Bachelorette Canada - Season 1 - Jasmine Lorimer - General Sleuthing - S/Caps - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

GuardianAngel wrote:

Mom and sister who know- mom just wanted to choose someone who was different – how different - make sure she was with someone who loved her for her

"I wanted to make sure that I wasn't allowing myself to follow any past dating patterns," she says. "I was almost taking this as a lesson to myself, too, and a growing experience as well."

Lorimer says doing the show taught her a lot about herself and made her realize how much she wants a stable and healthy relationship.

Bobette wrote:

4health wrote:Call me confused again. LOL  We are discussing Jasmine's type and I don't think we really have anything to confirm from her own mouth on screen that has given us any idea of what is her type.  Jasmine in a VO states "oooh, I don't know if I would date him" when she met KW out of the limo.  So, by first impressions he wasn't her type.  

We do have her on screen saying ITM (Ep 7 1:1 ) "I feel really comfortable, and wanted, and desired and safe and I feel better then ever.  Getting through conflict, especially for the first time, it tells a lot about the relationship, and how it is going to be in the future and I feel closer to Kevin now" then directly to Kevin she says "even since out first 1:1, I feel there is a solidness to you and I can count on you, I feel like you can handle yourself, I really like how ...you are strong emotionally, as well as physically, you are like a man, a man in all the ways" then ITM again "there is a real potential for love with Kevin, there is an unexplainable kind of a connection we have.  I feel the intensity we have, and I can see myself falling in love with him."    So, in her own words that Kevin walking out (conflict) they worked it out and made them strong together.  So, with them having another conflict and a great FD night after they worked it out, will this make them even stronger?    

Jasmine reflecting her journey with Mikhel has had no conflict until she says until the RC after HTD and his reaction and then his communication skills or lack of.    Very interesting stuff IMO and KW and J story is being told by Jasmine and how KW answers her concerns either to her face or to her family or to the camera.  

Just a few things to share that I think is the story arc of KW and Jasmine.  The only question does Jasmine take the chance of KW leaving her or has her own inner conflict with KW she just can't take that chance with him because Mikhel's love has surpassed all the conflict.  We shall see!

Jasmine's thinking there - that conflict in a relationship can "have an upside" - worries me.  It reminds me of women in domestic abuse situations who stay because afterwards their partner says he's sorry and he loves them and he won't do it again - except then he does.  I hope Jasmine is not confusing turbulence for passion - good relationships IMO have passion without drama.

reason wrote:In all this I remember the sister asking will she be able to deal with other women flirting with him, her answer is if he is respectful, well IMHO seeing this day in or month in it will get tedious.  I hope she has the strength because that seems to have happen in the past, while I believe she was cheated on.

Brill wrote:

reason wrote:In all this I remember the sister asking will she be able to deal with other women flirting with him, her answer is if he is respectful, well IMHO seeing this day in or month in it will get tedious.  I hope she has the strength because that seems to have happen in the past, while I believe she was cheated on.

Remember the sister and friend asking Mikhel if he has flirted with others, when he is with someone and his answer was yes.  Interesting that it did not draw a red flag with some of the fans.  It sure did with me.   So here we have Mikhel who has flirted,  since we heard it out of his mouth and Kevin who we assume will flirt because of his eyes, or smile or because of his dimples that he somehow makes appear when he wants to.     Also I'm sure both guys got the same questions and yet we never saw Kevin's answer to this.   Things that make you Looks like editing is at work to make us fans think one way or the other. IMO

Sprite wrote:@4health Not sure where in here that I read it. I believe there was someone that heard it and posted. Anyone else remember reading that? I don't know that it was necessarily a trusted/reliable source, but it was just something that I remembered and stored away for future reference to see if it will fit in with how I'm seeing him.

Luvstruck wrote:

Sprite wrote:@4health Not sure where in here that I read it. I believe there was someone that heard it and posted. Anyone else remember reading that? I don't know that it was necessarily a trusted/reliable source, but it was just something that I remembered and stored away for future reference to see if it will fit in with how I'm seeing him.

Yes Sprite, you remember correctly, I know I read that comment here but didn't pay any attention since there was nothing to back it up.