Dr. Bryan Abasolo - Bachelorette 13 - Discussion - #4

Question, is Bryan a certified Dr.? Where did he study and what is his degree?

...just curious

I don't think Bryan is a bad guy or gaming Rachel. I just think always falls hard for every woman he's with making Rachel nothing special. If he indeed is uprooting his life to follow her around, then I'm happy for them.

But that story he told in their Switzerland date where he was in ***love*** with the *recent* girlfriend he brought to the wedding in Colombia makes me think that he is like this with all women he's interested in. I want whoever is with Rachel to love HER and not the Bachelorette or love itself. Only time will tell.

^^^ I think he is a very passionate person.  Nothing wrong with that, imo.

I tend to think that Rachel and Bryan meet each other's needs physically and I mean that they are both very affectionate. The chemistry is what attracts you to someone in the first place. After that, you have to have more than just sizzling hot chemistry, as that will fade over time. I am sure there is more to their relationship than this, but we haven't seen it because the theme is "is it too good to be true", so the doubt will continue all the way to the FRC. I look forward to seeing them interact on ATFR and in RL.

@officeRules here's his academic background
https://appsmqa.doh.state.fl.us/MQASearchServices/HealthCareProviders/Details?LicInd=10644&ProCde=501

He got his advanced degree from Palmer of college of Chiropractic , it was the first school of chiropractic in the world, and The Doctor of Chiropractic Degree Program of Palmer College of Chiropractic’s campuses are accredited by the Commission on Accreditation of the Council on Chiropractic Education.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Palmer_College_of_Chiropractic

It looks like he's a legit doctor, but not a MD. Bryan never claimed he's a medical doctor on the show.

Nibbles22 wrote:^^^ I think he is a very passionate person.  Nothing wrong with that, imo.

Right! I do believe he falls hard but certainly not for every woman. I believe he saw Rachel and like what he saw and wanted to meet her to see if there could really be something lasting there. If he is really thinking about moving, then I would say he has found the one. By his IG activity I think he is truly happy. I suspect he has been single for so long because they were one-side relationships, which you can't make work but now he has a 50/50 love and it feels so good (as Teddy would say).

Great Post mommyof2

pbmax wrote:

Nibbles22 wrote:^^^ I think he is a very passionate person.  Nothing wrong with that, imo.

Right!  I do believe he falls hard but certainly not for every woman.  I believe he saw Rachel and like what he saw and wanted to meet her to see if there could really be something lasting there. If he is really thinking about moving,  then I would say he has found the one. By his IG activity I think he is truly happy.  I suspect he has been single for so long because they were one-side relationships, which you can't make work  but now  he has a 50/50 love and it feels so good  (as Teddy would say).

Great Post mommyof2

I agree with everything except, imo, it's 100/100. He said he's all in and if she did indeed chose him, then she is all in and to me, all in is 100/100.

sdmom wrote:@officeRules here's his academic background
https://appsmqa.doh.state.fl.us/MQASearchServices/HealthCareProviders/Details?LicInd=10644&ProCde=501

He got his advanced degree from Palmer of college of Chiropractic ,  it was the first school of chiropractic in the world, and The Doctor of Chiropractic Degree Program of Palmer College of Chiropractic’s campuses are accredited by the Commission on Accreditation of the Council on Chiropractic Education.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Palmer_College_of_Chiropractic

It looks like he's a legit doctor, but not a MD. Bryan never claimed he's a medical doctor on the show.

I'll just add that the above schooling and degree was after he obtained a B.A. degree from University of Florida. So, yes, he's a legitimate Doctor of Chiropractic (D.C.). Totally different than an medical doctor (M.D.) or a Doctor of Osteopathy (D.O.), but still very legitimate.

I've seen a trend with SM that any guy who is single and 35 or older must be seen as a player. Doesn't matter how he talks or woos, it's always the same "he must be a player". And yet, not one woman or ex coming out the woodwork talking about Bryan. So to me he is not a player, reformed or otherwise - unless there's actual proof of this from past women. And there's not.


JMO

I get why people say Bryan's a smooth-talker. He says things like:

"You look spectacular this evening." [This was in Spanish]
"Have you ever dated a Colombian before...oh you're in trouble, but only the best trouble."
"First things first, I missed you so much."
"This is a fairytale."
"Every time I see you it's just progress, that's all I think about."
"I don't worry about other people's relationships with you, I came here for you."
"If you think I'm too good for you, and I think you're too good for me...there's a very simple solution. We're a perfect match."
"When I'm with you nothing else matters...I'm going all in and I'm not going to stop."
"I can envision what it's going to be like [between us] and it's absolutely magical."
"I'm obsessed with seeing you smile."

Bryan is charming but IMO it doesn't appear to be just words. His expressions, voice, and BL comes across as sincere and warm. I think he's just a romantic at heart. We may be seeing the real deal. I certainly hope so.

kerriway wrote:I get why people say Bryan's a smooth-talker. He says things like:

"You look spectacular this evening." [This was in Spanish]
"Have you ever dated a Colombian before...oh you're in trouble, but only the best trouble."
"First things first, I missed you so much."
"This is a fairytale."
"Every time I see you it's just progress, that's all I think about."
"I don't worry about other people's relationships with you, I came here for you."
"If you think I'm too good for you, and I think you're too good for me...there's a very simple solution. We're a perfect match."
"When I'm with you nothing else matters...I'm going all in and I'm not going to stop."
"I can envision what it's going to be like [between us] and it's absolutely magical."
"I'm obsessed with seeing you smile."

Bryan is charming but IMO it doesn't appear to be just words. His expressions, voice, and BL comes across as sincere and warm. I think he's just a romantic at heart. We may be seeing the real deal. I certainly hope so.

Wow smooth huh. Certainly not any smooth talking I ever heard. Thank you for bringing this, because I kept scratching my head, saying "what smooth lines".

@kerriway Thanks for all that. I too don't see what's wrong with saying how you feel. He seems very genuine when he talks to her. He is expressing his feelings to her. I'm not sure what would be acceptable, but I certainly would push a guy away if he said those things to me and I really liked him.