Bachelor In Paradise - Season 4 - Episodes - General Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #3

Aria wrote:

teamkristina wrote:i can not deal with the amount of arrogance stuck upness (idc if thats not a word) d low presented in her latest post. She is attention hungry by posting that vile picture of her and f boy dean. And i never attacked her for wanting to have fun but she's having fun at the expense of another womans tears. I would never want to be a reason for the feelings kristina felt and no it takes two to tango and dean is more to blame. but still if i was in d lows position i wouldnt selfishly give myself a pass for hurting somebody else because theres something called respect and kindness and decency to my friend. I know dean is at fault but still her post is very stuck up its like "i cant help it im so perfect and everyones jealous of me!" You brought your own car? Well Kristina survived a russian orphanage. so please. All of this is JMO so please don't delete this.

How is it a vile picture? They're just kissing. It's surely less vile that watching Kristina give Dean a handjob on camera.

And how is she having fun at the expense of another woman's tears? Do you really think that if she was out of the picture (like she is now) that Dean would become this perfect gentleman and enter into a monogamous, committed relationship with Kristina? No, he'd find the next hot half-Asian girl willing to sleep with him. And would keep Kristina around for his ego and image, while having fun with her. DLo said that she's had some really tough moments. Is Kristina to blame for her tears? That's just silly. She's a single woman, other contestants have said that it was Dean that would constantly pursue her, she and Kristina were never friends, and Kristina never told DLo to stay away. DLo is the only people with any amount of self-respect and integrity in this situation. Kristina will continue to say "how high?" when Dean tells her to jump whereas DLo was smart enough to see who he was and get out of that situation. Also, DLo's whole post was about how everyone DOESN'T love her. She's being sl*t-shamed and being treated like the mistress on Ellen, whereas Kristina gets treated like the heroine.

I'm not even a DLo fan, but the reaction to her and Kristina is ridiculous, IMO.

yana_bach wrote:Come on now...Just because Dean's an azz doesn't mean DLo is off the hook for stepping into an already formed relationship. Everyone has to take responsibility for his own actions.

Aria wrote:How is it a vile picture? They're just kissing. It's surely less vile that watching Kristina give Dean a handjob on camera.

And how is she having fun at the expense of another woman's tears? Do you really think that if she was out of the picture (like she is now) that Dean would become this perfect gentleman and enter into a monogamous, committed relationship with Kristina? No, he'd find the next hot half-Asian girl willing to sleep with him. And would keep Kristina around for his ego and image, while having fun with her. DLo said that she's had some really tough moments. Is Kristina to blame for her tears? That's just silly. She's a single woman, other contestants have said that it was Dean that would constantly pursue her, she and Kristina were never friends, and Kristina never told DLo to stay away. DLo is the only people with any amount of self-respect and integrity in this situation. Kristina will continue to say "how high?" when Dean tells her to jump whereas DLo was smart enough to see who he was and get out of that situation. Also, DLo's whole post was about how everyone DOESN'T love her. She's being sl*t-shamed and being treated like the mistress on Ellen, whereas Kristina gets treated like the heroine.

I'm not even a DLo fan, but the reaction to her and Kristina is ridiculous, IMO.