Dr. Bryan Abasolo - Bachelorette 13 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

ReneeM wrote:I don't see what Peter has to do with Bryan. I'm not even speaking negatively about Bryan, just pointing out that this girl is using his name to get attention. They dated for 2 months. That's not a real relationship IMO. They were f*cking. JMO.

& Yeah Peter was looking at rings after 3 months, but didn't he end up dating the girl for like 2 years? THAT'S what makes that a relationship.

In general IMO "exes" should mind their business and go about their lives unless the person says something negative about them that's not true.

All JMO.

I recall Peter telling Rachel that he came back from LA he jumped right back into a relationship and it didn't go as he had hoped, so I'm thinking that he might have rekindled a past relationship. If that's the case, then it wasn't just 3 months and he was looking at rings, it was probably longer. Just my thoughts.

Bach/ette wrote:The Miami Mack is back again. Not exactly the most flattering pic IMO



Source- https://www.instagram.com/p/BUyYmrfDfxj/

I would rather someone looking real, loving their pet then worrying about how they look. JMO.

Kashathediva wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:I don't see anything wrong with age gaps. Been there, and it was a good experience.

The spoiled F1 was apparently looking for rings after 3 months. Bryan dated for 2 months and broke up. One's an ex hook up and one isn't?

Great point. Well, I personally would love to hear from the other recent past exes--even those very very very recent past exes. I always love to hear the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

Hehe! Me too!

It's good to hear Bryan's ex say positive things about him. I don't care even if they were just casually dating for 2 months. IMO Even if it wasn't super serious, she might know more about Bryan than most leads know about their F1 fiances after 2 months of filming or should I say.. 48-72 hours together according to Ali.    

All JMO

Shallow perhaps, but I find his cheeks distracting. I keep staring at them every time he talks. What is going on there, fillers?

emusha wrote:looking forward to continuing to be pleasantly surprised by Bryan esp cos that sloppy seconds comment really was very disappointing and paints a certain picture of Bryan...But positive info about him is already starting with the info that he dated Jubelee and positive comments from his ex -- I hope this continues and we continue to learn how he made it to the last 3 when he called Rachel sloppy seconds in Week 2.

Agreed.  I have no opinion yet really on Bryan on the show yet, except superficial ones and preseason ones.  He hasn't even had a date or a chance for us to learn anything about him, now IMO that's partly on him for leading with physical seduction the first 2 eps, but that's his prerogative and his edit IMO.  Hopefully we'll get more of a sense of him on the next couple group dates before he gets his one on one and we really see a lot of him.  JMO.
I'm curious to see if they air the "sloppy seconds".  I think if they want to give him a Bachelor edit and show he's a heartbroken F2 (if he is) they won't.  JMO.  I think if they are more concerned with a rivalry storyline between him and Peter, show Bryan as a confident front runner and want that plot to add lots of drama and distraction near the end (again just if spoilers are true) they will.  JMO.  I'm super interested to see his edit progress.  JMO.

CH had some good things to say about Bryan, so maybe it's not so much a villain but it's just as simple as two nice guys, F1 F2, ala Ali.

The last IG pic is generating more positive comments and his number of followers keep climbing.

ETA: I just remembered, Ali wasn't crazy about the way her F2 kissed. So many not exactly like Ali's F2.

Chris also mentioned if he is ready to settle down with one woman, so I am wondering if there will also be some doubts from Rachel about that..?

Just Looking wrote:

ReneeM wrote:I don't see what Peter has to do with Bryan. I'm not even speaking negatively about Bryan, just pointing out that this girl is using his name to get attention. They dated for 2 months. That's not a real relationship IMO. They were f*cking. JMO.

& Yeah Peter was looking at rings after 3 months, but didn't he end up dating the girl for like 2 years? THAT'S what makes that a relationship.

In general IMO "exes" should mind their business and go about their lives unless the person says something negative about them that's not true.

All JMO.

I recall Peter telling Rachel that he came back from LA he jumped right back into a relationship and it didn't go as he had hoped, so I'm thinking that he might have rekindled a past relationship.   If that's the case, then it wasn't just 3 months and he was looking at rings, it was probably longer.  Just my thoughts.

Yeah, no big deal but I'm glad this was clarified with Peter's exact quote, since it was brought up.

stuckinsc wrote:

Bach/ette wrote:The Miami Mack is back again. Not exactly the most flattering pic IMO



Source- https://www.instagram.com/p/BUyYmrfDfxj/

I would rather someone looking real, loving their pet then worrying about how they look. JMO.

He looks very young there! JMO! And posting a picture of his pup! Interesting such a plain photo, white wall ,zoomed in. Ummm?

He does seem like a nice guy imo. I think he's a baddy like Baddy or Ed S (Jillian's f1)-- like baddy lite pretty much

I think this will be one season where I have no strong preference. I'm perfectly fine with either Bryan or Peter winning. I don't like his kissing style but if Rachel likes it, then that's all that matters. I don't think he's done anything at this point that has me concerned, apart from his little bit of posturing during the Ellen show. Not my style but it probably works for Rachel.

I did start off believing the spoiler, but I'm not 100% convinced at this point especially given his silence all weekend.

Alanna wrote:He does seem like a nice guy imo. I think he's a baddy like Baddy or Ed S (Jillian's f1)-- like baddy lite pretty much

Um, didn't Ed quit the show to go have a weekend romp with an ex, then came back on, to get engaged to Jillian a few weeks later? I don't know that I'd call that baddy lite, in my opinion. And there were all the rumors of his being some serial cheater that was plastered all over the tabloids during the season.

Regarding Bryan, I stand by what I said after Monday's show. I've seen nothing on the show that personally offends me or makes me actively dislike him. Yeah he's kind of an overly aggressive kisser but I've seen comments where some are wondering if Rachel herself is a bad kisser considering how many guys have been wiping their mouth after their makeouts with her. So not really a reason to actively dislike a guy in my opinion.

I just think some huge assumptions and judgments were made about Bryan pre-season and yes, the "sloppy seconds" comment on Ellen did not help and those judgments are cemented no matter what is shown on the show or what he does as the season is airing. Is he a little too smooth sure and is he likely a person who fell in "Bachelor Bubble" love with Rachel, sure. But I just don't think any of that proves he's a bad person. JMO.