The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - Epi 9 - July 25th - FS - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

That is so beautiful. Great find, lettore.

Aww. Poor Chase. Anyone think he tells her he loves her and then she says she just can't reciprocate those feelings back? Eg sort of the same spiel she gave Alex. Seems like TPTB's play with the slow moving guy who hasn't said ILY before is to get it out of him at all costs and then cut him loose. I don't blame Chase being less than impressed either way though, IMO. But with how caring and compassionate I find Jojo to be I have a hard time imagining she'd really treat Chase badly. I'm going to hope it just comes from trying to spare his feelings, but doesn't work out that way.

JoJo better stay off SM next Monday! Luke and Chase going home the same episode... People are gonna throw daggers at her through their screens..

IMO.

relaxing wrote:Aww. Poor Chase.  Anyone think he tells her he loves her and then she says she just can't reciprocate those feelings back?  Eg sort of the same spiel she gave Alex. Seems like TPTB's play with the slow moving guy who hasn't said ILY before is to get it out of him at all costs and then cut him loose.  I don't blame Chase being less than impressed either way though, IMO. But with how caring and compassionate I find Jojo to be I have a hard time imagining she'd really treat Chase badly.  I'm going to hope it just comes from trying to spare his feelings, but doesn't work out that way.

IMO this brings Chase into the race for Bachelor.  I have mad respect for both he and Luke.  I fear though, we'll get a cast of crazies to balance out the wonderful normalcy of either of these guys.

GuardianAngel wrote:Don't offer it if she's not feeling it. Say addio's before the FS IMO. Scripted, maybe a good thing for me, so we get to see a heartbroken F3/TB. IMHO

Seabear wrote:I keep forgetting JoJo is the Lead on this show. Chase getting eliminated after going into the FS before any action has got to be a blow to his ego. Any dude and many gals would feel this way. Sorry...I changed my mind and I'm just not sexually into you......embarrassing. Thanks for saying ILY though...see ya.    JMO

JoJo changed her mind and it is more than okay for her to do so and too bad about Chase's ego! Why should his ego be her problem??  I don't see this situation as any different than two people making out and they both want to go all the way but doubt enters one of their minds and they speak up. It is within all of our RIGHTS to change our mind and we shouldn't be ashamed or shamed for doing so. Too many, (women especially) dismiss our reservations because we think we've gone too far already and don't want to be accused of leading him on or being a tease. Or because it's just easier to go through with it, then to get out of it. This is damaging to the most important person involved—ourselves. AJMHOAA

Ummm no one says she has to sleep with him if she stays. I don' t think he'd want her to do anything she wouldn't feel comfortable with. However if someone invited me somewhere, that I cared about, to spend sometime alone and then said never mind you should leave I no longer care to spend this quality time with you that I just offered, I would be hurt too. And confused. All in my opinion.

IDK. Is being let go before the audience can assume you slept together worse than being let go right after doing the nasty or the implied implication that you did the nasty? Sometimes it can imply you were the worst in bed out of three people. :shocked!:

I alsways think of poor Nick V. Twice in a row he had very obvious fiancé relations with a lead, and twice that lead regretted it and sent him home soon there after. Draw your own conclusions.

before, definitely before.

I think watching the episode is necessary before drawing any conclusions. Or someone go pick up US Weekly and tell us what it says about the fantasy suites!

IMO.

US weeklyncould also be wrong.

nd4reality wrote:before, definitely before.

I agree. Yeah it sucks not getting to do any hanky panky, but it would be worse to do hanky panky then get sent home right after. IMO. Though both options suck, honestly. This whole show sucks TBH

IMO.

nd4reality wrote:US weeklyncould  also be wrong.

Possibly. But they were right about last season's fantasy suites. And previous seasons too.