Re: Ben Higgins - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

by **GuardianAngel** Tue Jun 27, 2017 8:17 pm

@mindless I have to rethink my opinion that I never criticize anyone that shills. laugh out loud

I expected a freaking candle glowing in the dark, swaying to the movement in the air.

That blog IMO was truly written by a spoiled brat. MeBen

Flicker Ben is ready to light your fire! rose bud

by Cocoasneeze Wed Jun 28, 2017 1:47 am

AllAboutLove wrote:I found that post of Ben's to be particularly in bad taste talking about his "future wife" already! Like calm the farm already it's only been over a month since the breakup announcement. Sheesh!

I also found it ridiculous how Ben likens a relationship to dancing (which is fine on it's own) when he says "I'm not a great dancer. But with the right partner guiding me, helping me, teaching me, I can thrive—or at least look like I know what I’m doing"

So basically he sucks in relationships but with the right person he won't suck? Good grief! Dude... work on yourself first before expecting someone else to teach you how be in a relationship.

Honestly this dude is so self-absorbed to me. SMH

http://mahoganyworkplace.com/sitemain/my-dreams-for-a-relationship/

He's an adult man, but can't guide himself to be a good partner, she has to teach him. Gmab. Here's a hint for you, Ben, which every half decent adult man knows. Do not sign up to do a reality show with your fiance, which would lead up to a wedding, then call back the wedding stuff on that same show, which will air for hundreds of thousands to see. She doesn't need to tell you that. Also, do not tell two women you love them, and then refuse to apologise to the one you propose to. These are very basic do nots in a relationship.

He's a child, not a man, IMO, and a very selfish child at that. Jmo

by hannah.e. Wed Jun 28, 2017 11:26 pm

Ben posted on IG that his blog is now up. Lauren's brother Brett liked and commented "hell ya brotha" I thought that was sweet. I think Brett really liked/likes Ben. The day of the breakup announcement he was liking sweet IG comments about how sad people were about Ben and Lauren ending things.

by AllAboutLove Thu Jun 29, 2017 12:24 am

Ben liked this on IG today. Um wth?

https://www.instagram.com/p/BV5aA4sAnt-/?taken-by=barstoolsports

by hannah.e. Thu Jun 29, 2017 12:56 am

LMAO Barstool always posts funny things. I wouldn't take it too seriously. I think he's been on their show before.

by AllAboutLove Thu Jun 29, 2017 1:33 am

I guess I just don't find it funny at all. Forget the public groping regardless of age it's the voyeuristic nature of someone filming that and then uploading it and Ben liking it that I just find gross.

jmo

by Cocoasneeze Thu Jun 29, 2017 8:05 am

Imo That clip is just gross. The lady seems to be uncomfortable to be filmed, and by the audience. She readjusted the walking stick, so the dude couldn't grope her between her legs. And the 'Go for the grope' cheering from the guy, and the women being all awwwww. All around just wrong. I'm surprised Ben liked it, but I guess I shouldn't be. Imo he's turning out to be not so decent guy after all. Jmo

by Mgrissom Thu Jun 29, 2017 8:17 am

I was married to that "all about me" guy. They do not see things from the woman's perspective. Ben sees the man getting what he wants at a ripe old age, not the woman being uncomfortable.

by hannah.e. Thu Jun 29, 2017 8:42 am

I completely disagree. I wouldn't look so deeply into that post and then say Ben wouldn't try to see things from a woman's perspective. IMO, I don't see how you can make a judgement about him off of one thing he liked on IG.

by **GuardianAngel** Thu Jun 29, 2017 10:41 am

I can make a judgement off of anything he likes, whether it's 1 or 100.

That's totally disgusting IMO that he's watching it, and sharing it. If he thinks that's a relationship goal, he's in serious trouble, but we knew that already.

by hannah.e. Thu Jun 29, 2017 10:46 am

I would take what he says/does in interviews and what he recently posted on his blog more seriously than some dumb post. I guess we see things differently.

by bleuberry Thu Jun 29, 2017 10:48 am

I've given Ben the side eye for a lot of reasons lately but I don't think this one is a big deal. Just a silly viral video making the rounds on popular IG pages. I follow some (like daquan) and I don't 100% condone or even give much thought to everything I like. JMO.

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