Nick Viall & Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - Discussion - #3

I became Facebook "friends" with both MM and Mamma Viall during Andi's season. Honestly Mary Viall is one of the kindest people on SM with only nice things to say. Regardless of how N&V's relationship, Mary being kind is her normal.

I have no opinion on N&V. Hubby and I leave the house separately a lot. Part of us having lives and not being attached at the hip.

Until they announce a breakup, I will think all is well. Honestly, I think Nick was lucky a smart and beautiful woman with a charitable heart would be interested in a man who in the past two years put out a mostly superficial public image.

All JMO.

While I think a breakup is imminent because yeah smoke = fiyah fiyah imo, the neighbor girl sounds cray AF IMO. At least keep the neighborhood stalking on the DL, comrade.

As I said, I have no idea if true, just thought I would pass on what I heard.

Alanna wrote:While I think a breakup is imminent because yeah smoke = fiyah fiyah imo, the neighbor girl sounds cray AF IMO. At least keep the neighborhood stalking on the DL, comrade.

I'm gonna defend her for a sec. They (the afterbuzz crew) started speaking about N/V and it was brought up that Sterling's actually their neighbour, and she was asked to weigh in on if she thinks they're doing well or not, based on her observations. Sterling specifically says 'it's kinda hard to say' because she's never actually seen them together, she just knows they're her neighbours because she's seen them coming and going individually. And then another host talks about what they've heard from sources. Sterling actually stayed out of it.

ReneeM wrote:

Alanna wrote:While I think a breakup is imminent because yeah smoke = fiyah fiyah imo, the neighbor girl sounds cray AF IMO. At least keep the neighborhood stalking on the DL, comrade.

I'm gonna defend her for a sec. They (the afterbuzz crew) started speaking about N/V and it was brought up that Sterling's actually their neighbour, and she was asked to weigh in on if she thinks they're doing well or not, based on her observations. Sterling specifically says 'it's kinda hard to say' because she's never actually seen them together, she just knows they're her neighbours because she's seen them coming and going individually. And then another host talks about what they've heard from sources. Sterling actually stayed out of it.

Thank you for clarifying!! I don't care for the guy but I don't need him locked up "getting the hose again" either

Billysmom wrote:Mary viall recently posted happy birthday msg to Vanessa's mom on ig. I would think the parents would have an idea if a breakup were imminent....

I don't think posting a happy birthday message can be used as a litmus test for the status of a relationship, IMO. Heck! During filming parents of the lead would like pictures of the lead and F2 together and that was no indication that the lead chose the F2. So I don't think it holds much weight, IMO.

I don't think the birthday message from Nick's mom says anything one way or the other. However, I do think most of the things people consider "smoke" in this relationship aren't really smoke. For example, Nick's explanation of the plane story seems 100% valid to me. Also, I think they have a very different relationship than we are used to seeing with bachelor nation couples. So, people see them and interpret them as not being happy. Also, I don't see Nick as being particularly joyous or talkative when interacting with random people they encounter. That is just his personality, though. That doesn't mean he is miserable in the relationship. I personally think they are both still happy in the relationship at this point.

I think they will be over by September/October, max. Maybe sooner. They have a shelf life no longer than Juan Pablo/Nikki or BenF/Courtney.

He just does not prioritize her. If he cared, he'd care more about immersing himself in Canada they way she does with America. He doesn't, so meh. Over him. Hope he's having fun at improve class or whatever. Good luck with that.

Just going by SM, it doesn't take much to tell that something is not right. jmo

sosleepy wrote:I think they will be over by September/October, max. Maybe sooner. They have a shelf life no longer than Juan Pablo/Nikki or BenF/Courtney.

He just does not prioritize her. If he cared, he'd care more about immersing himself in Canada they way she does with America. He doesn't, so meh. Over him. Hope he's having fun at improve class or whatever. Good luck with that.

Kinda hard to prioritize a woman when you're madly, fully and completed in love with the handsome polished gent in the mirror already imo.

Alanna wrote:

sosleepy wrote:I think they will be over by September/October, max. Maybe sooner. They have a shelf life no longer than Juan Pablo/Nikki or BenF/Courtney.

He just does not prioritize her. If he cared, he'd care more about immersing himself in Canada they way she does with America. He doesn't, so meh. Over him. Hope he's having fun at improve class or whatever. Good luck with that.

Kinda hard to prioritize a woman when you're madly, fully and completed in love with the handsome polished gent in the mirror already imo.

Too funny and too true. He out punted his coverage with Vanessa if he loses her maybe the twins or Ashley I will eventually take him?

Well, according to Vanessa, he is very caring and thoughtful. We have no idea how he handles himself in the relationship behind closed doors.