Bachelor Canada - Season 3 - Chris Leroux - Episode Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #2

BlackHalo wrote:They're both great girls and Chris doesn't deserve either of them nor is he ready. IMO.

When a man is as fearful of love and commitment as Chris is - this is probably not the platform for them. It doesn't permit them enough time to develop a comfort level and confidence in their own judgment. We've seen that before.

Well in my opinion only mine, I think both girls are beautiful, smart, career oriented, both went on the show to see if they could meet a special person. For Chris I think he did go for the right reasons just probably freaked out a bit that just maybe there is a girl for him there , got down to two and I'm sure him being a athlete and having girls around him all the time but not knowing or knowing they were only there for him cause of his baseball. Can play a role in him picking the last two girls could be hard to pick the one. If I look at the whole picture it's hard for them all , but I think you can find love in that way on a show as edited or not. No rules on HOW, WHAT, WHERE, and WHY too people fall in love. I think that's super cool if it does work what a way to meet. I love watching and trying to figure who the one is and how I flip that pancake on both sides so many times during the show. It's fun , exciting some times I get a little pissy if I don't see what I want but that's what keeps me watching. But I am definitely confused this time around not sure if he picks one or who he would pick. The pancake is getting pretty flat on both sides and if part two don't come I could burn the dang pancake. All just my thoughts and view.

Pinkgirl wrote:Well in my opinion only mine, I think both girls are beautiful, smart, career oriented, both went on the show to see if they could meet a special person. For Chris I think he did go for the right reasons just probably freaked out a bit that just maybe there is a girl for him there , got down to two and I'm sure him being a athlete and having girls around him all the time but not knowing or knowing they were only there for him cause of his baseball. Can play a role in him picking the last two girls could be hard to pick the one.  If I look at the whole picture it's hard for them all , but I think you can find love in that way on a show as edited or not. No rules on HOW, WHAT, WHERE, and WHY too people fall in love. I think that's super cool if it does work what a way to meet. I love watching and trying to figure who the one is and how I flip that pancake on both sides so many times during the show. It's fun , exciting some times I get a little pissy if I don't see what I want but that's what keeps me watching.  But I am definitely confused this time around not sure if he picks one or who he would pick. The pancake is getting pretty flat on both sides and if part two don't come I could burn the dang pancake. All just my thoughts and view.

@Pinkgirl, I think that the fact you don't feel you know who he chose just means you're open-minded and objective. Truth is Chris was so confused himself, IMO it is impossible to know whom he chose, at this point.

I try to be objective. I'm just not one to judge people to extremes where you try and change who they are by some show, I think it's super cool people go out there and put themselves in the public eye to try and find love. Not sure with my personality if I could do that. So hard this season Chris he is like freaked out and both girls are grounded and bring different styles that it just throws you off.

I remember with Tims season how hard it was for April to put herself out there and to share her personal life she struggled as she was falling for him but very cautious at that I remember people saying she was standoffish stuck up , no personality and she is the total opposite. If you go to her IG when she went on holidays she was very shy even now when she posts things it's just who she is and he did pick her but it didn't work for what ever reason.

I really like Chris and his Final 2 girls. Who he chooses doesn’t matter to me whatsoever .... all 3 are total strangers and after Dec. 20 theyll become a distant memory. I watch the Bach pretty much the way I watch W movies and rom-coms .... to see a love story .... and if I see a connection and the lead pics that person, I’m happy and walk away feeling all warm and fuzzy and satisfied. If they don’t, I still walk away, but it’s with disappointment, as I obviously didn’t see it.

Chgohighlife wrote:

Pinkgirl wrote:Well in my opinion only mine, I think both girls are beautiful, smart, career oriented, both went on the show to see if they could meet a special person. For Chris I think he did go for the right reasons just probably freaked out a bit that just maybe there is a girl for him there , got down to two and I'm sure him being a athlete and having girls around him all the time but not knowing or knowing they were only there for him cause of his baseball. Can play a role in him picking the last two girls could be hard to pick the one.  If I look at the whole picture it's hard for them all , but I think you can find love in that way on a show as edited or not. No rules on HOW, WHAT, WHERE, and WHY too people fall in love. I think that's super cool if it does work what a way to meet. I love watching and trying to figure who the one is and how I flip that pancake on both sides so many times during the show. It's fun , exciting some times I get a little pissy if I don't see what I want but that's what keeps me watching.  But I am definitely confused this time around not sure if he picks one or who he would pick. The pancake is getting pretty flat on both sides and if part two don't come I could burn the dang pancake. All just my thoughts and view.

