Rachel Lindsay & Bryan Abasolo - Bachelorette 13 - Discussion

I don't think these people are stupid. Aside from potentially cheating on their fiancé, they're not going to risk their contract. Since Jordan was accused by a random, nameless girl that his account was still active on the dating app and didn't provide proof of it, he actually provided receipts if you will and gave emails from the app showing the last time he was active, which was months before his engagement.

On top of that, he asked a basic question and asked why he would risk his contract by talking to other women on a dating app who could potentially go public and tell the world he was talking to them, which would ruin the ending of the show and potentially get him into trouble. The same could be said for Bryan. He seems like a smart man and I don't think he would risk that.

Even if Bryan did have somewhat of a shady past with women, who cares? He seems to treat Rachel really, really well and makes her happy. That's all that matters. Not my type, but he seems really nice and adoring with her. I'm all about the present. All JMO

Re: Bryan contacting another woman during the show, etc.

I don't believe it. For whatever reason this person has a bone to pick with Bryan and Rachel or just wants to latch on to get her 15 minutes of fame. Either way, I'm not buying what she's selling.

Bryan/jordan, dudes like that, are in no struggle for women imo. If they didn't want their ettes, they'd be single and wouldn't go through the meat processor of the show. I think Bryan is fine and this is just more random chickees needing their .25 of a second of fame.

Bryan was actively posting about being on the show and also posted pictures of his date with Rachel on Instagram. If he was inappropriately DMing this woman, I am pretty sure she would have exposed him.

Like his friend Pauldine said, he is not a player and treats women with respect. The girl he dated for one month had nothing but nice things to say about him when she could have profited more from badmouthing him. JMO

You guys are so much more trusting than me! I always think that these guys are capable of being stupid when it comes to women and sometimes do want their cake (a loving and devoted wife) and to eat it too (hot models on the side). I'm hoping it's not true and I don't think that it is, given how he seems to worship the ground she walks on, but I never assume that contestants on this show are logical and smart. IMO.

For me, it's not really about trusting him, but if he did anything inappropriate, I would want receipts first to make my own judgement on it. Just some vague off-hand comment is not going to cut it, IMO.

The mere fact that it was JUST being brought up and the co-host didn't even know about tell me it was nothing to write home about, if it's even true. And the chick lives in California no less. Please!

Yeah, it seems like their thing back in Jan/Feb of the year was just DMs and never went beyond that. I do think it's a simple case of the girl exaggerating the story to sound cool in front of her roommate and the roommate exaggerating the story on her show b/c of her Peter love/Bryan hate. Well, I hope anyways! Bryan, I know you read here - unfollow her and all your other past DM buddies! It's just going to make your life much easier. IMO.

How do we know it's this Courtney person they were referring to in that podcast?

Sorry, I'm totally confused. The podcast mentioned some friend that was dm'ing or whatever she said. Did she give a name? I didn't listen to it all.

IMO Bryan wouldn't put himself in that position. He's gone 37 yrs without a scandal, and now that he is getting ready to go on the show, which he knew before he liked Rachel, he's going to start dm'ing some girl?

I need more details before I can form an opinion. Seeing them post show, this girl if this is true, is the last thing on his mind.

The interviewer sounded like she was gossiping like teenage girls do in their pajama's. Her own cohost didn't know anything about it.

@Aria Sorry for the double post. How do we know Bryan was dm'ing with this person in Jan/Feb?

Bryan did not delete any followers that we know of. That to me speaks for itself.

@GuardianAngel If you look up the host's IG, you can she follows Courtney and has pictures with her. And Bryan also follows the same girl and liked two of her pictures back in January and February.

I think it's likely not true either. I think he probably replied to a DM after filming to say he no longer wanted to talk, she told her roommate that "omg, this Bryan guy from the Bachelorette keeps DM-ing me!", and the roommate re-told the story on air, adding even more exaggeration by saying he's been doing it a lot. I just think he should unfollow her, both to show respect to Rachel and for public perception, since they have enough negativity already. IMO.

I don't think he should do anything. It's all in the past. Unfollowing her now does not serve any purpose and just makes it look like he has something to hide, IMO. He should just focus on his current relationship.