Re: Peter Kraus - Bachelorette 13 - FAN Forum - Discussion

[richmondrose]

Thanks @reason.I wonder why they are being so generous with positive sc now. Not complaining though.

[Ladybug82]

@richmondrose probably because they won't give us much come FRC time. IMO there's a reason they're being generous now.

[GuardianAngel]

@Ilovepeter please post the link to where those pictures came from. Everything needs a source. TYIA

[ElonM]

I don't know what to say.

http://people.com/tv/bachelorette-rachel-lindsay-exclusive-blog-geneva-switzerland/

My last one-on-one was with Peter. Our relationship at that point had been exceptional in that while it always felt as strong as any other, Peter is very cautious with the words that have to do with love. He will make you feel love in so many different little ways, like gifts or how he is also completely focused on me in every moment we share no matter how crazy things all around us may be.

I admit I struggle with the word love, too, and like the little gap in our smiles it’s actually endearing that we share that. I left my struggle, however, back on Nick’s season. I promised myself that I would be open to love and completely put myself and my heart out there because that is the only way this was going to work for me.  Remember … the greater the risk, the greater the reward. So the question is becoming, Is Peter willing to let himself go and take the same risks with me?

I took Peter in the helicopter to Glacier 3000 because he is so down-to-earth that even the most extreme dates don’t distract him from focusing on the relationship. Our helicopter ride up to the glacier and our dog sled ride was breathtaking. I remember thinking nothing could take away from this moment.

However, the more we talking about our relationship and how he was feeling, I felt the storm coming in — and it wasn’t just emotionally. During our conversation on the mountain we actually had to hold filming because of a crazy whiteout snowstorm that blew in. After spending the day on the glacier with Peter, I left with mixed feelings. He had admitted the connection I had with the other men made him unsure at times whether he would invite me to meet his family. It was a reminder that the men had the biggest decision of the season to make this week too. More so than accepting a rose, accepting me into their family’s homes was a leap of faith. I appreciated his honestly but more than ever I feared Peter would never be able to take the risks that one must take to get engaged on this journey.


My conversation over dinner that evening gave me more insight into Peter’s reluctance to say everything was going to work out for us in the end. He was blunt about his uncertainty about being ready to propose. Watching how emotional he became while talking about leaving his ex-girlfriend told me that he was as afraid to break my heart as I was to have it broken. Yet when Peter looked into my eyes and told me he didn’t throw the word love around carelessly yet saw himself on the path to being in love with me, I felt assured it was worth it to risk to move forward to his hometown and see if we could get to that place together.

[Guest]

It's not looking good for Peter based on that blog. I don't think he'll be able make the leap she needs. I was a bit shocked that she said their relationship was as strong as the others in spite of the fact he can't use the word love. He's the exception so far, but she can't wait forever. Her feelings for others will develop.

He is really going to be shocked that he's getting cut because he FEELS the connection but can't risk saying the words and taking the leap.  I think he is kind of this screwed either way: say it and get cut because it's too late or don't say it and definitely get cut.  

[Guest]

I don't know what to say.

http://people.com/tv/bachelorette-rachel-lindsay-exclusive-blog-geneva-switzerland/

My last one-on-one was with Peter. Our relationship at that point had been exceptional in that while it always felt as strong as any other, Peter is very cautious with the words that have to do with love. He will make you feel love in so many different little ways, like gifts or how he is also completely focused on me in every moment we share no matter how crazy things all around us may be.

I admit I struggle with the word love, too, and like the little gap in our smiles it’s actually endearing that we share that. I left my struggle, however, back on Nick’s season. I promised myself that I would be open to love and completely put myself and my heart out there because that is the only way this was going to work for me.  Remember … the greater the risk, the greater the reward. So the question is becoming, Is Peter willing to let himself go and take the same risks with me?

I took Peter in the helicopter to Glacier 3000 because he is so down-to-earth that even the most extreme dates don’t distract him from focusing on the relationship. Our helicopter ride up to the glacier and our dog sled ride was breathtaking. I remember thinking nothing could take away from this moment.

However, the more we talking about our relationship and how he was feeling, I felt the storm coming in — and it wasn’t just emotionally. During our conversation on the mountain we actually had to hold filming because of a crazy whiteout snowstorm that blew in. After spending the day on the glacier with Peter, I left with mixed feelings. He had admitted the connection I had with the other men made him unsure at times whether he would invite me to meet his family. It was a reminder that the men had the biggest decision of the season to make this week too. More so than accepting a rose, accepting me into their family’s homes was a leap of faith. I appreciated his honestly but more than ever I feared Peter would never be able to take the risks that one must take to get engaged on this journey.


My conversation over dinner that evening gave me more insight into Peter’s reluctance to say everything was going to work out for us in the end. He was blunt about his uncertainty about being ready to propose. Watching how emotional he became while talking about leaving his ex-girlfriend told me that he was as afraid to break my heart as I was to have it broken. Yet when Peter looked into my eyes and told me he didn’t throw the word love around carelessly yet saw himself on the path to being in love with me, I felt assured it was worth it to risk to move forward to his hometown and see if we could get to that place together.

I am right here on that Pachel ship not leaving. A lovely rose anyone??

[bleuberry]

I'm on the ship in the sense that they're still my faves but I'm looking forward to his own season. January seems like forever away

[ElonM]

I'm on this ship until the end! Did y'all notice the future tense when talking about her date with Peter?

[Guest]

I'm on the ship in the sense that they're still my faves but I'm looking forward to his own season. January seems like forever away  

Unfortunately there wont be a season of Peter IMHO. **edit**

[Guest]

@elonM, what do you mean about the future tense?

[Topazgold]

@reason thank you! And 1 for you 

I'm right beside you, till August the 7th. #TeamGap

[Guest]

@reason thank you! And 1 for you 

I'm right beside you, till August the 7th. #TeamGap

All we need is the waiter to bring the champagne. together looking for that beautiful soft landing coming up. Remember the we will need it for the FRC. As sure as the day we were born. IMHO

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