@Pinkgirl, I think that the fact you don't feel you know who he chose just means you're open-minded and objective. Truth is Chris was so confused himself, IMO it is impossible to know whom he chose, at this point.

@Pinkgirl I love the analogy with the pancake flipping! So true while I am trying to decide if I see a connection with one or the other.

@Chgohighlife I don't think that just because someone thinks they know who the lead picks they aren't open-minded or objective. They may just be very observant and/or have watched this show a while and have learned a trick or two.

I just finished the episode and I would be shocked if Chris' realizations with his parents don't mean the beginning of the end for Chris and Lyndsey.

"I always like to choose the difficult relationships."
"Who do you do that?"
*Smiles mischievously*
(Shows his immaturity IMO )

He keeps talking about how things are too perfect and too easy with Mikaela. So he likes to chase the difficult relationship. Makes sense.

He loves his parents. He's been away from them too long. His parents don't want him moving. Lydnsey isn't willing to compromise on moving to Toronto.

Everything Chris and mom talk about with him not opening up and losing good people because of it has been a part of the Mikaela storyline as well. I don't see how it relates to Lyndsey at all. If anything I think the edit focusing so much on age, location, and family disapproval has been amplified to show why he won't pick her.

Why is he so emotional when kissing Lyndsey goodbye, because he knows that it's over..


JMO.

I watch all these shows fortunately or not fortune, but this is the first time I get envoved in these forums I have always read what people say. Don't get me wrong it's interesting to read what people say how they choose theF1. But I have read a few times not just this season many with some real out there points of you. That's all ! we all are free to express the way we perceive or have opinions , I just choose to be fare to all story lines not that I don't think other people are not. Fare in meaning I can see most F1and F2 why they are the last ones standing in most cases so everyone has there option who is best for who heck I've been there and I was out to lunch more then once on F1. But I do try to think without objectives. I remember one time I was so sure and invested that I search and search till I got the spoiler who was picked that I was so sad but watched the show till the end. Let me tell you I was so sad for a few days you would of thought it was me being told see yea. It's like reading a novel about a love story and it starts out great the middle of the novel you can't hardly wait to see the love story unfold and then you get to the last few pages and out comes the Kleenex box it never ended the way you thought. But you pick up another novel and hope the ending is better with this love story.

Sprite wrote:

Chgohighlife wrote:

Pinkgirl wrote:Well in my opinion only mine, I think both girls are beautiful, smart, career oriented, both went on the show to see if they could meet a special person. For Chris I think he did go for the right reasons just probably freaked out a bit that just maybe there is a girl for him there , got down to two and I'm sure him being a athlete and having girls around him all the time but not knowing or knowing they were only there for him cause of his baseball. Can play a role in him picking the last two girls could be hard to pick the one.  If I look at the whole picture it's hard for them all , but I think you can find love in that way on a show as edited or not. No rules on HOW, WHAT, WHERE, and WHY too people fall in love. I think that's super cool if it does work what a way to meet. I love watching and trying to figure who the one is and how I flip that pancake on both sides so many times during the show. It's fun , exciting some times I get a little pissy if I don't see what I want but that's what keeps me watching.  But I am definitely confused this time around not sure if he picks one or who he would pick. The pancake is getting pretty flat on both sides and if part two don't come I could burn the dang pancake. All just my thoughts and view.

@Pinkgirl, I think that the fact you don't feel you know who he chose just means you're open-minded and objective. Truth is Chris was so confused himself, IMO it is impossible to know whom he chose, at this point.

@Pinkgirl I love the analogy with the pancake flipping! So true while I am trying to decide if I see a connection with one or the other.

@Chgohighlife I don't think that just because someone thinks they know who the lead picks they aren't open-minded or objective. They may just be very observant and/or have watched this show a while and have learned a trick or two.

Guess we'll find out soon. Jury is still out. JMO

You bet , I think WTA is going to be interesting I'm looking forward to that.

Chgohighlife wrote:

Sprite wrote:

Chgohighlife wrote:

@Pinkgirl, I think that the fact you don't feel you know who he chose just means you're open-minded and objective. Truth is Chris was so confused himself, IMO it is impossible to know whom he chose, at this point.

@Pinkgirl I love the analogy with the pancake flipping! So true while I am trying to decide if I see a connection with one or the other.

@Chgohighlife I don't think that just because someone thinks they know who the lead picks they aren't open-minded or objective. They may just be very observant and/or have watched this show a while and have learned a trick or two.

Guess we'll find out soon. Jury is still out. JMO

My point is not necessarily in relation to this season. I rarely get invested in any of these couples, but I can usually pick up on who is F1...and that includes international shows. The last time I was truly invested was Sean's season.