Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - SM Media - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

@MPEreads @RealitySteve we just saw @ariejr filming in Ft. Lauderdale. Any idea where they are staying or how long they are here?

Aria wrote:Is that Chelsea?

@realitysteve
(SPOILER): Not Peter on a 1-on-1 date with single mom, Chelsea Roy today

tigertiz wrote:Yes Kasha, Auntie's Love timeline has Caroline on the Grove group date in ep. 3.

Chgohighlife wrote:*EDIT*

Nothing is true of every man, there are always exceptions but, IN GENERAL and IMO;
Men as experienced as Arie can be cagey and shrewd but, dating them is not rocket science. Most men almost always have a woman they sleep with, that need is not one most of them are willing to ignore. Love and sex can be as mutually exclusive as love and eating or, love and breathing. The fact that a man wants to have the same woman in his bed as opposed to being out on the prowl every other night comes with age and experience and a fear of disease. One woman is easier, more convenient and safer. Spending every night with the same woman can be just as much a function of being a creature of habit as it can be a function of being in love or finding "the one". When a 35 year old man doesn't tell you he loves you, it's not because he is shy or, reserved. He has said it before to someone(s) - if he knows you he knows how much you want to hear it so, if he doesn't say it to you, it's fair to assume it is because he doesn't love you. If any member of his immediate family is christened, married or buried and you're not invited - assume the same, he doesn't love you and he's not serious about you. **IMO**

*IMO*A little facing reality goes a long way toward protecting your heart and saving you time. You have nothing to lose by leaving him because he is a man - men are predators by nature, they stalk, mark their territory and capture what they really want. If he wants you, he'll come and get you. Maybe not tomorrow but, he will. If it's just fine with him that you leave and start to date other men - that's because he doesn't really want you for himself. *IMO*

Now, I remember reading that Arie's last girlfriend said he stayed with her in her apartment for a while as he was waiting for his house to be "finished". He probably would have crashed at our house or, his buddy's condo - he needed a temporary place to stay. *IMO*That is not "living together". That's another point; IMO if he buys a new home and doesn't invite you to share it - he most likely doesn't love you.

Women always have a need to label relationships, IMO. I label that one, dating - which clearly means nothing permanent or, reliable. Lie to everyone else if you need to but, be honest with yourself, always. It prevents situations like the one this girl is trying to make money on, right now. All JMO