Dr. Bryan Abasolo - Bachelorette 13 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #3

AllAboutLove wrote:I definitely believe that "Timing is everything" is Bryan's mantra. It's exactly why I think he told Rach night one that he was there for something serious with her and then on his 1on1 that "Timing is everything". To me, that he said that in regards to Rachel is what stands out to me.

mindless wrote:That new IG pic of him is the best he's looked, probably because he doesn't look like himself to me.

Anyway, I also think his lines and sales tactics go beyond regular Bachelor speak. Yes, they all use certain words and phrases, but usually by week 6, the frontrunners have been shown having some kind of a normal conversation. I'm still waiting for that with Bryan. The "I felt ugly" "I felt ugly too!" conversation was probably the closest, but you could call that mirroring as well. I'm still waiting to see who he is beyond the cheesy lines and aggressive kissing. Four more dates to go, so there's still time, but so far I can't get a sense of who he is at all. And I'm really not saying he's faking his feelings or has some ulterior motive. Like others have said, I just feel like he's doing everyone including himself a disservice by hiding behind the cheese. It's not necessary. If Rachel is the one for him, she'll fall for him without any pick up lines, and we've already seen them be a hindrance since Rachel herself keeps wondering if she's being played. Bryan could easily convince her just by showing up as a real person. If the cheesy "romantic" lines are the real him and that's all there is to him, then he's the most boring contestant ever to have made it to F1 IMHO.

All JMO.

pbmax wrote:

mindless wrote:That new IG pic of him is the best he's looked, probably because he doesn't look like himself to me.

Anyway, I also think his lines and sales tactics go beyond regular Bachelor speak. Yes, they all use certain words and phrases, but usually by week 6, the frontrunners have been shown having some kind of a normal conversation. I'm still waiting for that with Bryan. The "I felt ugly" "I felt ugly too!" conversation was probably the closest, but you could call that mirroring as well. I'm still waiting to see who he is beyond the cheesy lines and aggressive kissing. Four more dates to go, so there's still time, but so far I can't get a sense of who he is at all. And I'm really not saying he's faking his feelings or has some ulterior motive. Like others have said, I just feel like he's doing everyone including himself a disservice by hiding behind the cheese. It's not necessary. If Rachel is the one for him, she'll fall for him without any pick up lines, and we've already seen them be a hindrance since Rachel herself keeps wondering if she's being played. Bryan could easily convince her just by showing up as a real person. If the cheesy "romantic" lines are the real him and that's all there is to him, then he's the most boring contestant ever to have made it to F1 IMHO.

All JMO.

Well I guess its all in the eye of the beholder.  What some see as lines other see as a man expressing his feelings.  It depend on who's mouth the words are coming out, whether they are using lines, be smooth or a player,  if it was a Woody Allen type,  it would be perceived different. Some see him as Romantic some as a player. What matter the most, Rachel likes his style and keeps a song in her heart, took her to cloud nine, what can be better