Josh Murray - Amanda Stanton - BIP 3 - Discussion

Max64 wrote: I think what Amanda and Josh are doing is so unhealthy for her young kids.  Mommy goes away,  yet again, to find love, and comes back in 2 weeks with a new daddy.  I just think kids should be introduced to a possible new parent figure slowly.  If I were her ex, I would be furious at what these kids are being put through.

Seriously, it's taken me longer to find the right fitting bra, swimsuit or jeans.

Kashathediva wrote:

Max64 wrote: I think what Amanda and Josh are doing is so unhealthy for her young kids.  Mommy goes away,  yet again, to find love, and comes back in 2 weeks with a new daddy.  I just think kids should be introduced to a possible new parent figure slowly.  If I were her ex, I would be furious at what these kids are being put through.

Seriously, it's taken me longer to find the right fitting bra, swimsuit or jeans.

That made me laugh! Don't you just hate bra shopping!!!

Daughters learn from their mothers. A mother is the single most important same sex role model that a daughter will have in life (with some exceptions, of course). A mother teaches her daughter through her words and actions. What are we teaching our daughters? What is she teaching hers?

JMO, Josh is the least of the issues these girls will learn from their mom or their maternal grandma. Correct me if I am wrong, but it seems like since they returned from Paradise Amanda is actually spending more time with her girls. Is it possible Josh's desire to be daddy is at least getting the girls more time with mommy? I am seriously just asking because it seems that way to me.

I don't consider spending time, doing photo shoots or taking them to photo shoots, posting pics of your engagement ring with the caption "daddy did good" and posing for SM pics. IMO that's not spending quality time. I'd rather not see any pics of the girls, and maybe that means they are spending time alone without media attention IMHO. It appears to me, if she is with the girls, they have a need to post SM to prove they are being good parents. Meanwhile, there is a Father, who may not agree with all the SM his daughters are subjected to. I would be furious.

Those girls will have their own iPhones in no time and will be professional SM users by the time they are 6 yrs old. IMHO.

I still can't get the image out of my mind of them going to dinner while the little one is in the hospital with an asthma attack.

ETA: another BOR's moment.

amanda_stantonn"What's wrong, Kins?" "Well first of all, you won't let me get braces...and also I'm hungry."

https://www.instagram.com/p/BKPPikbAP0o/
Captioned with a picture of her daughter posing on the beach.

Sorry for the double post, but I went to look at her IG, and here's another..

IG

amanda_stantonn Spending the morning relaxing with the girls after a weekend of adventures. Personalized story time with Char & @lostmy.name is her favorite way to start the day! (Don't worry, Kins got her own book too.) use my code "AMANDA15" for 15% off your first order at www.lostmy.name #lostmyname #bedtimereading #sp

https://www.instagram.com/p/BKQpBfGARX6/?taken-by=amanda_stantonn

Picture reading to her daughter. This is why she makes so much money shilling.

I'm still trying to figure out how to get in on this action, without using children!

Just to clarify, we also have seen a few snapshots of Josh just playing with the girls not focused on the camera. And Disneyland which is fun.

As for their father, he has his court filing and hopefully he will prevail in doing what is best for the girls.

JMO.

Are amanda and Lauren still BFF . Sorry for asking . I haven't seen them for a while . But they seem okay though . And also it's that weird Amanda is not part among the alumni who will be appearing on her reality show ? Although I do get it possibly the producers have to say who will they want to appear on their show . Just curious .

Most young moms I know try to keep their young children out of the limelight and public eye. There are enough nuts out there to keep society busy without asking for trouble, IMO.

Josh simply isn't the girls' daddy, and I actually think that this very public #dadtime on sm is happening mostly because Amanda wants to get at her ex. Spiteful, petty and hateful. And VERY harmful to the children. Jmo.

lipsis wrote:Did I read somewhere that they plan to uproot the girls and move to Atlanta?

I read the same thing. I can't remember where it was posted. If I was Amanda's ex there is NO WAY I'd give my consent to have my children move to Atlanta. This is one of the reasons I'm not so sure their relationship will last long term JMO

Loveinterest wrote:I am s happy for Josh and Amanda and how they are living their lives with love and joy wth those sweet girls.  What a testimony to their maturity and commitment to put the girls first and not allow turmoil and negativity affect the girls. I hope they stay strong through the adversity and thrive as a sweet family.  They both come from good solid families with excellent values.

IMO they are not putting the girls first. How can you say that when Amanda uses her girls as props on SM to shill whatever?