MAFS - Season 4 - Nick Pendergrast - Sonia Granados

@Pia1 Nice to see you! IA I hope they have a successful marriage.

GuardianAngel wrote:@Pia1 Nice to see you! IA I hope they have a successful marriage.

Hi GA, Thank you! Me too, I like them a lot.

She seems really insecure, almost too insecure to be marrying someone she doesn't know. At times, it's as though she reads too much into the situation, and it's always as the victim. I'm a little worried about her being too fragile for this show.

IA BusyLizzie she is so sweet and is insecure at this point because she's not sure what Nick is feeling.

I think this is good for Nick, he seems the type to hold him emotions and opinions inside. I hope these two make a go of it.

I think she's super sweet, but I am worried about how insecure she seems. It makes me wonder just how badly hurt she's been. I do hope they make it. Nick needs to maybe open up a little, at the very least, tell her she's beautiful!

I like them and am hoping for the best for them. I want Nick to get a little wild and crazy - he's so stiff all the time. I think the only time he let loose was riding that four-wheeler. Sonia strikes me as someone who needs a sensitive, caring and fun guy. She looks like she gets stuck in her head (thinks about things) too much and needs someone who can lighten her up. I hope Nick's the guy who can do that for her!

BusyLizzie wrote:I think she's super sweet, but I am worried about how insecure she seems. It makes me wonder just how badly hurt she's been. I do hope they make it.  Nick needs to maybe open up a little, at the very least, tell her she's beautiful!

I think they will turn out to be the Jamie and Doug of the season. She is needy as was Jamie and he does not have the joshing sense of humor that Doug did to cajole her, but I do think he is afraid that if he does show his true feelings so soon he might scare her off. I do think he as a sense of humor and I think once he relaxes it will come out, but I think he is trying to play a difficult balancing act right now.

nuts2uiam wrote:

BusyLizzie wrote:I think she's super sweet, but I am worried about how insecure she seems. It makes me wonder just how badly hurt she's been. I do hope they make it.  Nick needs to maybe open up a little, at the very least, tell her she's beautiful!

I think they will turn out to be the Jamie and Doug of the season.  She is needy as was Jamie and he does not have the joshing sense of humor that Doug did to cajole her, but I do think he is afraid that if he does show his true feelings so soon he might scare her off.  I do think he as a sense of humor and I think once he relaxes it will come out, but I think he is trying to play a difficult balancing act right now.

Nuts, you hit the nail on the head.  I totally agree with everything you stated above.  jmo

Sonia is a very insecure person. Nick has lacks the verbal communication skills that Sonia will need in this relationship. From the 1st episode, Sonia was very much lets be friends mentality. That has seem to change but she has not given Nick any indication to that. Nick, seems to be oblivious to all of Sonia's comments and gestures telling him I want more. Now it seems in the previews, he says something that pisses her off. I like these two but Nick needs to put on some glasses and verbalize how he feels.

I know these 2 have some things to work on but I still like them. Hope they make it.

I like them too. I think Nick is the type of guy that doesn't have an easy time revealing his feelings to begin with. I hope they resolve their issues, but they do seem to have fun together.

Both lack confidence in different ways. IF Sonia wants more physical contact, then lay one on him and get his reaction. She is married to him. Nick is so focus on building a friendship with Sonia he has lost sight of this is also a marriage.