Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

@reason On IG live a bunch of questions stream by and some are super outlandish and some are normal stuff. The range of questions vary as to who is viewing and submitting the questions....IMO the person/people answering the question Choose which ones they want to answer and which ones (for a variety of reasons) they Choose to ignore. It was a Choice by Rachel to answer that/those questions. No one needs to say anything other than the narrative they want to share. IG live is very "look at me" and gives a real time unedited insight on the person sharing. IMO
JMO

@Ladybug82
So were you born without the fan gene, too?

ReneeM wrote:
I don't even know then. If I search for her in Rachel's followers, she doesn't show up. If I search for Rachel in her following, Rachel does show up. It's not about the amount of contestants I follow since she was there and now she isn't & the amount I follow hasn't changed. I think she did unfollow but IG's just being slow IMO.

Searching for someone in followers never works for me if the other person has a huge following. So who knows? Either way, for me taking the high road is a lot more than following/not following. Vanessa has never said/implied anything negative about Rachel and I respect that. She also wished her luck on her journey which is a lot more than what I would have done. I would have not said anything and just kept quiet. Vanessa is a much bigger person than I am.  

All JMO.

@seabear I dont have snapchat, ig, twitter so dont know the rules are how it works. Thanks for the info.

Kashathediva wrote:@Ladybug82
So were you born without the fan gene, too?

Buncha weirdos you!

Thanks for the info.

bleuberry wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:@Ladybug82
So were you born without the fan gene, too?

Buncha weirdos you!

I liked your post. No side eye.

Kashathediva wrote:@Ladybug82
So were you born without the fan gene, too?

Maybe so.  The closest I come to fanning is just really liking a few past cast.  The first to come to mind, Micheal Nance, Ryan Bowers, Dr. Chris, Chantal, the Lambton's, the Rosenbaum's, the Siegfried's and Jillian.  You know the ones that have returned to real life, real jobs and occasionally pop up or mention Bach nation.  And I only follow the 3 couples and Jillian on IG for the baby pics.

@bleuberry

What has Rachel said about Vanessa now?

1) If these two weren"t competing for the affections of the same man, I suspect these two could have been friends under different circumstances IMO.

2) We've heard/seen a lot of girl squad/ganging up behaviour from this bunch and it's distasteful...not to mention we've all known front runners to have a target on their backs so who knows why people took the sides they did...

3) I respect grace and class... you can still keep it "real"... totally okay with not following someone on SM you aren't close to but if someone asks if you like someone, saying "we weren't close or are very different people so haven't stayed in touch"... goes a lot further in my book then "No"

@Seabear thanks for explaining how IG live works. That makes me disappointed in Rachel because she had the choice to NOT answer but she answered not once, but twice. Please CMIIW.
Anyway, my IG app shows V still follows R. And I agree with Kasha. When V followed, I've seen her being called fake. If she didn't follow, she would have been labeled petty, imo. No way she can please all so I say, BE YOU, V!

@Ladybug82 I am also on team Idontcare lool IMO I don't think it is a big deal it is unfortunate they didn't get along but it happens.