Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #7

I was going to watch the videos but now I don't think I can. Those screencaps are giving me too much secondhand embarrassment as it is

To me, the Lauren we are seeing now is so different than the Lauren that Ben fell in love with on the show.  Was she just not being her true self on the show?  jmo

Wow those pictures of Lauren legs spread dancing with some dude. Shameful! Imo. No ring on ,how's the guy supposed to know she's even engaged? Or maybe she's not! Jmo maybe Ben saw these and called it off and she's acting out! Jmo. Even her friends who live their aren't acting as bad as her. Why does she act so premiscuous. She seems to be acting like a college girl. Grow up. She's not ready to get married. Disney weddings that's not for her. She isn't clean enough for Disney jmo!

Ok, finally went to watch the IG story, it's not as bad as I was expecting, but it's not really a good look either.  Are the snap chats about the same or worse, second hand embarrassment wise?  

As @bleuberry said, my bar for Lauren is low.  There is some second hand embarrassment there but it could be worse, IMO.    

I remember her arrest being found, but has she always felt the need to go on a trip, consume lots of alcohol and go wild, every couple of months?  Or is this a new thing to blow off steam, get away, spend time with whoever (friends/family), and either make Ben jealous, upset, mad, or whatever the desired emotion?  Cause if this increase in this attitude and action is a result of the show, Ben, living in Denver, etc., then girl needs to move on IMO.

JMO

Here's the IG video: https://instagram.com/p/BSnW6GfgiCC/

If engaged and in a relationship Lauren acts like that then I can only imagine when she's single what type of stuff we're gonna see...wowza! I'm all for going out and having fun but there's a limit especially when her life is already public. Her actions affects not only her but her partner as well. Chill LB!

Hopefully MM saw this and is all set with a fake account ready to shame Lauren into acting like a decent woman.

eta: sarcasm

Ladybug82 wrote:Ok, finally went to watch the IG story, it's not as bad as I was expecting, but it's not really a good look either.  Are the snap chats about the same or worse, second hand embarrassment wise?  

As @bleuberry said, my bar for Lauren is low.  There is some second hand embarrassment there but it could be worse, IMO.    

I remember her arrest being found, but has she always felt the need to go on a trip, consume lots of alcohol and go wild, every couple of months?  Or is this a new thing to blow off steam, get away, spend time with whoever (friends/family), and either make Ben jealous, upset, mad, or whatever the desired emotion?  Cause if this increase in this attitude and action is a result of the show, Ben, living in Denver, etc., then girl needs to move on IMO.

JMO

There's an additional video of her dancing on the sidewalk in her bikini on snap chat. She pops her booty towards the guy watching from behind her  they're all pretty much the same though. Just trashy and not classy. 

It's like she can't be in Denver for more than a month without needing to head somewhere with friends to party and act crazy without Ben. All JMO

Do people's mom and dads no longer teach them the concept of shame? Or maybe she's this depressed living with the "love of her life" in Denver and acting out? Idk but I know for sure I'm entertained

She is hoping for a stint on BIP after they break up.

I am convinced that she is just working for the money. That video is totally opposite the Lauren we saw in the Disney Videos recently. She is simply giving the cameras whatever they want at the moment.

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:Here's the IG video: https://instagram.com/p/BSnW6GfgiCC/

OK. so I am LMAO. She looks like she is trying to direct traffic. Bad attempts. Pretty funny.
I don't understand. If this is out in public how do you not get arrested for indecent exposure?
It does not bother me. I have a few of those tee-shirts(been there done that), but I chose to wear them in more private situations rather than in public out on the streets.
I guess she must wax.
My emoji Lauren:

Swiss Girl wrote:JMO but if you respect your partner you don't behave like this in public.  Especially if you are famous, you must expect that you are filmed or taken pictures.

Forget a partner...if you respect yourself.

Don't know, but she doesn't look particularly happy. It's as if she is overcompensating IMO.