Josh Murray - BIP - Famously Single - Season 3 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

ExNick probably didn't want to mess up his weeks looking after the girls. How would he be able to try and weasel himself out of paying support for the month?

However, I hope they didn't go to Mexico. Being in the middle of camera crew and all those people, strange place, hot, strange food? I'd rather them meet in a more normal environment.

IA with Seabear, I have a feeling those girls already know who Josh Murray is.

How old are they? 2 and 4? They probably are just learning who/where their noses are, I doubt they care who Josh Murray is at this point in the game as long as their mom is there and not flirting and flitting about with Josh Murray. Jmo.

Yeah, I would never let my kids on this show, no matter how young. So I guess point Nick2, even though it was probably all spite for him and less to protect his girls. Assuming that's what happened.

I have a feeling TPTB did their best to get the girls down to Mexico and didn't have success, whether it was Nick2 who resisted or Amanda, who knows. But I can almost guarantee that if they flew MM down to Mexico they wanted Amanda's family too.

The girls are too young to understand anything but that they are being loved and taken care of right now, so introducing Josh into the situation slowly and in a more comfortable setting is best. And all the Murray snark aside, I think Josh is very willing and capable of loving Amanda (& her daughters) as much as he loves his mom, sister, Sabel etc.  It's just a different kind of love and I wouldn't compare them.  This love hasn't had the time to really develop yet, but I think it can & it will if they stay together.

Josh has shown how devoted he is to family. That is EVERYTHING to him and I believe that is how he envisions his life to be with his future wife and kids. Focused on family and spending quality time together. To me this is a win-win for all involved, including those adorable girls who could get a wonderful, doting father out of all of this.

TA with all you posted about Josh. Amanda snd those girls have the potential to bring out the best in him for sure.

You know I do think at the core Josh is a good person. I just worry about his temper flaring up. Amanda's a beautiful girl, imagine him sanctioning who she can pose in pictures with or guys she can add on Twitter?

Are well allowed do discuss Josh in here and vice versa? I'm guessing a Josh and Amanda thread would spoil things.

bleuberry wrote:You know I do think at thr core Josh is a good person. I just worry about his temper flaring up. Amanda's a beautiful girl, imagine him sanctioning who she can pose in pictures with or guys she can add on Twitter?

IA. I wonder about this too and his immaturity. 

She's very docile so perhaps it'll all be fine when it comes to just them. I'm more interested in his relationship with Nick2.

And for the record, Josh, not us posters, is the person who started posting who his "favorite" is and saying he loves Andi more than his family on the show. Later, he decided he loves his mom more than "anything" aka Andi when they were breaking up that Nov. It just speaks to his immaturity imo. What's it going to be like if he's not the favorite daddy with the girls? 

Lots of interesting questions here to me.

In Josh's defense, maybe he isn't so quick with his temper. I didn't watch Andi's season so I didn't see him in action but I know my husband is a pretty mellow guy until pushed to the brink and then he will bite back. Maybe being with Andi brought out another side to Josh that isn't there with anyone else. Did any of his exes come out and say what their relationship was like with him? Andi seems to me that she likes to push buttons to get attention and she does it very well.

babs wrote:In Josh's defense, maybe he isn't so quick with his temper.  I didn't watch Andi's season so I didn't see him in action but I know my husband is a pretty mellow guy until pushed to the brink and then he will bite back.  Maybe being with Andi brought out another side to Josh that isn't there with anyone else.  Did any of his exes come out and say what their relationship was like with him?  Andi seems to me that she likes to push buttons to get attention and she does it very well.

And Nick2 won't push buttons!?

babs wrote:In Josh's defense, maybe he isn't so quick with his temper.  I didn't watch Andi's season so I didn't see him in action but I know my husband is a pretty mellow guy until pushed to the brink and then he will bite back.  Maybe being with Andi brought out another side to Josh that isn't there with anyone else.  Did any of his exes come out and say what their relationship was like with him?  Andi seems to me that she likes to push buttons to get attention and she does it very well.

Josh's brother, Aaron mentioned Josh's firey temper at one time. I think he is very aware and controlled in front of the cameras and away from them maybe not so much. Do I think he is a totally bad guy, NO but I also don't think he's the greatest guy people paint him as either.

bleuberry wrote:You know I do think at the core Josh is a good person. I just worry about his temper flaring up. Amanda's a beautiful girl, imagine him sanctioning who she can pose in pictures with or guys she can add on Twitter?

Are well allowed do discuss Josh in here and vice versa? I'm guessing a Josh and Amanda thread would spoil things.

I always likded Josh! That changed a few weeks ago. My friend met Josh in a bar in ATL, and it was not the nicest experience.
So I worry about his temper too!!!

^^^^ Yes, to all that babs!!!

Andi's book was written like a prosecutor giving a closing argument. She manipulated every situation, argument etc. to make even Josh's good qualities seem like flaws or red flags.  I think he has a temper for sure, but I think the Joshbear came out in full force with Andi's nastiness.  

And no, none of his exes have ever come out and said anything negative about him. Just Andi.

Alanna, Love your snark always but I took Josh's professions of love on the show differently than you. I think he overused the phrase "love more than anything" about Andi, his mom, his family etc. but it was just a phrase to mean he really, really loved something. I don't think it was meant as an actual ranking. I say that sometimes about random things, like food. "I love cookie dough ice cream more than anything!" But I don't actually mean it.