Raven Gates - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

I think privacy is subjective with that generation...at least those that are willing to be out there for tv, promoting business., promoting social media etc.

I love how good friends Rachel and Raven are!  

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atem wrote:I love how good friends Rachel and Raven are!  

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I loved Raven's response too! It figures they would be my two favorite girls this season.

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So many of the ladies this season seem low maintenance, low drama and friends. How great!

Very nice to see. I like the camaraderie this season.

Raven's Mom is so sweet. I see where Raven gets her kindness from. I read her Facebook page and she said that she cried watching the episode, because she remembered that night and how hurt Raven was and she's very proud of her daughter.

Hi Everyone,

So I was reading reality steve's recap earlier and got bored so scrolled down to the comments section where there were two very interesting comments about Raven and how they had no sympathy for her basically because "how you get him is how you loose him."

I don't know what possessed me to but I took a screenshot of the comments and now I'm glad I did because when I've just gone back to have a look it seems that Steve has deleted said comments. I find this so strange because its not like he has ties to Raven so why would he delete the comments?

I was thinking maybe it was so he could include the information in his next column and brag about how he has all these great sources and is great at research when actually the info was just in the comments section. Maybe he was already told the stories and didn't want it to get out before he writes about it.
Anyway regardless he is an egomaniac so nothing surprises me.

The comments did make sense to me though especially after she said to Nick about not telling anyone about the infidelity incase they stayed together.

I just signed up finally to share this so hello. Oh and I was going to include the screenshots but don't know how. xx

I don't recall her mentioning "if they stayed together".
My  about Raven's infidelity experience is that this was a guy she was dating, not engaged to or married to.  Who knows what degree of commitment he had given her.  Not a fiancé, not a spouse.  Why not just block the trash man from her life without impulsive rage?  I can't relate.
He's just chit on a boot.  I would have wiped it off, cried in my sleeve in the dark to sad tunes on repeat for awhile then have gone on The Bach 6 months later taken time to reflect on what needs to change in the type of guy I'm attracted to.

There is a lot to like about Raven but I just think she is in an unresolved state and on the rebound.

Bee wrote:Hi Everyone,

So I was reading reality steve's recap earlier and got bored so scrolled down to the comments section where there were two very interesting comments about Raven and how they had no sympathy for her basically because "how you get him is how you loose him."

I don't know what possessed me to but I took a screenshot of the comments and now I'm glad I did because when I've just gone back to have a look it seems that Steve has deleted said comments. I find this so strange because its not like he has ties to Raven so why would he delete the comments?

I was thinking maybe it was so he could include the information in his next column and brag about how he has all these great sources and is great at research when actually the info was just in the comments section. Maybe he was already told the stories and didn't want it to get out before he writes about it.
Anyway regardless he is an egomaniac so nothing surprises me.

The comments did make sense to me though especially after she said to Nick about not telling anyone about the infidelity incase they stayed together.

I just signed up finally to share this so hello. Oh and I was going to include the screenshots but don't know how. xx

He considered it trolling and decided he didn't want it on his site (per his twitter).

She didn't say in case they got back together.

Raven just wants someone who will be loyal to her, even if they aren't engaged/married and she's right.

I'm not saying there was truth in those comments, but how would RS know they were trolling? IDK, I think it's interesting that he would remove a comment so vague that I wouldn't even consider it to have any merit, yet he'd most likely leave negative comments about Bach people he doesn't like.

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And I believe she deserves someone loyal.

Funny, but one of the pics Raven's Dad put on his Facebook is of Raven and her brother with roller skates! Looks like they are at a skating rink. So adorable!  She looks to be 5 or so?  So cute!  

He also put up a picture of him and Raven's mom in what looks to be their prom picture (really cute).