Caila Quinn - BIP - Season 3 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

siena wrote:I will never understand why Caila gets called a "backstabbing wh*re" by AshleyI for wanting to date Jared but Emily seemingly doesn't get the same terrible treatment? Ashley and Emily were friendly too before BIP, as evidenced by the tweets below (with Ashley even calling Emily her soul sister). Emily wanted to date Jared on the show and did exactly the same thing Caila did, but Emily has received no backlash from AshleyI and has never been called a wh*re by her. Ashley hasn't liked tweets criticising Emily either. In fact AshleyI was just hanging out and tweeting with Emily yesterday. The hypocrisy is astounding.

Is it just because even though Emily went after Jared too, Ashley's main issue was actually down to the fact that she's jealous that Jared sees a future with Caila? If that's the case then can AshelyI please refrain from insinuating Caila is a bad friend for dating Jared or pretending it's about some moral code since IMHO there should at least be some moral consistency to her arguments. Ashley also tweeted that it wasn't hypocritical of her to date Jared on BIP because Kaitlyn was the one who dumped him. Well Emily never dumped Jared so I'm not sure why Emily can pursue Jared but somehow Caila is a bad person for doing the same thing? Caila did nothing wrong. And the sad part is that Ashley probably came up with this excuse precisely because she knew it was the only way she could attempt to reframe her own terrible behavior. Worse still, she didn't even leave it on the show and instead continued to insinuate that Caila was a bad friend on social media this month. I still find that disgusting, but I wouldn't be surprised if Ashley's realized how bad it makes her look and she might post something similar to Emily (especially if they're watching the show together).

It's the hypocrisy and faux victimhood that bothers me the most.

All JMO.