Josh Murray - BIP - Famously Single - Season 3 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #2

Southerngal wrote:Sorry...don't know how to post screen shots.  Yes, Josh did say that on Fs.  My opinion of him has changed as well.  When he said those things the first time, I thought he meant them.  Now, I don't think he meant them before and I don't think he means them now.

I think he means them at the time but Josh has zero follow through when anything gets challenging imo. I don't think he's fake or phony at all, but cannot live up to what he wants to be and how he wants to act. Basically, I hope things never get tough with Amanda because as much as he wants to be there for her and her girls, his pattern shows that his immediate needs and wants instantly trump any of his good intentions. Good luck to her, she's going to need it imo.

I can't/won't comment too much on Amanda the pure as the driven snow mommy having sex on tv. It's just too much insanity. Glad the Murrays are so understanding of stuff like this...hope they're setting up the charity event at the church already.

I don't see Josh and Amanda being intimate in bed together as a "dirty" thing, it's just very tacky on the part of production for taping it with a hidden camera and then airing it.  JAM is an adult couple falling in love and that's what you do when you're in love, get intimate, have sex yada yada yada.  Add in the beach setting, with minimal clothing worn, sweaty bodies and raging hormones, it's bound to happen.  I don't think Amanda ever claimed to be pure as the driven snow, and her being intimate with a man she's falling for doesn't make her a sl*t by any means.  Mommys like to be sexy and romantic too.

From what I could tell with the scene, they didn't appear to know they were being filmed. That and/or they just were so into each other that they forgot.  Either way, they were just doing what any couple would do when alone together. I thought it was a pretty sexy clip, but for their sakes I wish they had it to themselves and not the world to view.  As far as her babies, they are too young and I don't see this effecting them.

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:It looked like Josh wasn't wearing any pants in bed

IMO.

For some reason I read panties and not pants. haha. Both work in this case .... or not.

atem wrote:But, this show really never showed much going on in that room before that I recall.

Yes they have been doing this for a while. I posted this upthread but they showed Vienna and her BF starting their sexy times with a hidden camera in the room at the mansion on BP2.
They showed AshleyI and Dan with Ashley play acting for the cameras as a crazy person catching imaginary bugs while Dan was lying down as though he was waiting for some action.
I'm sure there are other examples but these are the ones I could think of.

I can't speak for anyone else, but watching someone else get to that degree of "romance" is like watching porno or close to it. My opinion. I really am not interested in seeing that in the context of this show on my tv. 
I know MF and Co love that chit. Me not so much.

Kashathediva wrote:I can't speak for anyone else, but watching someone else get to that degree of "romance" is like watching porno or close to it. My opinion. I really am not interested in seeing that in the context of this show on my tv. 
I know MF and Co love that chit. Me not so much.

That is just creepy. Amanda and Josh also should have known better, but I agree....BIP crossed the line, not attractive for general viewing.

Beach Lover wrote:I don't see Josh and Amanda being intimate in bed together as a "dirty" thing, it's just very tacky on the part of production for taping it with a hidden camera and then airing it.  JAM is an adult couple falling in love and that's what you do when you're in love, get intimate, have sex yada yada yada.  Add in the beach setting, with minimal clothing worn, sweaty bodies and raging hormones, it's bound to happen.  I don't think Amanda ever claimed to be pure as the driven snow, and her being intimate with a man she's falling for doesn't make her a sl*t by any means.  Mommys like to be sexy and romantic too.

From what I could tell with the scene, they didn't appear to know they were being filmed. That and/or they just were so into each other that they forgot.  Either way, they were just doing what any couple would do when alone together. I thought it was a pretty sexy clip, but for their sakes I wish they had it to themselves and not the world to view.  As far as her babies, they are too young and I don't see this effecting them.

Going to the bathroom is normal and healthy too, but it's not like anyone needs to see that going on? I would think/expect/hope/assume that two such grown up people that are ready to get engaged (after 17 days) wouldn't try to sleep together knowing cameras are everywhere? I'm really naive apparently, idk.

The bigger question to me is did they even realize that they were being filmed. I would guess no.

The cameras are hidden, there are no crew members in the room. So it stands to reason that they didn't know or completely forgot that it was possible. This is an affront to both them and any other contestant this has happened to. As I said before, don't they watch past shows before going on ????
Would anyone willingly let themselves be filmed this way. Well unless your name is Samantha or Joe.

I kind of think "yes", but they really didn't think it would happen if that makes sense.
They grew up immersed in shows like RW and BB that knowingly do this and anytime there are cameras 24/7 you have to think it's a real possibility.  So they had to realize on some level the possibility of being filmed was there and threw caution to the wind.

So it's ok to bang two three people in the FS, who you aren't going to get engaged to, but not in the boom boom room? Serious question.

Camera's or not, it happens, TPTB will make sure every one knows, whether it's in the FS or on BIP.

IA with @Kashathediva. Do whatever you want, I don't want to see it.

I don't want to see it either, but I don't blame the contestants for wanting to be intimate. I blame the production staff/producers for providing them with a "boom-boom room" where they think they are alone, and then filming them with a hidden camera. Should the couples be more aware of what may get filmed?  Sure. But I can see how they may get caught up in the moment when they think they're alone.  

Either way, production may be horny and perverted and get a kick out of catching these moments on camera but I agree we the viewers don't need to be in on it.

I don't blame the contestants either.

I do blame the show, producers and editors. Now I wonder if that scene will make it to live tv. Typically we see a lot in promos which never make the actual show.

BTW - has anyone found the full promo shown last night online ?