Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #7

Lauren's cheeseburger caption reminded me of Kaitlyn.

I just don't get it, Lauren is dam#$@ if she does and dam#$@ if she doesn't. I think I need to go stay in their fan forum. Sorry, just how I feel. I am very happy that they seem to be very happy right now!

It appears that she is scrutinized carefully, for lack of better word imo, and that is ok because it is a discussion thread.
This is done in a discussion threads per the site rule.

Kashathediva wrote:It appears that she is scrutinized carefully, for lack of better word imo, and that is ok because it is a discussion thread.
This is done in a discussion threads per the site rule.

I know and I respect and agree that everyone has a right to their own opinion. I just thought that more people would be happy that her and Ben seem so happy right now.

@George1218 I agree with you. Since this is a discussion thread so all the opinions and judgments are warmly welcomed.IMO Lauren has been and will be living her life on her terms whether it's with Ben or without Ben . She will snap/post whatever she feels like whether it makes her look vain/valid or uninteresting to others.Thats her choice/life .And we will be sitting here defending/criticising/judging her and I guess that's our choice/life.JMO

Speaking for myself, I AM glad they are happy and I wish them no ill will. Honestly, I just hate her (and Nick V - sorry, not sorry) SM. Driving in backseat of car, IGs staring at phone admiring your looks, does not make for entertaining SM. Have some fun like Carly and Jade. JMO

*sorry I had to bring other names into this thread, hope I follow the.rules but I may not have based on other threads.

Sorry everyone, didn't mean to start anything, just had to vent a little!

No hard feeling, it would be awful boring if we all thought alike!

I have no expectations for B&L, and both have their quirks that make them imperfect people (like everyone). I don't love everything about Ben, just as I don't love everything about Lauren. BOTH have annoyed me at times. Overall I still like them though as individuals. I think big picture, they are decent people and they must have some love to make it this far and though so much in their short time together.

I have no expectations for them either way. If they manage to defy the odds and make it through this, get to solid ground, I'll cheer them on. That's pretty cool. I'd love to see them prove people wrong and make it work. Time will tell for them, of course.

I am not a fan of posed selfies by any of these franchisees so I understand not liking the SM of the majority of Bach/Ette cast who love to look at themselves and post posed photos. However I see it as boredom not a sign of their entire depth of character, or them being devoid of good qualities. IMO.

In Lauren and Ben's case....I see two decent, nice people trying to work through a rough patch and see if the mutual love that they share is going to be a forever love. It seems that things are moving in a positive direction. I am rooting for them to be happy. I think both of them have the depth it takes to figure that out what exactly that entails.
JMO

Hate is a very strong word IMO. If I didn't care for someone, I wouldn't follow them on SM. If I saw posts here, I'd look, and SMH but hate?

I don't think it does anyone any good to hate JMHO.

I give them credit for trying as it appears that's what they are doing. I agree with those that feel Lauren has changed. I think all the negative SM, you're skinny, eat food, you're ugly, etc can change someone into thinking they need to improve themselves to look better. I feel as if she is struggling just by the strange SM as of late. She is the first one IMO that should stick to SM strictly for her blog, shilling or whatever generates $$ and keep her personal life out of it.

Alanna wrote:

umngirl wrote:^What's with all the blinking? It's weird.

I noticed that too. Ben needs to unplug her, wait 30 seconds, plug back in, press play and hope for the best. Otherwise might need to FedEx back to MF for a tuneup. All IMO.

I didn't notice this the first go around..but el oh el Malibu Barbie in her Jaguar

Btw, you bad Alanna...but that's why you're the best!

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:

Alanna wrote:

umngirl wrote:^What's with all the blinking? It's weird.

I noticed that too. Ben needs to unplug her, wait 30 seconds, plug back in, press play and hope for the best. Otherwise might need to FedEx back to MF for a tuneup. All IMO.

I didn't notice this the first go around..but el oh el Malibu Barbie in her Jaguar  

Btw, you bad Alanna...but that's why you're the best!

Thanks and thanks for not foe'ing me, I'm sure I'm on at least a few folk's

Sorry for derailing!! Back to B+L!