Bachelor In Paradise - Season 3 - All Episodes - Discussions - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #2

fabgirl wrote:can someone make a fan thread for the other couples along with josh and amanda for discussion fan forum.
caila and jared seem so calm and sweet together.thanks :cutesmile!:

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GuardianAngel wrote: IMO the reason Emily and some other's can't connect with Caila, is because they haven't a clue on what being kind considerate and humble means.

IMO Caila losing the Bachelorette gig had a lot to do with social media. For example, Becca campaigned pretty hard for Jojo to get it and a few of the more popular Bachelor twitter accounts wanted Jojo too. I think that false seed of doubt about Caila was also planted before the season even began with the way RS described her. I don't think people would have been as pre-disposed to thinking negatively about her if that hadn't happened. Emily had no problem with Caila during Ben's season, or when they were hanging out in Vegas this past weekend so I find some of her comments somewhat disingenuous.

People are definitely drawn to different personalities but the current climate seems to label drama and negativity as being "real" and kindness and maturity as being "boring". For me, it's when people also deem others "fake" for no real reason that I find it really troubling. Caila and Jared have shown through their own actions that they're sweet, genuine, and respectful people (Emily tweeted that Caila did come and talk to her to make sure she was okay). If people can't see that then that's unfortunate for them. I'm glad that Caila and Jared left the show early and have seemingly enjoyed dating off-screen. They deserve happiness. All JMO.

lleyki wrote:I can only speak from my personal circle and I can tell you that I have zero interest in anything RS says and my friend who watches the show doesn't even read or pay attention to him because she hates spoilers. And my friend especially really, really did not like Caila and it was as simple as, "there's something just off about her".

Again, I'm not saying Emily isn't a shallow twit and that I personally think Caila is a bad person but from my observation, some are giving RS way too much credit and power and instead, sweet as she may be in real life, she just didn't connect with the audience. That happens all the time.

Bet2Win wrote:I feel like a bottom feeder for liking this show , but I prefer it to TB and TB'ette.

I love the snarky editing, last night was too funny, and I actually look forward to the next episode.  Now what does this say about me.