Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6

All of this stuff, vague, direct or whatever is so high schoolish or even middle schoolish for people in the mid to late 20s.
They are all closer to 30 than 20. It's scary. Not one of this bunch is close to maturity, to being in a serious relationship or dare I say it having kids.

While I think "fake" is very fitting for Ben, she could've been referring to anyone. Like Leah, whose been very vocal online lately, or Ben's friends, who acted like her friends and now joke about Ben hooking up with his ex, or someone we don't even "know". I can't really start guessing unless something more specific is said. JMO.

Give it a few years. Perhaps Lo will be on Steve-O's podcast at some point and he will do the vague tweet question he asks everyone. This one is prime ready for that.

I actually think it was directed at Ben.
Haley put a bikini photo of Lauren on her IG story with the caption "when you find out he's hanging out with his ex but you don't care." Immature to see her friends do this online. Unfortunate that she keeps company like this and approves of this. And to essentially pit Lauren vs. the ex with Lauren being the hotter one. He saw his ex while with a group of his closest friends. Doesn't mean much IMO. Shaelin broke Ben's heart real bad, he doesn't want back in IMO.

Shade Away IMO.   Ben still thinks he is the centerpiece on Rushmore. In reality IMO he is a plastic souvenior version found in the sale bin of the cheap knockoff gift shop found on the outskirts of Rapid City.
JMO

I don't see that on her IG story, did she take it down? Or I'm just blind??

IMO, it's been officially over with Ben and Lauren for a few weeks and he ALREADY partied and met up with Shaelin. She's ALREADY come out of the woodwork, commenting and liking and hanging all over the outskirts of his social media. Like dude. I'd be freaking upset if I was Lauren too. That suuuuuuuucks.

IMO, it's hard to ignore this when these are Lauren's closest friends from the Bachelor. It says a lot about her IMO. You are who your friends are. There's no doubt in my mind that Lauren is much cattier than she wants to appear.

Oh, Haley must've deleted it. Thank God.

Okay, this is going to sound harsh but here I go anyway: Lauren has made a series of bad decisions imo, number one being not going back to work and living a normal life, moving in with Ben, HEA?, etc. with the latest, letting the twins live with her for however long and becoming bff with Amanda. These women are vapid and have their own agenda, and while she may get some instant gratification from them, ie girl-power, I don't think Lauren is vapid and/or sm savey enough to hang with them in the long run. She really should distance herself from this franchise if she wants happiness down the road. She won't be 20something forever and when the friendships and fame start drying up she'll be all alone having learned nothing. JMO

Sheokaf wrote:Okay, this is going to harsh but here I go anyway: Lauren has made a series of bad decisions imo, number one being not going back to work and living a normal life, moving in with Ben, HEA?, etc. with the latest, letting the twins live with her for however long and becoming bff with Amanda. These women are vapid and have their own agenda, and while she may get some instant gratification from them, ie girl-power, I don't think Lauren is vapid and/or sm savey enough to hang with them in the long run. She really should distance herself from this franchise if she wants happiness down the road. She won't be 20something forever and when the friendships and fame start drying up she'll be all alone having learned nothing. JMO

Thank you for this, I'm glad to see other people who share the same opinions as me.

Ben and Lauren ended things weeks ago..but wait I thought they were over months ago?? Which one is it? While Ben was working Lauren was jet setting to Cabo, LA, Florida prancing in her bikinis and of course sharing it all over the internet. She showed she was over it for a while. Has it seemed like Lauren has sat at home hurting and crying over the breakup recently? IMO, no. So why should Ben? This was hanging out for a few hours. If Shaelin goes to Honduras in July when Ben goes..sure maybe there's more. Until then, it was innocent and nbd IMO.

Uhhh, maybe it's just a major coincidence, but Becca just posted another IG story that makes me think Lauren was talking about Becca. Becca's IG story said something like "there are jealous behaviors over illusions. Sadly some are envious of relationships that don't even exist."

If Lauren got all mad because Becca picked Ben on the Ellen show and went on his podcast with Ashley as a guest... time to grow up Lauren. But this is of course if she is referring to Becca, which we can't prove. All JMO

This imo fake chick hate fake people????
That's just too funny.

Lauren Bushnell faked to be a completely different person to win, imo, now she must hate herself so much!! The more she talked, the more she revealed her true color, imo. I'm glad it took less than 2 years, ala Josh.

If I'm Lauren, it's f*ck that ho forever. Maybe that's immature but it is what it is. If we're really friends, you should pass on my ex, off top, no matter what. This might seem minor but I'm a firm believer that the little things people do show you how they feel about you. This breakup is still raw, Becca should know better. All Jmo.