Yes spoilers were out but doesn’t mean she has to believe it. Also, the level of hate she is gonna get is warranted at all.

still i would call this cheating - arie that is....jmo

Its insane to think Arie can just break off an engagement and decide to date the "other" girl a WEEK AFTER. But I'm glad all of this happened now instead of at the final rose. So Becca has time to heal if she does want the Ette. Totally rooting for you Becca, if you're reading!

I'm sorry, but Lauren deserves whatever backlash she will get once it airs. So far, Im not impressed with her. Can't believe she would actually talk to Arie knowing he is most likely engaged to Becca. Whether you're friends with her or not.. Its wrong. Pretty sure she read RS spoilers.

notarose wrote:I was honestly looking forward to Arie being the Bach but have been so-so to date. 
With this new development, I’m now here for the wrong reasons 

same. I'm here with you for the same reasons 

umngirl wrote:But maybe Lauren didn’t know Arie was with Becca when they talked. It’s no guarantee she knew. Yes spoilers were out but doesn’t mean she has to believe it. Also, the level of hate she is gonna get is warranted at all.

That would make it even worse for her to be conned by Him and now know the truth . How could a relationship last being built on quicksand. I think he gave her full disclosure and she went for it and now it was up to him to break it off with Becca. In reality, even that foundation is rocky. This is a mess for sure.