Nick Viall - Bachelor 21 - Discussion

At this point I think that Nick should really just unfollow Vanessa. Clearly she wants nothing to do with him on her Instagram (at least) if she blocked him. Knowing that Vanessa was the one who blocked/unblocked Nick last night and not the other way around really changes my perception of things. I do think that it's possible that Vanessa did see the video of Nick/Andi (or something to do with the wedding) and then reacted in the heat of the moment. I don't really know exactly what would prompt that reaction from Vanessa other than her feeling upset that Nick seemed to be having a good time while sitting next to an ex at a wedding...but I think this also shows that Vanessa is clearly not as far along in the grieving process as I thought, either.

I think she's good at putting a smile on her face when things aren't that great (which by no means is a bad quality). She was the only reason i thought Nissa might still be good, because she smiled and laughed and raved about Nick. Given how hard the previous breakup was supposedly, i think this one will take time.

And tbh, i dont really think the video needs to be seen for this trigger. It can just be from the fact that she is thinking about him.

Imo

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It doesn't surprise me Vanessa would block him. Just imo something would generally prompt the unblocking just as much as the blocking. If she thought he went home with someone last night or acted inappropriately, I don't see her unblocking him in the middle of the night. It's possible imo that he noticed and there was some communication there. JMO.

I agree Nick should just unfollow for the time being. But I don't think he will unless she tells him to.

happydays wrote:I think she's good at putting a smile on her face when things aren't that great (which by no means is a bad quality). She was the only reason i thought Nissa might still be good, because she smiled and laughed and raved about Nick. Given how hard the previous breakup was supposedly, i think this one will take time.

And tbh, i dont really think the video needs to be seen for this trigger. It can just be from the fact that she is thinking about him.

Imo

Agreed.

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It doesn't surprise me Vanessa would block him.  Just imo something would generally prompt the unblocking just as much as the blocking.  If she thought he went home with someone last night or acted inappropriately, I don't see her unblocking him in the middle of the night. It's possible imo that he noticed and there was some communication there. JMO.

I agree Nick should just unfollow for the time hint. But I don't think he will unless she tells him to.

Believe that even though she has unfollowed, she would go onto block. Foe the reasons outlined in previous 2 posts.

Yeah, that doesn't surprise me at all. I was saying I don't think nick went home with anyone. But maybe that I believe it wasn't even directed at my post.

Jane781 wrote:Yeah, that doesn't surprise me at all. I was saying I don't think nick went home with anyone. But maybe that I believe it wasn't even directed at my post.  

My bad! I should use the quoting more!

I get that Nick and Vanessa will be tied together for a while as the break up is still relatively new, but please remember this is Nick's thread and he should be the main topic of posts.  Posts predominately about Vanessa should be in her thread.  

Thanks.

Jane781 wrote:Believe what [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.]?

It doesn't surprise me Vanessa would block him.  Just imo something would generally prompt the unblocking just as much as the blocking.  If she thought he went home with someone last night or acted inappropriately, I don't see her unblocking him in the middle of the night. It's possible imo that he noticed and there was some communication there. JMO.

I agree Nick should just unfollow for the time hint. But I don't think he will unless she tells him to.

Yeah, I sincerely doubt that Nick hooked up with anyone last night (and I pretty much outlined my reasons in a previous post so I'm not even going to bother doing that again ). I just think that it's sad that Nick is still following/ liking Vanessa's posts and clearly wants to keep the peace between them but I feel like Vanessa still has some pent up anger towards him (or is maybe in that phase in the grieving process?) and therefore seemingly wants nothing to do with him at the moment. Honestly, I'm kind of bummed that it was Vanessa and not Nick who lashed out on Instagram last night--I feel like if Nick had blocked/unfollowed/re-followed last night then it would have been proof that they were in the same boat in terms of them reacting emotionally/erratically to the break-up. But as it stands, it just seems like they are not on the same page with how they are handling things...which I suppose is further proof of how they are just different people and by extension, just goes to show a part of the reason why they broke up.

Given that Nick never blocked her at all then that goes with what I posted upthread that as long as I have followed Nick he has never been one to block people he knows no matter what. It made zero sense to me that he would imo given that that's just not like him and never been a pattern of his SM activity.

AllAboutLove wrote:Given that Nick never blocked her at all then that goes with what I posted upthread that as long as I have followed Nick he has never been one to block people he knows no matter what. It made zero sense to me that he would imo given that that's just not like him and never been a pattern of his SM activity.

I do find that admirable, to be fair.

Cocoasneeze wrote:Oh well, then it was Vanessa acting in her feels and doing the blocking. Immature from her as well, but very normal. Now we can retire the 'Vanessa texted Nick about the wedding so much, that he decided to block her on ig' narrative. Jmo

Well...it's the same sort of thing isn't it, if she blocked him? It's still her being immature and dramatic and overly emotional. IMO.