Josh Murray - BIP - Famously Single - Season 3 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #2

jen689 wrote:Facebook post from MM...

STOP!! BIP SPOILER. What you didn't see that changes everything . . .

Rather than responding to the over 100 DMs I've received individually I decided to share this tidbit with everyone at 1 time.

***Before the first rose ceremony Nick told Amanda that he was there for Jen and that she should date other people. ***

So why then is the storyline about Josh, the villain, "stealing" Nicks girl? In 1 word - Ratings, in 5 words - The most dramatic season ever!

I'm so appreciative of everyone's concern of how Josh is being portrayed and how the family is handling it. Truthfully, it's not easy, however, we have weathered worse and we keep our faith strong in the beginning, middle and end. The Lord promises that what was meant for evil, he will use for good, so stay tuned for a spectacular ending!

LOVE > HATE

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I think the Lord may have bigger things on his plate right now than Josh's love life. LOL.

KB_Mom wrote:I don't see a father who I understand is regularly involved in his daughters' lives agreeing to Amanduh moving thousands of miles away so Amanduh can continue a still very new relationship born in Paradise.  JMO

IA IMO chances are slim that their father would agree to this. I know of a couple, her ex moved 4 hours away. Because he had every other weekend in their separation agreement, every other weekend, she packs up her two children, drives 2 hours to meet him half way on a Friday evening, and goes back on Sunday evening to pick them up. One child is 1 yrs old, and the other is 3 yrs old.

All because he's a jerk and moved to be with his new g/friend.

Irresponsible behaviour is unacceptable to me when children are involved. Yes, every one has to live their life, but so do the children. Carting them back and forth during long travel is selfish on the parents part.  If they wanted to move in together IMO it's Josh who should be doing the moving, out of consideration for the children regardless of whether he thinks the Dad is a jerk or not.

When it comes to relationships that involve children, if one of them has never had children, sometimes it's not easy for them to be compromising IMO.

Josh is so selfish. If he really cared about Amanda he would put those kids first, not himself, and move for them, imo.

If this relationship lasts....the one doing the moving will be Josh. It appears that Amanda and Nick2 share legal custody of their girls...so unless Nick2 legally agrees to the move...No Way it happens. CA is very strict in parental custodial issues.   JMO educated opinion.

Josh is so OTT that it defies logic. He is a cartoon character. I am not seeing JAM lasting.  JMO

Seabear wrote:If this relationship lasts....the one doing the moving will be Josh. It appears that Amanda and Nick2 share legal custody of their girls...so unless Nick2 legally agrees to the move...No Way it happens. CA is very strict in parental custodial issues.   JMO educated opinion.

Josh is so OTT that it defies logic. He is a cartoon character. I am not seeing JAM lasting.  JMO

They might last, but best mommy ever might just leave them somewhere to go off and be free. We'll see.

I was willing to give Josh the benefit of the doubt but I totally think there is truth to the book (and I am someone that can't stand the author) and Josh wants everything his way so it won't surprise me at all if he is just using Amanda for his ego/image.

IMO, Josh doesn't seem to care about putting the kids first and is all about him, all the time.

I feel sorry for those kids.

If JAM's relationship lasts Josh will need to move for Amanda and her girls. NO WAY would Amanda ever leave her girls for Josh or anyone else.  JMO

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Ewww he's so gross when he kisses

Seabear wrote:If JAM's relationship lasts Josh will need to move for Amanda and her girls. NO WAY would Amanda ever leave her girls for Josh or anyone else.  JMO

Regarding the bolded: I hope this ends up being true but I am not so sure.

That Josh is not already moving for Amanda and the girls makes me think that Josh will use the ex and the laws as an excuse if he and Amanda break up.

Ewwwwwwww. I didn't watch and trusted you guys that it was gross.  Barf

He scrambling on Twitter trying hard to defend himself and blame it all on the edit. It gets old how he just won't take any responsibility for his actions.