Robby Hayes - Chase McNary - "Rose" - Bachelorette 12 - Discussion - #3

Kashathediva wrote:It might make a lot of women happy. In fact I have a great idea.
They could make a calendar for 2018 with backwards nude photos of each other standing at a window in different geographical locations. Send the proceeds to help those not insured or able to afford to Evan's erectile dysfunctional clinic.
Instead of Where's Waldo? it could be Where's the Tuchus?

Ha! Stop giving them ideas, Kasha!

IDK if it's just me, but this show seems to make the guys act more like they are part of a fraternity than anything.

It's one big frat party with the occasional wedding.

Ugh these two are so gross IMO. I want to revoke my previous stance that they (or Robby alone) are (is) harmless

Omg..I don't know what is sillier. Their texts or the fact that US Weekly is paying for them.

Man, those two are cashing in for sure.

And anyone needed to read those texts why exactly? They weren't even funny or anything.

^^^I know! I couldn't even finish reading that dribble.

Robby and Chase grossed me out by their comments at that comedy show. Totally disgusting IMO. Both are sooooo full of themselves too. Yuck.
I actually found Robby funny during the season with his slippers...but definitely not funny anymore.
JMO

Just a few random thoughts:

IMO, Chase and Robby are entitled to make whatever comments they like about the show and its contestants. That's what we all do here. Heck, if somebody was willing to hand me a check for all of the inane things I've written about these people over the years, I'd take it to the bank.

IMO, I think that a great deal of how we feel about a person's comments or quips has to do with what we think of the person himself or herself. If we like a person, we tend to think they are saying something worthwhile or funny. If we don't like a person, we tend to think that their comments are a waste of time or humorless. (*At this point, some of you will continue on reading this post, and others will not. )

IMO, I see it time and time again. I'm seeing it right now in some of the other threads. People fall from grace. They are liked until they are not liked (by the public). So, Chase and Robby are taking advantage of their window of opportunity, while they are still liked by enough people to be able to get a check for doing something that's they do anyways.

IMO, if (per Kasha's suggestion) Chase and Robby did make a "Where in the World" calendar posing in various locations around the globe (nude or otherwise), I'm sure that our sleuthers would be the first to solve the mystery of where they were. If they could somehow pair a calendar purchase with a charity, and then a sleuthing challenge for a prize, I'm sure that it would be a huge success.

IMO, I listened to the Comedy Club recording. I cannot say that it wasn't crude. The whole comedy club set-up was, as I believe it was the intention of the host. If I read a transcript of the question and answer session with Chase and Robby I'd would have one opinion of it. But, since I listened to the entire recording, listening carefully in full context of what was happening on stage and from the host, I have a slightly softer opinion of it. I'm not interested in getting into precise analysis of it. I'm not interested in defending anyone. Chase and Robby chose to put themselves into that environment for a live comedy show with the sole intent of making fun of the people and premise of the show. IMO, were not very graceful in their answers, partly because a comedy club is not the proper environment to be graceful. If you are graceful, you are not funny. The audience of the comedy club wanted funny. The host was prodding them for funny. Chase and Robby put themselves into an awkward position in which they needed to thread the needle between being classy and funny. When I listen to what was said, I hear the hesitation and awkwardness of the situation - not just from their words which were at times very awkward - but from the setting itself. Like I said above, because they still have some of my grace, I view the event as unfortunate but not entirely damning.

IMO I may like someone, but their actions later on after I've given them the benefit of the doubt over and over, ends up in my opinion of like turning into dislike.

I thought Robby was hilarious during and post filming. I admit his Team Robby during filming was a little self promoting, along with all the likes of himself, but it was one of those I'll give him the benefit of the doubt and continued to laugh at him. His actions and comments he's made towards the lead and her F1 have changed my mind on what I like about him. That isn't because he's liked or not liked by others on SM or elsewhere, it's my personal opinions and thoughts.

I agree, GA. I'm someone who liked Robby from the beginning to the end and I would have been perfectly fine if JoJo picked him. Thankfully she didn't. I didn't mind the self promoting, but now, he's said and done some tacky, classless and childish things. It's extremely off putting. JMO

Who the heck takes their time to make a video like this?
https://instagram.com/p/BP6Cnx-B7sY/

I liked him during filing and the season, and gave him the benefit of the doubt over the tacky self promotion.  And even somewhat defended him because IMO he was harmless, or so I thought at the time, and just extremely self absorbed.  

But he's continued fame ho-ish behavior, immature attitude, whining about Jordan not staying in touch with him and the others that continuously run to the tabloids and tell them everything, his tacky answer about what went on in the FS, etc.... IMO, it's all just tacky and gross and they need to get over themselves.  It's not about taking advantage of your time in the spotlight, it's about realizing your not a famous celebrity or someone doing something important or wonderful for the world.  At best your a D lister who needs to fade back in to the real world and realize how inflated your ego is and how dumb (IMO) your being.  I just can't with him or Chase anymore.

JMOAA

Ash2214 wrote:I agree, GA. I'm someone who liked Robby from the beginning to the end and I would have been perfectly fine if JoJo picked him. Thankfully she didn't. I didn't mind the self promoting, but now, he's said and done some tacky, classless and childish things. It's extremely off putting. JMO

https://instagram.com/p/BP6Cnx-B7sY/

His second places IMO is no comparison to the well known 2nd place contestant. IMO he really preferred 2nd place as evident of his SM while travelling back home. I'll quote myself, "he seems too happy to be F2"