Re: The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - Epi 9 - July 25th - FS - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

by Guest Wed Jul 20, 2016 9:59 pm

rhondam wrote:
GuardianAngel wrote:Don't offer it if she's not feeling it. Say addio's before the FS IMO. Scripted, maybe a good thing for me, so we get to see a heartbroken F3/TB. IMHO

Seabear wrote:I keep forgetting JoJo is the Lead on this show. Chase getting eliminated after going into the FS before any action has got to be a blow to his ego. Any dude and many gals would feel this way. Sorry...I changed my mind and I'm just not sexually into you......embarrassing. Thanks for saying ILY though...see ya. JMO
JoJo changed her mind and it is more than okay for her to do so and too bad about Chase's ego! Why should his ego be her problem?? I don't see this situation as any different than two people making out and they both want to go all the way but doubt enters one of their minds and they speak up. It is within all of our RIGHTS to change our mind and we shouldn't be ashamed or shamed for doing so. Too many, (women especially) dismiss our reservations because we think we've gone too far already and don't want to be accused of leading him on or being a tease. Or because it's just easier to go through with it, then to get out of it. This is damaging to the most important person involved—ourselves. AJMHOAA

I don't know if this is appropriate to post here, but your comment make me think of this Tea Consent video. Important for both people in a relationship to respect whether or not you want "tea" or if you change your mind. JoJo has the right to make this choice.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQbei5JGiT8

by bluwavz Wed Jul 20, 2016 10:06 pm

I dunno ya'll. I'd be livid if a guy offered me the FS card and I accepted and then he said eh nevermind not feeling it LOL. It's not like you have to have sex. Let me save face and I can go to my room off-camera. I'd be an absolute bitch if this happened to me. cheeky

All JMO.

by rhondam Wed Jul 20, 2016 10:13 pm

Evie that was good!

I see what you're saying Blu but letting him save face, does not help her face. laugh out loud

by **GuardianAngel** Wed Jul 20, 2016 10:14 pm

bluwavz wrote:I dunno ya'll. I'd be livid if a guy offered me the FS card and I accepted and then he said eh nevermind not feeling it LOL. It's not like you have to have sex. Let me save face and I can go to my room off-camera. I'd be an absolute bitch if this happened to me.

All JMO.

I was just going to say that. What if TB did that? speechless

I have a hard time believing JoJo simply changed her mind. All we heard is Chase doesn't open up, Chase is reserved now she understands why Chase is the way he is. She knew without a doubt, Chase didn't stand a chance of being the F1. If she would have taken him to the FS and they spent all evening talking, there wouldn't be an drama, unless she talked about Jordan all night. thailand - The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - Epi 9 - July 25th - FS - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - Page 9 2498057887

thailand - The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - Epi 9 - July 25th - FS - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - Page 9 2498057887

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I know she had no intentions of choosing Chase, so why not let him go during dinner. Because IMO they need a back up heartbroken F3 IMHO.

by mercieme Wed Jul 20, 2016 10:20 pm

I am willing to bet that TPTB asked Jojo to dump Chase in the FS suite as was already speculated since it's never been done before. The dice was cast that Chase was going to leave at some point at F3, they just wanted to add useless drama IMO.

MF tweeted during that period that Jojo did something he couldn't believe. This show tries for originality in the utmost bizzare way that makes no sense just to hurt their cast IMO.

by nd4reality Wed Jul 20, 2016 10:23 pm

I agree. They have had variations of this elimination so they have to make it unique.

by julychild Wed Jul 20, 2016 10:28 pm

bluwavz wrote:I dunno ya'll. I'd be livid if a guy offered me the FS card and I accepted and then he said eh nevermind not feeling it LOL. It's not like you have to have sex. Let me save face and I can go to my room off-camera. I'd be an absolute bitch if this happened to me.

All JMO.

I agree. Chase must have really felt the blow of that rejection, after being willingly invited to the FS, and that's why things turned "tumultuous." He is lucky the producers liked him and gave him the opportunity to go back and apologize for whatever he said (I bet they won't show us the juicy stuff). That or they told him he had to do it if he wanted to be considered for the next Bachelor role.

Those poor folks who get irrationally emotional about a tv show will start the Jojo hate, and go on a sm rampage, after this episode. Brace yourselves, good people!

by Lennoxcolinrolland Wed Jul 20, 2016 10:31 pm

Do we know the order of filming for the FSD?

by sosleepy Wed Jul 20, 2016 10:58 pm

Am I totally not remembering correctly? Didn't Brad let Ashley go in the fantasy suite? At the very least, things went down hill fast there.

I guess I still don't see the big deal being sent home at dinner or once in the suite. IDK. I probably need to see it play out before I can form a true opinion.

by bluwavz Wed Jul 20, 2016 11:01 pm

No Brad pulled Ashley aside at the rose ceremony and then let her go. No one has ever been offered the FS and then kicked out right. Seriously I'd be a bitch. thailand - The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - Epi 9 - July 25th - FS - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - Page 9 1f602

thailand - The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - Epi 9 - July 25th - FS - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - Page 9 1f602

by sosleepy Wed Jul 20, 2016 11:06 pm

Thanks blu. Not sure why I thought he let her go that night.

by mindless Wed Jul 20, 2016 11:08 pm

I don't see the big deal either. Perhaps she wanted to spend some more time with Chase, but then once they got the FS she realised how much harder it would be to lead him on in private vs. in front of the cameras. In any case, I would think it's worse to be cut after a night in the FS. Even if you didn't do the deed, the implication is there.

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