Bachelor In Paradise - Season 3 - All Episodes - Discussions - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #2

How do the hosts etc react to AshleyI and her drama?

Fingersandtoes wrote:

siena wrote:I actually think the fact that Ashley hasn't given up her Caila attacks means Jared and Caila are probably still dating and she's very bitter about it. I guess time will tell. Not a mess I'd want to deal with.

I do too. Which IMO is sad, for Caila.

If this is true, I'd love how to hear the internal process of Caila justifying this relationship to herself- to stay with a man who is 1/2 of this dynamic that doesn't stand up for her or is blatantly showing imo that he doesn't care about her or her feelings.

Alanna wrote:

Fingersandtoes wrote:

siena wrote:I actually think the fact that Ashley hasn't given up her Caila attacks means Jared and Caila are probably still dating and she's very bitter about it. I guess time will tell. Not a mess I'd want to deal with.

I do too. Which IMO is sad, for Caila.

If this is true, I'd love how to hear the internal process of Caila justifying this relationship to herself- to stay with a man who is 1/2 of this dynamic that doesn't stand up for her or is blatantly showing imo that he doesn't care about her or her feelings.

Until now, Caila hasn't seen and heard everything Ashley/Jared have said. Jared could've told her 'his' version of things, and that could sound much better than what it comes across from the screen and interviews. Also I bet he said much more in that interview where he praised Ashley's possessiveness, but it wasn't printed.

Her favouriting that tweet about deserving better made me change my mind, and she's taken herself out of the situation IMO.

Just catching up on the comments after watching last night.

My daughter and I were astounded at how far into the Bach barrel TPTB had to go to recruit guys to come on this season. There's hope for this world if people actually can see that going on this show is just asking for ridicule/shame/pain.

And for those who are upset that Sarah didn't get a second chance like Ashley, you should be happy for her. There wasn't a guy in the house who is as mature, together, and kind as she.

Isabella wrote:Ashley I on Afterbuzz podcast http://podbay.fm/show/398382980/e/1471834843?autostart=1

Can't watch it, I fast forward through anything Ashley I which is not what MF wants IMO. Can someone summarize? Ta!

When is Wells coming on ?

nd4reality wrote:When is Wells coming on ?

Tonight.

Thanks. and Darn. I cannot watch and was waiting for him to come on.

I bet he comes in near the end. I like Wells but a date with Ashley I?

My problem with her is that she seems to be still living in high school. Even the twins seem more mature than she is and that's not saying much. Her friends need to have an intervention but I doubt it would work. Jared's tried to tell her previously and Nick told it to her straight but she doesn't want to hear it. Of course it doesn't help that this is her role and the reason she's on the show. I bet they planned on letting her stay all along.

I agree they planned on letting her stay, just as they planned on her sister being part of the show last year.
Hopefully, the real Ashley is less shallow than her show character.

I think the fact that Ashley is still attacking Caila and standing by what she said means that Jaila are no longer. If they were together her 'loyalty' would have her rethink her attitude toward Caila, IMO. And I don't think that's a bad outcome at all. I personally think that Jared and Ashley deserve each other and should save the rest of the world (viewing audience) a whole lot of grief by just getting together.

What struck me about her on Afterbuzz was just how small their world has gotten. It was interesting that she said this was the first time she's felt like her personal life became her tv life. It's like living in a middle school mindset all day, every day, year after year...like they only talk to and about each other, only see each other.

I don't think AshleyI would have any respect regardless, in her mind she's been wronged and had every right to lash out in any way possible. Jared 'adores' her possessiveness, so he won't tell her to stop.

I wish if Caila dumped him, she said AshleyI to be big reason for it.