Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #4

Anyone sense something off with Ben lately? I wonder if he regrets doing the show and getting engaged...

bleuberry wrote:Anyone sense something off with Ben lately? I wonder if he regrets doing the show and getting engaged...

Any particular reason? I don't notice anything "wrong" with him, because he's pretty much never on snapchat, and he's been tweeting/liking tweets/IG posts about Lauren, her family/friends..

To me, the past month and a half has been the life they would have probably been living sooner if they hadn't signed up for the reality show that took over their lives for 4 months.

Ben has openly said in an interview he's not really a fan of Lauren snapchatting. We see far less Ben in her snaps these days. Their IG posts for each other have never been OTT with adoration. Simple captions are the norm for them.

During their press tour, they both stated from here on out they are living each day as it is and they seem to be sticking to that plan. If/when a televised wedding occurs, they will be in the spotlight again so this quality time together and with family is important for if/when media starts up again for these two.

If Ben doesn't like social media, that's fine because not everyone does, but Lauren should probably avoid posting pictures or snaps where Ben looks miserable, but that's my opinion:

https://instagram.com/p/BOtjLr1jf4L/

What I HAVE noticed: ppl are back in Laurens comments calling her out for getting arrested and are telling her she's anorexic/has an eating disorder. Someone even had the courage to say "Ben deserves a healthy woman." The Internet is nutsssss IMO.

To each his own. I don't think he looks miserable. He looks tired to me.

I don't get the hate in Lauren's IG comments, at all. People don't have to like her, if need be, they can post on their own social media sites why they dislike her. But to go to Lauren's page to insult her again and again is just sick. Do they think she will dump Ben over their negative comments on her IG?

^ Ben doesn't like snapchat. He uses Twitter/IG pretty frequently IMO.

Ben has always seemed to hate snapchat. Maybe Lauren could just stop snapping him. Or she could give snapchat a rest. But then she wouldn't have all those ridiculous filters to play with.

@Lennoxcolinrolland that same person commenting on Lauren's most recent picture, has also been harassing her family on Instagram. People that go out of their way to harass complete strangers on sm are sick individuals.

Yeah, the Baebae account is the one talking about her lip fillers, getting arrested, and harassing her and her mother. But numerous FANS have said she's anorexic/has an eating disorder. And some of them have even gone to Bens IG to tell him to "please help Lauren" and "I'm sure you didn't know this was prevalent in her life before you picked her" etc.

Maybe the Crazy Ben fans are also Nick fans and will find a new hobby starting tomorrow night. JMO