Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #3

Kels0012 wrote:Just watched this: http://people.com/tv/bachelor-ben-lauren-not-in-any-rush-to-wed/

But they are having their bach/bachette parties? Is that because of their TV show?

Also, wow, Ben looks different. He still looks good, but lines on the forehead and has gained some weight. No more Bachelor trainers anymore! Not like I'm one to judge. I've looked incredible and only okay now.

Didn't they say they don't want long engagement?
But of course, everyone seems to change their mind often, especially people of this franchise.

Just want to tell Ben to run from this girl, he could do better.
Just my opinion.

I prefer Lauren to Ben, but they both seem like decent enough people to me. Well-matched.

Having planned a few weddings, I can't imagine doing it in under a year. (unless you just take off) So being that they could not even start doing anything until March--it's been a 7 month dating experience/engagement.

I also prefer Lauren to Ben. Lauren has done nothing egregious. If anything she she should've ran from him after the whole double ILY and possibly sleeping with the other two women. With that said, I still like these two together and I think they will eventually get married and I think they're happy together.

All JMO.

^ There's no "possibly" he slept with the other two women. He definitely slept with them. He looked and sounded SO guilty when he got asked about the fantasy suites in interviews. Not to mention it was pretty obvious on the show. AND the US weekly crapola (which yes, it's not always right, but it HAS been a source the last few seasons.) IMO.

I agree though. Ben is soooooooo LUCKY Lauren didn't drop his azz. He really embrassed her, among other things. IMO.

Just curious...you know this for fact? That he definitely slept with both women?

Unless we were there or the girls/Ben spills, we don't know what happened at the fantasy suites. All just speculation.

IMO Lauren seems a great match for Ben, he's lucky she's so mature and level headed, and could take his Bach mess so well.

Also, they never set a wedding date, so they haven't pushed anything back. I don't think less than a year is a long engagement. IMO if the wedding happens within 2 years, it's not a long engagement. IMO.

Ben has said nothing happened in the fantasy suites and Chris Harrison said he was a gentleman but then said a gentleman can still please a woman and us weekly said he was intimate with all three so they all thought they would win. None of the girls stated anything but Caila's break up she asked did you know before this week? Implying some say before you slept with me. It is all very grey. If Lauren is okay with whatever happened I suppose I should be. My opinion.

Kashathediva wrote:Just curious...you know this for fact? That he definitely slept with both women?

Yes. I would like to see the receipts on that.

Kashathediva wrote:Just curious...you know this for fact? That he definitely slept with both women?

I put "IMO" and my reasons as to why I believe so.

BlackHalo wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:Just curious...you know this for fact? That he definitely slept with both women?

Yes. I would like to see the receipts on that.

Well, too bad we couldn't be in all three fantasy suites, eh? I posted what I believe to be MY personal "receipts"

casjacknick wrote:Ben has said nothing happened in the fantasy suites and Chris Harrison said he was a gentleman but then said a gentleman can still please a woman and us weekly said he was intimate with all three so they all thought they would win. None of the girls stated anything but Caila's break up she asked did you know before this week? Implying some say before you slept with me. It is all very grey. If Lauren is okay with whatever happened I suppose I should be. My opinion.

Precisely why I believe so. Though, I don't recall Ben ever denying anything happened in the fantasy suites. If they didn't do the actual dead (which I doubt, given what I believe to be some pretty in your face details), they surely did other sexual things IMO. It's all in the past of course, and there's no way to 100% know, so it's all moot at this point anyway IMO.