Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #3

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^ They're so cute and level headed. I don't think Ben wants three kids though and/or not anytime soon. His body language said it all, and I think Lauren sensed that a little. IMO.

Lauren is so well spoken.

BlackHalo wrote:Lauren is so well spoken.

Right? I will always adore Ben but Lauren in my girl crush.

That's good they are not rushing to get married . Good thing they are trying everything before getting married . Taking couples counseling , thinking when is they get married and follow how they feel about it . Jmo.

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:^ They're so cute and level headed. I don't think Ben wants three kids though and/or not anytime soon. His body language said it all, and I think Lauren sensed that a little. IMO.

I could see that too, and IMO their own personal experiences influence this. Lauren's 1 of 3 and wants 3 kids yet Ben is an only child so for all we know he might love the idea of an only child because he was. Same with the dog situation... Lauren had a dog for 18 years so she's eager to get a dog. Ben could be cautious about getting a dog if he didn't grow up with one( he may have idk)

FMG2015 wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:^ They're so cute and level headed. I don't think Ben wants three kids though and/or not anytime soon. His body language said it all, and I think Lauren sensed that a little. IMO.

I could see that too, and IMO their own personal experiences influence this. Lauren's 1 of 3 and wants 3 kids yet Ben is an only child so for all we know he might love the idea of an only child because he was. Same with the dog situation... Lauren had a dog for 18 years so she's eager to get a dog. Ben could be cautious about getting a dog if he didn't grow up with one( he may have idk)

Lauren is actually one of four. And Ben had mentioned that he was an only child, because his mother couldn't have any more children or something along those lines (this was mentioned in his audition/interview for the bachelorette.) I had also sensed that Ben wasn't really loving the idea of three kids in one of the interviews from after the airing of the finale. Lauren had said she wanted three kids, but when she looked at his reaction, which was subtle, but you could tell he was not completely there with the notion, she said "three... two.."  Yeah, being an only child and then having other siblings later on in life and/or having children in the future can be a lot of change for a person. I was an only child for many years..and thought I wanted siblings...until I had siblings.. (Though I DO love my siblings, don't get me wrong ) So yeah, it can be tough. I think Ben wants her to have what she wants, so just goes along with it to keep the peace (for now at least ) and/or is just not ready right now for all that responsibility. IMO.

https://twitter.com/laurenbenhiggi/status/784087470228971520

Y'all!!! It's @benhiggi's Bachelor party in Vegas!

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The wedding might happen sooner rather than later..

^ This is probably last minute filming too!

Yeah, could be. But I'm thinking they already know when they'll get married, but can't say anything.

Fingersandtoes wrote:Yeah, could be. But I'm thinking they already know when they'll get married, but can't say anything.

Which is probably why it's "last minute" filming. The wedding really could be a cap off to the show. Actually, I'm postive these bachelor/bachelorette parties are gonna air on the show, because Naz and a few other producers are there with them. IMO.

Yeah Lauren snapped Naz in Vegas earlier this week. This could be a fun season finale if it is done right in my opinion.