Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #4

Ben is looking rough. He looks greasy and older than 27 IMO:

https://instagram.com/p/BO0PbXXleEr/

Lauren is also looking kind of rough. That makeuo did her NO favors. It made her look like she has racoon eyes. And she also looks older IMO:

https://instagram.com/p/BO0PkViFbOv/

https://instagram.com/p/BO0Nvo_FF2U/

I love Ben's sweater.. I love nerdy Ben. And I like Laurens dress, jacket, heels, and purse. But help them...go home and sleep for a day or two you two!! IMO.

Linds911 wrote:What is with her makeup!?

Yeah...that's why I took what I said back after I saw the pics without filters. I originally saw this, and thought she looked hot!:

https://instagram.com/p/BOyO3MdlbfJ/

Lauren is definitely not an ugly girl.  But I don't find her beautiful at all.  Not my cup of tea.

I thought she looked her absolute best just when the season finished.  the few photo shoots right after were really good.

But now I think she looks washed out.  I don't know I cant explain it.

I think she is looking worse instead of better as time goes on.  And Instagram filters don't count . They make even me look good.

WTH is Ben wearing? Lauren is in a fancy dress and Ben is in the most boring sweater he could find. Come on now. Being nerdy doesn't mean you shouldn't at least try to match your other half.

nikikass wrote:Lauren is definitely not an ugly girl.  But I don't find her beautiful at all.  Not my cup of tea.

I thought she looked her absolute best just when the season finished.  the few photo shoots right after were really good.

But now I think she looks washed out.  I don't know I cant explain it.

I think she is looking worse instead of better as time goes on.  And Instagram filters don't count . They make even me look good.

"They make even me look good" oh my You're funny!!

I think Lauren is just very frail and porcelain looking (as in white.) She's definitely an above average girl, very pretty....but not "eyes pop out of my sockets" gorgeous (most ppl aren't though.) A lot of ppl think Lauren is a unique beauty...but I think she's beautiful in her own unique way, because she's not the classic "pretty girl" IMO. Her cheeks are very rounded, her nose sharp, her eyes wide, etc..and it works for her IMO! Not for me....but for her, which is all that matters! IMO.

I think Lauren looks a combo of Candice Accola and Cindy from The Grinch. Very different, but cute IMO. (I only think this because I saw ppl mention the comparisons while The Bachelor was airing..along with a bird, but that's just mean IMO.)

https://goo.gl/images/KsHpoN

https://goo.gl/images/VwcxDr

Ben hasn't been back to Denver for almost a month, and was in cold climates in Indiana and Oregon. I'm sure he packed lots of sweaters and chose one for last night.

The Disneyland outfit was by far his worst

https://www.benandlaurentv.com/article/ben-and-lauren-visit-the-happiest-place-on-earth-welcome-to-disneyland

FMG2015 wrote:Ben hasn't been back to Denver for almost a month, and was in cold climates in Indiana and Oregon. I'm sure he packed lots of sweaters and chose one for last night.

The Disneyland outfit was by far his worst

https://www.benandlaurentv.com/article/ben-and-lauren-visit-the-happiest-place-on-earth-welcome-to-disneyland

Yeah, that's just a mess Especially with his Goofy hat! How fitting!! Lauren looks very pretty here, this makeup look suits her the best IMO.

I don't see Lauren with a Hunter type at all. That's just not my read on her. I don't think she's anything like Kelly Travis. Honestly, I think she's looking for someone like her dad - ironically someone like Ben if he could get his head out of his a$$. If it doesn't work out for Lauren and Ben, I hope she can rebound and pick herself up quickly. I truly believe she is all in here, they have largely worked so far because of her, and she will be left pretty devastated and floating around if this doesn't work out for them. If she and Ben were to break up, my hope for her is she finds the life she's looking for and I'll still be happy to follow her. Ben, I don't even really care all that much. I still have hopes he can get his $hit together here, but if not, meh.

IMO Ben is the typical, average 27 year old guy who is still finding himself only he is attractive and managed to snag a lead on a reality show making him appear like Mr. Perfect when in reality he may be Mr. Meh. Maybe being Mr. Meh is what earned him Mr. Unloveable, in his own mind. That attractive wrapper makes people expect more from him than who he is.
There are a lot of Mr. Meh's in this world. I may have married one. But that doesn't mean a Mr. Meh can not love his wife, his family, be a good provider and stand up to the plate when it's time. It just means he's not all that and a box of Godiva's. Not everyone is Godiva. Some are simply Raisinettes or Goobers. That's ok. There are plenty of women out there that will happily gobble them up, too.

I don't know if I am the only 1, but last night I thought Ben was intimidated by Nick.  Another thing he does not seems happy?  Is his face always like that?

They need to go home and stay there, get back into a normal routine. Jmo