Kaitlyn Bristowe - Shawn Booth - Bachelorette 11 - #4 - Discussion

Kaitlyn is someone who has to be the center of attention no matter what and hates it when she is not. She's so full on it was actually disturbing to watch her on JKL. She's got major issues, IMO.

I haven't seen that jk appearance but it sounds pretty, uhh, rough  I think her beef is the backlash she got for sleeping with him and how upset the whole thing made Shawn. It's not Nick's fault but I understand why she'd hate him considering she got death threats and whatever else. She should still act like an adult obviously and just deal with it if she's there already. She was a willing participant and really can't have it both ways: wild child who does what she wants and gets NO criticism at the same time. IMO.

I can't explain why I feel bad for her. Doesn't mean she doesn't dish it out or that she isn't just as messy when she wants to be. She just needs help, and it clearly isn't happening. Seems like she hasn't grown at all even after 2+ years of living in the limelight.

@sosleepy
IMO in Kaitchit's twisted mind she has blamed Nick for all the angst she has gone through with Shawn over Nick. (if that makes sense, remember I prefaced this with the word "twisted"). It's Nick's fault for every last thing that Shawn was jealous of regarding her. It always was and always will be Nick's fault and so she needs to stay as far away from him as a Vampire does from daylight. Even one errant ray is too much.

Kashathediva wrote:@sosleepy
IMO in Kaitchit's twisted mind she has blamed Nick for all the angst she has gone through with Shawn over Nick. (if that makes sense, remember I prefaced this with the word "twisted").  It's Nick's fault for every last thing that Shawn was jealous of regarding her. It always was and always will be Nick's fault and so she needs to stay as far away from him as a Vampire does from daylight. Even one errant ray is too much.

Ok sure.... but it's not like Nick r*ped her here. We all saw her season. She let him on her show, she wanted to explore what was there pre-filming. She's the one who got wasted and invited Nick back to her room... so...

IMO she was just as much a willing participant in everything she did with Nick. However she states it was always Shawn. So, if anyone should he bitter here it should be Nick. Kaitlyn dragged him to the end for dual, unprecedented humiliation when she supposedly "knew" it was always Shawn. She slept with not once, but twice on the show when she "knew" it was Shawn.

You can't have it both ways. You can't be he feminist "does who she wants and stands up to sl*t shamers," yet vilify and blame the person you willingly slept with for all of your problems in this world. She needs to just own all of her behavior, good and bad. I have a feeling that will shut up her detractors faster then her current approach.

sosleepy wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:@sosleepy
IMO in Kaitchit's twisted mind she has blamed Nick for all the angst she has gone through with Shawn over Nick. (if that makes sense, remember I prefaced this with the word "twisted").  It's Nick's fault for every last thing that Shawn was jealous of regarding her. It always was and always will be Nick's fault and so she needs to stay as far away from him as a Vampire does from daylight. Even one errant ray is too much.

Ok sure.... but it's not like Nick r*ped her here. We all saw her season. She let him on her show, she wanted to explore what was there pre-filming. She's the one who got wasted and invited Nick back to her room... so...

IMO she was just as much a willing participant in everything she did with Nick. However she states it was always Shawn. So, if anyone should he bitter here it should be Nick. Kaitlyn dragged him to the end for dual, unprecedented humiliation when she supposedly "knew" it was always Shawn. She slept with not once, but twice on the show when she "knew" it was Shawn.

You can't have it both ways. You can't be he feminist "does who she wants and stands up to sl*t shamers," yet vilify and blame the person you willingly slept with for all of your problems in this world. She needs to just own all of her behavior, good and bad. I have a feeling that will shut up her detractors faster then her current approach.

No--you misinterpreted my post above. What I said or am saying is this: Kaitchit is putting the blame on Nick for all and anything concerning her. Her mind is twisted. There is no way she is going to think otherwise.
I am not saying I think this. I am saying this is how I view her own mind's twisted POV. Where Nick is concerned he is the one at fault in her mind, not her. It does not matter what is the truth. This is what she is going to believe. IMO And obviously it all revolves around the insecurity between Shawn and his feeling with this.

So does she always walk around Shawn's CityStrong workouts with a glass of wine in her hand? Talk about sticking out like a sore thumb.

@umngirl Where do you see that? TYIA

GuardianAngel wrote:@umngirl Where do you see that? TYIA

It showed up on my explore page. Then I saw some more pics in her tags. It seems she almost always has a glass of wine in hand. It's strange at a workout.

She should do a wine endorsement.

@umngirl she dj's/ is in charge of music but yes she was drinking wine

ReneeM wrote:@umngirl she dj's/ is in charge of music but yes she was drinking wine

At 10am in the morning wine is her drink of choice?!? And at a workout event. Seems so outta place