Bachelor In Paradise - Season 4 - Episodes - General Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #3

If you were DLo would you still have given your rose to Dean? I probably wouldn't especially after he went after Kristina even if only to say goodbye.

Jack Stone seems to have integrity. He's gone up in my books.

This show is a crapfest and I've become Little Miss Puffytail.

@2ndcampbell I wasn't feeling DLo and hoped she would've left during the rose ceremony too, because she knew Dean had a connection with Kristina and went after him anyhow.

DLo was the wow-factor while Kristina was the safe, take-me-home-to-meet-the-family type of woman. When women like DLo become boring to men like Dean, the safe woman like Kristina may no longer be around. So if this action broke her heart, so be it.  Dean should have his heart broken too so he will learn a lesson about life and human emotions. I have no sympathy for DLo as she was the instigator that started the three-way drama.

Quietbreezes wrote:@2ndcampbell I wasn't feeling DLo and hoped she would've left during the rose ceremony too, because she knew Dean had a connection with Kristina and went after him anyhow.

DLo was the wow-factor while Kristina was the safe, take-me-home-to-meet-the-family type of woman. When women like DLo become boring to men like Dean, the safe woman like Kristina may no longer be around. So if this action broke her heart, so be it.  Dean should have his heart broken too so he will learn a lesson about life and human emotions. I have no sympathy for DLo as she was the instigator that started the three-way drama.

I too had hoped she would have left or at the very least had given her rose to someone else. But, we're giving her too much credit. I'm not sure she's capable of such logic.

How immature is Amanda right away divulging Christen as scallop fingers? Aaargh. No wonder she has a hard time getting into a committed relationship.

2ndcampbell wrote:If you were DLo would you still have given your rose to Dean? I probably wouldn't especially after he went after Kristina even if only to say goodbye.

I noticed she didn't look too pleased when Dean ran after Kristina, which is understandable. She should have left, but perhaps thought to be the bigger person since ultimately Dean chose her (on that evening anyway).

Not a big fan of the twins. They're pretty but are vapid and classless to be honest. 

And that recent Instagram post by Dean - obviously a lame attempt to salvage whatever is left of his image/rep. JMO. 

I just hope Kristina has moved on for good and does not get reeled in again to his mind games. I feel for DLo - she is getting (unfair) hate comments on her social media. The sl*t-shaming from some viewers is really disgusting. And this recent post by Dean is just another azz**** move by him.

Even though Dean and Danielle hung out after BIP, this was prior to it airing and I'm sure they've had some sort of fall-out since then. Both girls have unfollowed him on SM, so hopefully this points to them ditching his azz for good. Good riddance I say.

Some people truly do believe they are gods. Boasting about how they are going to destroy. Threatening violence. Filled with insults and shaming. Filled with self worship and self praise. (And definitely exhibiting poor sportsmanship when not getting their way, aka losing.) Rails and boasts.

Yet completely devoid of any knowledge or understanding of the most fundamental things that everyone should know!

A person should strive to beautiful on the inside also, and not just the outside. Some people think what's outside is all there is, but when the inside of that person is corrupted, it doesn't even matter how pretty the outside is. That's like a gold plated tungsten, or silver plated nickel. Just shiny on the outside.

I like Jack Stone. I don't know what some others on that show are doing for men.

I'm not going to blame DLo. I think that each woman has a right to set her own conditions for what is or is not acceptable behavior from a man. However if I were DLo, I wouldn't have been happy when Dean walked Kristina out. And when Dean even remotely considered going out with one of the twins, I would have been finished with him. He's like a kid in a candy store. He wants to try every flavor.

I'm wondering if DLo was thinking, that once Dean chose her for a moment, he'd want to be only with her. Because Imo it's clear, that he enjoys stringing women along and having his cake and eating it too. Imo he's not treating DLo any better that he treated Kristina, and she did stick by him regardless. Jmo

It didn't really bother me that Dean asked to walk Kristina out.

1) From Kristina's POV, she could have said "No thank you" to his offer if she didn't want to hear another word from his mouth. Instead, she probably looked at it as allowing for final closure and gave Dean a chance to say anything he may like to say in his goodbye in a setting away from DLo and everyone else. I thought it was pleasant that she agreed, and from the edit, it doesn't appear that she waffled at all. IMO

2) From Dean's POV, he probably wanted to not end on such a low note. Kristina bypassed both Dean and DLo with her hugs, so Dean knew she was either pissed or shutdown. It was a way to clear his conscience, which Kristina was kind enough to indulge him. IMO

3) From DLo's POV, she could have either felt insecure that Dean walked her out or thought more of him for doing the gentlemanly thing. He talked to DLo and she knew he was choosing to end it with Kristina and spend more time getting to know her, so no real need to be insecure because of that gesture. IMO

Kind of like Dean's own little The Bachelor experience. Test driving multiple women in front of one another and walking out the rejected ones. Given a few more days, IMO, he would have gone on the date with the hot twin and walked a few more rejected ones to the curb. Women, unfortunately, seem to be like a moth to a flame with this guy. SMH.